Virgo friends issues...
Still, you are looking at this like it's YOU, and not an object. That is what Q-bone meant. The pathetic and naive part wasn't YOU . . it was the object of the action.
"not a bunch of assumptions about my feelings and whatnot, obviously fueled by some kind of bias developed toward people with the Cancer sign."
See, your emotional response takes over, thinking that it's personal. Once you can rip this away, your communication with the Virgo will be a lot easier. You'll then understand that in reality - they don't need help - you do, I do, everybody other than them, because that is what they are.
My words in here, to you, have nothing to do with YOU, rather, the theory of relating to the Virgo. You're not understanding that.
"Just simply wanted some advice to see if I could help"
Again, I will say: You can't help them to cope. Whatever it is you're concerned about, whether it's the worrying, the stressing, the negativity, EVERYTHING . . the Virgo HAS to do these things, they HAVE to find their own answers and their own internal peace . . . because this is who they are.
To fuss over them, or show concern to them for being "worried" about something . . will push them away, because they have to fret and stress, it's apart of their internal engines that keep them sane. To express this concern too much, seems over-bearing, smothering and intrusive.
Again, I'm talking about this as an object . . not a person who's Cancer, named RedSparrowe.
You wanted some insight, that's what I have to offer. Suggestions on how to understand the Virgo in regards to assisting them with their troubles and I've done that. How you percieve my words, is up to you. You can hear them for thier meaning (objectively), or, you can take it personally (sujectively), and let it hurt you.
"not a bunch of assumptions about my feelings and whatnot, obviously fueled by some kind of bias developed toward people with the Cancer sign."
See, your emotional response takes over, thinking that it's personal. Once you can rip this away, your communication with the Virgo will be a lot easier. You'll then understand that in reality - they don't need help - you do, I do, everybody other than them, because that is what they are.
My words in here, to you, have nothing to do with YOU, rather, the theory of relating to the Virgo. You're not understanding that.
"Just simply wanted some advice to see if I could help"
Again, I will say: You can't help them to cope. Whatever it is you're concerned about, whether it's the worrying, the stressing, the negativity, EVERYTHING . . the Virgo HAS to do these things, they HAVE to find their own answers and their own internal peace . . . because this is who they are.
To fuss over them, or show concern to them for being "worried" about something . . will push them away, because they have to fret and stress, it's apart of their internal engines that keep them sane. To express this concern too much, seems over-bearing, smothering and intrusive.
Again, I'm talking about this as an object . . not a person who's Cancer, named RedSparrowe.
You wanted some insight, that's what I have to offer. Suggestions on how to understand the Virgo in regards to assisting them with their troubles and I've done that. How you percieve my words, is up to you. You can hear them for thier meaning (objectively), or, you can take it personally (sujectively), and let it hurt you.
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Cap ...Are U so desperate to get the good old charm back ? U wud go to any extent to please. What a waste of emotion. Sorry I had to be harsh here.
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But U can ensure that nobody goes to grave coz of U ...at least.
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G:"But U can ensure that nobody goes to grave coz of U ...at least."
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what extent i have gone to?"
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