Ok, Virgo Men.....Please respond.
hey, i realize i just kinda repeated myself.... i did listen to your advice, i guess i will wait at least until friday or monday to email him.... if he doesn't respond then at least i'll know, i hate not knowing if this is really it or not.... but also think he must know that he hurt me and he should be willing to come back to me and say sorry... why can't they do that, why do WE have to be the ones to always get it back on track or get them to start calling again, etc? Isn't it kinda crazy?....
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I've heard a lot about it, it is really that good?
i'm more a mitsubishi fan myself
welcome to the boards flip
cap girl here ...also dating a scorp.
if you decide to continue pursuing this capricious cap...
how to woo a cap ex-lover who's just one week out of a relationship... you've started out well, flip... offered yourself to lean on. cap was fickle the first round huh? she had her reasons to doubt and was skiddish perhaps? happens to me, so i understand what being fickle is like. working hard to understand why and make myself more vulnerable, i think a lot about this stuff. speaking for myself and i know this goes for many a fellow cap as well.. male/female... we are sensible people... actions speak louder than words. back your words up, man. nothing touches my heart more than someone who communicates what they feel for me through not only their words, but even more importantly! their actions. just offering your listening ear and advice might not be enough. its nice, but its like you're chucking the basketball at her gut and just complacently waiting for her to throw it back. hate to say it, but she may need to see you do more in order for her to come around cuz talk is easy. give it some time first. check in later. i'm tempted to suggest that you may want to pry into her because we caps are shelled beings when unsure, and she seems to be unsure about you. the reason why i hesitate to make that suggestion is because we are hard to predict... sometimes pushing is good, but it can also be bad. you'd have to be sensitive enough to her to know when to and when not to. though at the same time we do long for someone who can penetrate our walls in such a way that our walls melt away for that person. use your instincts and if all senses say it's ok and good... dont give up an impulse to do something nice once or twice
caps like a solid, decided, committed lover ...at the beginning (even the second beginning) of a relationship that could be a lot to ask for... dont let her catch wind that you're keeping your options open, she wont believe that you're serious and there go all your brownie points
be a steady, loving, caring friend right now ...thats a no pressure situation for her and she'll be easy minded about you which will give her room to look at you and notice the qualities she's looking for in a guy.
and remember... she has to see that you mean what you feel ...that goes for always, not just in the initial woo-ing.
if you choose to heed any of this i hope it helps, and good luck!
cap girl here ...also dating a scorp.
if you decide to continue pursuing this capricious cap...
how to woo a cap ex-lover who's just one week out of a relationship... you've started out well, flip... offered yourself to lean on. cap was fickle the first round huh? she had her reasons to doubt and was skiddish perhaps? happens to me, so i understand what being fickle is like. working hard to understand why and make myself more vulnerable, i think a lot about this stuff. speaking for myself and i know this goes for many a fellow cap as well.. male/female... we are sensible people... actions speak louder than words. back your words up, man. nothing touches my heart more than someone who communicates what they feel for me through not only their words, but even more importantly! their actions. just offering your listening ear and advice might not be enough. its nice, but its like you're chucking the basketball at her gut and just complacently waiting for her to throw it back. hate to say it, but she may need to see you do more in order for her to come around cuz talk is easy. give it some time first. check in later. i'm tempted to suggest that you may want to pry into her because we caps are shelled beings when unsure, and she seems to be unsure about you. the reason why i hesitate to make that suggestion is because we are hard to predict... sometimes pushing is good, but it can also be bad. you'd have to be sensitive enough to her to know when to and when not to. though at the same time we do long for someone who can penetrate our walls in such a way that our walls melt away for that person. use your instincts and if all senses say it's ok and good... dont give up an impulse to do something nice once or twice
caps like a solid, decided, committed lover ...at the beginning (even the second beginning) of a relationship that could be a lot to ask for... dont let her catch wind that you're keeping your options open, she wont believe that you're serious and there go all your brownie points
be a steady, loving, caring friend right now ...thats a no pressure situation for her and she'll be easy minded about you which will give her room to look at you and notice the qualities she's looking for in a guy.
and remember... she has to see that you mean what you feel ...that goes for always, not just in the initial woo-ing.if you choose to heed any of this i hope it helps, and good luck!
welcome again, dude. any clue what it is about her, flip? other than there's 'something about her' i see you've described her as a bitch... what keeps you coming back? know what it is that you want, what you love and what you can and cant forgive. i know its not as easy as snap, but you should think about that.
and i also left a lengthy reply to your request for advice on the scorp board.
and i also left a lengthy reply to your request for advice on the scorp board.
