Virgo friends issues...
RedSparrowe,
That was an example of being concerned about your friends, not the item itself being "critical of you". My point was, to say you're not concerned about somebody, and then say, you want to help your friends, are referencing two different issues, however the same principal. The example was used for the sole purpose of relaying the concept of the word, "concern".
Second, to make an assumption of how one FEELS would be illogical. If it appeared as though I was making an assumption about YOU, then that is because you choose to own it as such, when in reality, I was explaining WHY the Virgo cannot be helped with their inner workings and how they process.
I understand your concerns: They are as such: 1) you want to know if anybody has suggestions on how to cool Virgo's analytical thought processes, 2) that being analytical affects them negatively, mostly with how they see the world, 3) you want them to calm down, and, 4) you don't like seeing them get overworked and stressed so much.
Let me approach this from another angle . . imagine if you weren't allowed to crawl inside your shell to hide, or recover, or think, or whatever the reason is that you need to withdraw? You can't. Being a crab, you have to have your place for solitude.
Me, being a Pisces, if someone told me that living simultaneously between the real and the surreal was something that needed some assistance because they are worried about me . . I would consider them clinically insane . . because I am a fish, that is me. To live solely in reality means my death.
What if the Gemini was told that they could only have ONE friend, and no others? They HAVE to HAVE multitudes of people in their life to survive because that is who they are.
My point is that, the Virgo being worked up over something, their excessive analytical thought processes . . is their natural state in which they NEED to survive. I'm very understanding of the fact that you feel a need to aid them, or assist them, or find some avenue to cool this, and calm this down inside of them and what I'm telling you is that this is only YOUR need . . not theirs. The Virgo will stress until he drops dead because this is his safety zone, within his comtemplations and his constant analyzing, he is comfortable, he is content, he finds strength.
You are wanting to fix something in them that you think is broken, but, it's not broken. They don't WANT you to fix them. You want YOU to fix them.
That was an example of being concerned about your friends, not the item itself being "critical of you". My point was, to say you're not concerned about somebody, and then say, you want to help your friends, are referencing two different issues, however the same principal. The example was used for the sole purpose of relaying the concept of the word, "concern".
Second, to make an assumption of how one FEELS would be illogical. If it appeared as though I was making an assumption about YOU, then that is because you choose to own it as such, when in reality, I was explaining WHY the Virgo cannot be helped with their inner workings and how they process.
I understand your concerns: They are as such: 1) you want to know if anybody has suggestions on how to cool Virgo's analytical thought processes, 2) that being analytical affects them negatively, mostly with how they see the world, 3) you want them to calm down, and, 4) you don't like seeing them get overworked and stressed so much.
Let me approach this from another angle . . imagine if you weren't allowed to crawl inside your shell to hide, or recover, or think, or whatever the reason is that you need to withdraw? You can't. Being a crab, you have to have your place for solitude.
Me, being a Pisces, if someone told me that living simultaneously between the real and the surreal was something that needed some assistance because they are worried about me . . I would consider them clinically insane . . because I am a fish, that is me. To live solely in reality means my death.
What if the Gemini was told that they could only have ONE friend, and no others? They HAVE to HAVE multitudes of people in their life to survive because that is who they are.
My point is that, the Virgo being worked up over something, their excessive analytical thought processes . . is their natural state in which they NEED to survive. I'm very understanding of the fact that you feel a need to aid them, or assist them, or find some avenue to cool this, and calm this down inside of them and what I'm telling you is that this is only YOUR need . . not theirs. The Virgo will stress until he drops dead because this is his safety zone, within his comtemplations and his constant analyzing, he is comfortable, he is content, he finds strength.
You are wanting to fix something in them that you think is broken, but, it's not broken. They don't WANT you to fix them. You want YOU to fix them.
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