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Riley
You are being way too black and white. Libras are NEVER black and white. We are contrasts.
What I am trying to say is that for a Libra ... sex is just sex. Sex is not the way to our hearts. We can have sex with you and not be emotionally attached.
Generally, we like people. He is being your friend because he is your friend.
I don't get why this is confusing to you but I warn you don't do the emotional blackmail thing. Eventually it will blow up in your face. If you want to be his friend, be his friend.
If you want a romantic relationship with him, that isn't on the table right now.
be honest with yourself first.
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BTW, if I am going to fool around sexually with someone who I am not in a relationship with, I would rather they be a friend. It doesn't mean I love them or want a relationship with them. It means we are friends. I trust them.
I love my friends. That doesn't mean we would work out romantically but I still love them.
Does this make sense to you?
Old Jake,
You nailed it. This is exactly how my Cap felt after his 6-year granddaughter was killed in a car accident a few months ago.
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
Itz common to crib ...A very normal habit.
Simple answer to that one dont bother no-one is interested. Sorry but its just the way it looks to me!!!
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This is the sitch....
I have a very good Cancer friend whom I just love dearly. She met this guy at a birthday party through his cousin, and they started dating. Not too long into their dating phase, they started having sex. She thought everything was heavenly bliss and she started developing very strong feelings for the guy.
Fast forward to last week...She broached the subject of a relationship with him as she felt they were on the same page and she thought the feelings were mutual. He turns around and tells her he is not looking for a relationship @ this point in his life...come to find out he got really burned by his last relationship w/ another Cancer girl and he has been a commitment-phobe since then. He told her he only saw them as fuck buddies, basically and he never promised anything. She pushed and pushed, trying to get him to trust her, and then got really belligerent practically forcing him to commit and told him she was going to walk out. One thing I do know about this guy is he does not like ultimatums! They both have MySpace accounts and she started leaving 'fuck you' messages, 'stop feeding me bullshit' messages and derogatory graphics and images on her page for him to find. Granted, I told her I thought that was pretty immature at her age...but whatever. Point being, how would you Cancer girls handle this situation if you were in her shoes? She feels that he used her; and he shouldn't get away with it. What's sad is that she has been heartbroken in the past and she feels like this is just "one more guy to add to the growing pile of loser men"...as she terms it. Can Cancer girls be very vindictive and strike back @ someone if hurt? I guess me being a Cap I can understand this to some degree because no one fucks with my heart, but I just don't see how being so vindictive to the point of embarrassing him on a social website will benefit her. I guess I have too much pride to let a guy see how much he hurt me.
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