Well, that's certainly true . . feelings are everything to me, though, my communication doesn't necessarily project that. Who can handle someone so emotional, yet, tight-assed, at the same time? You know, someone who, when you come home from work, you don't know whether the frying pan in my hand is for cooking, or, for knocking sense into ya?
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Signed Up: Mar 20, 2006 Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"His best friend told me a long time back, Time and space is what will get him..I keep hearing that in my left ear still..." -that is too funny b/c my aqua's best friend once told me something similar...he said that if i just play it cool in the relationship and let him do his thing, and don't push him at all...he will be with me forever.
Signed Up: Mar 15, 2006 Comments: 0 · Posts: 371 · Topics: 13
Hey flip, welcome! Another Cap girl here involved in a Cap-Scorpio relationship. I think CP said it well enough here but I'll just offer my two cents...this girl sounds like she is pretty young and fickle and doesn't know herself yet. The fickle part kind of sounds like me in my late teenage yrs into my early 20's. Except I would never be that heartless! Us Caps go through an insecure period for most of our lives but especially moreso when we are younger. If I were in her situation and you were to give me a timeframe on when I had to tell you if I wanted to be with you or not, I would see that as weakness on your part...again, that's just me, she may it see it differently. We need a strong confident partner...someone who will respect us but not put up with our shit and tell us when we are wrong. But you better leave you are going to get it right back! We need an equal, a voice in the relationship. But you are on the right track with being patient, diligent, and keeping it real and direct.
Signed Up: Mar 20, 2006 Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
starfish...your story sounds way too familiar!!! everything you just described above is like reading about my relationship with my aqua. we have been together on and off since april 2004...and we were also split up for 4 months this last time. and i do tend to push him too much and get mad at him for stupid little things... it's just so strange how similar they all can be...weird!!!
Signed Up: Mar 20, 2006 Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
"moonchild...the worst is trying to get a committment for something like a wedding. i have a wedding dec 29th....he is all, hmmm....that is so far away. i told him he had to tell me by tomorrow or i was going alone" -i can relate to this completely b/c i have 2 weddings coming up, one in feb. and one in april and he cannot commit to either one. well, he told me last week that he is going home the week of the feb. wedding, and then he tried to tell me that i never invited him to the wedding...whatever! and with the april wedding, i need to know b/c it is in cancun, mx...but of course, he cannot give me an answer on that one either. i mean, c'mon it's cancun...how do you say no!!!
Yes, it seems like they're analyzing "things" around them. But they're not just checking someone in particular. And they're like magnets, attracting people without even wanting/trying to, staying cool as ever, while analyzing anything.. but you, HOW FRUSTRATING!!! makes you do the weirdest thing to draw the attention on you =D