We need to protect someone?

I always tend to find myself in relationships where I start to realize that the person has too many " problems " for me whether it be finacally, their way of thinking or family issues I find that it's kind of a turn off, especially if the problems are too early in the relationship, if I like them enough I'll try to ignore it, but it can't be on pretty overbearing and annoying for the BEGINING of something.