white
dancing
salsa
depends on outfit
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babies scare me. they are parasitic aliens
neither
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dancing
salsa
depends on outfit
depends on occassion
babies scare me. they are parasitic aliens
neither
pink
depends on the partner
paper
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Her intuition is telling that "that he is tring to protect the aqua from a friend-snacher ex...."
Its just an uncomfortable position to be in...Always is when friends are involved..Scorps are protective of their friends..and do get jealous..He could be seeing all sorts right now..what if you and aqua get it together, then him and aqua start disagreeing on things cos he's sticking up for you etc etc..it changes the friendship altogether..You get the idea right..
Don't think about it..
Its just an uncomfortable position to be in...Always is when friends are involved..Scorps are protective of their friends..and do get jealous..He could be seeing all sorts right now..what if you and aqua get it together, then him and aqua start disagreeing on things cos he's sticking up for you etc etc..it changes the friendship altogether..You get the idea right..
Don't think about it..
Interesting . . .
So, if we take the view of looking at love from the perspective of each individual's reality (the kind of love in reference being a partnership), then, really, anything can be the meaning of love, even if it's not viewed as a loving gesture from the other.
As in, quote, "these are material things. it doesn't count as love. there's still a lack of it. what about the emotional intimacy? communication? initiative to care about their partners without being asked. kindness. compassion. like helping their partners do some household chores, take care of their kids, clean the house and work with them as a team than just clubbing, or watching tv/sleeping?"
If every gesture, expression, word, aid, everything . . came from, "if what the person feel is love and not just an obligation", then, because it's viewed as "not" being loved by the partner isn't necessarily accurate.
So, where is the solution? There isn't one, is there?
So, if we take the view of looking at love from the perspective of each individual's reality (the kind of love in reference being a partnership), then, really, anything can be the meaning of love, even if it's not viewed as a loving gesture from the other.
As in, quote, "these are material things. it doesn't count as love. there's still a lack of it. what about the emotional intimacy? communication? initiative to care about their partners without being asked. kindness. compassion. like helping their partners do some household chores, take care of their kids, clean the house and work with them as a team than just clubbing, or watching tv/sleeping?"
If every gesture, expression, word, aid, everything . . came from, "if what the person feel is love and not just an obligation", then, because it's viewed as "not" being loved by the partner isn't necessarily accurate.
So, where is the solution? There isn't one, is there?
The last time we actually chatted was around the time she went to visit some family out of town. She seemed diminished somehow, like distant, which was weird. Before this we had made plans several times, and each time she flaked out, placing the blame on the fact that she couldn't get a hold of the person I know that knows her who was also going to be included in the plans. Like maybe a week later I left her a cute little comment to let me know when she was back in town or whatever, but I never got anything back. Eventually I got annoyed and deleted her from my friends. Later I found out that two family members had passed on, so she was all messed up from it, and had a new boyfriend as well, so I felt really bad, and sent her an apology. That was like 3 months ago, and I still have never heard anything from her. I used to have her phone number, but it stopped working.
I possess all three character traits at some point, though I have no tattoos.
In some situations I am very emotionally open and affectionate. In other situations I am intellectual and aloof. And when I get a cause I find just, I can easily show my temper or do some outrageous things. I actually think all of us are all of these things, but depending on how and when you meet us, know us then that's what you are seeing.
I wish more people would be willing to change. I see a very unhappy woman at work and I see that she's never changed herself in over 30 years. Changing for the part that I WANT TO PLAY is part of my very nature.
In some situations I am very emotionally open and affectionate. In other situations I am intellectual and aloof. And when I get a cause I find just, I can easily show my temper or do some outrageous things. I actually think all of us are all of these things, but depending on how and when you meet us, know us then that's what you are seeing.
I wish more people would be willing to change. I see a very unhappy woman at work and I see that she's never changed herself in over 30 years. Changing for the part that I WANT TO PLAY is part of my very nature.
Patronising git!
I know...but you have to...you will go crazy...You must distract yourself..
Deep breath, do your yoga..put it out of your mind..you will go insane..
Deep breath, do your yoga..put it out of your mind..you will go insane..
*** pssst . . sometimes I have a hard time understanding details (you did great explaining).
I do have one relationship that is unconditional . . I would do anything for my son, for any reason, and go beyond any means. But, only him, no other.
I do have one relationship that is unconditional . . I would do anything for my son, for any reason, and go beyond any means. But, only him, no other.
::MM gets chocolate in a headlock and warns her to stop stealing her thoughts::
Wait . . don't quote me, I take that back.
I won't have sex with him . . . ewwwwww, now I have to vomit.
I won't have sex with him . . . ewwwwww, now I have to vomit.
When you get older though, and your son starts having his own personality and life that doesn't include you... we set up conditions to continue the relationships that mutually benefit each other.
And even with your son, you are always trying to balance what's best for him and what's best for you (though when he's younger 'you' simply don't matter as much.)
These are the conditions of a healthy natural relationship.
And even with your son, you are always trying to balance what's best for him and what's best for you (though when he's younger 'you' simply don't matter as much.)
These are the conditions of a healthy natural relationship.