"don't go kissing her ass if you don't see her coming back around. if you act like a doormat, she will treat you like one. Move on and find someone that wont make you jump through hoops of fire in order to be with them."
ayayaye... this makes me wince... theres a difference between making your presence and feelings known in action vs. yes... ass kissing and being a doormat. just be sensible, realistic and you should be fine.
"BTW, I forgot to mention that I also have another interest too, but I am keeping my options open.... You can never know what will come ur way...."
this also makes me wince... know what you want. if this is your mindset 'be on the lookout for something better that might come along' then i should tell you that caps play for keeps. we're the committed types, and rarely anything else so if you're just out to play the field then consider her feelings please. whether she's a bitch or not, dont be one yourself.
ayayaye... this makes me wince... theres a difference between making your presence and feelings known in action vs. yes... ass kissing and being a doormat. just be sensible, realistic and you should be fine.
"BTW, I forgot to mention that I also have another interest too, but I am keeping my options open.... You can never know what will come ur way...."
this also makes me wince... know what you want. if this is your mindset 'be on the lookout for something better that might come along' then i should tell you that caps play for keeps. we're the committed types, and rarely anything else so if you're just out to play the field then consider her feelings please. whether she's a bitch or not, dont be one yourself.
The Hollow (A Perfect Circle)
Run desire run
Sexual being
Run him like a blade
To and through the heart
No conscience
One Motive
Cater to the hollow
Screaming feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacify this hungering
So grow
Libido throw
Dominoes of indiscretions down
Falling all around
In cycles
In circles
Constantly consuming
Conquer and devour
Cause it's time to bring the fire down
Bridle all this indiscretion
Long enough to edify
And permanently fill this hollow
Screaming feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacifying
Feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacifying
Run desire run
Sexual being
Run him like a blade
To and through the heart
No conscience
One Motive
Cater to the hollow
Screaming feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacify this hungering
So grow
Libido throw
Dominoes of indiscretions down
Falling all around
In cycles
In circles
Constantly consuming
Conquer and devour
Cause it's time to bring the fire down
Bridle all this indiscretion
Long enough to edify
And permanently fill this hollow
Screaming feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacifying
Feed me here
Fill me up again
Temporarily pacifying
life isnt overly great right now, nor is it overly horrible. it's content for something like a hard days work ...for efforts and for love that is... what it should be... realy what it should be. so the garden needs a shower of this water cans content. i want to grow this more with you. these roots reach into that place. i want to grow this more with myself. these branches are full and reach out. i feel so softened on a day like this and still so much stronger. i will have to tell you ... thank you.
"Bran you are a confirmed wanker."
I think what Brandon did is very introspective and very useful. As for being wanker, I think you are someone who is very jealous and probably will end up wanking tonight. Yeah I know, life sucks, but some people like you suck it harder.
I think what Brandon did is very introspective and very useful. As for being wanker, I think you are someone who is very jealous and probably will end up wanking tonight. Yeah I know, life sucks, but some people like you suck it harder.
Hi, Rikely. You met him under pretenses of sex, so that's pretty much how he sees this relationship. As long as you make yourself available to him, despite him being upfront about it being purely casual, he's going to have sex with you.
From what I read, you met him twice for sex and then told him you were interested in more. That's a short amount of time to really know if you're interested in something more from someone.
One thing you might not have thought about: if he hooked up with you by way of a sexy post, I'm willing to bet that you're not the only one who he's hooked up with or even hooking up with. Protect yourself, girl!
From what I read, you met him twice for sex and then told him you were interested in more. That's a short amount of time to really know if you're interested in something more from someone.
One thing you might not have thought about: if he hooked up with you by way of a sexy post, I'm willing to bet that you're not the only one who he's hooked up with or even hooking up with. Protect yourself, girl!