Cutting a Pisces man out of my life
Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Your post is all over the place. I don't see him doing anything wrong. It was FWB. He stuck to the rules...
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
I left because he lied to me, I guess the FWB girlfriend thing was just another issue but the fact that he was lying to me period is the issue. I feel as though I can't have a friendship with someone who isn't honest with us in the long run, as I'm sure his current girlfriend wouldn't be too happy with him talking to me and I don't want to cause them to fight.
What was the lie
Let's be fair here... Based on what you've written, it seems like you lied to him too. You signed up for a FWB, but your feelings for him were MORE than that of a friend. Don't be mad because he lied just like you...click to expand
We had rules our main one being if we started dating someone else we would tell each other. He didn't do that and lied about several things to hide that from me. We live far which is why we decided on FWB but we visit when possible, he had planned a stay with me and didn't want to cancel even though he has girlfriend! when we originally decided to meet up again (a week before this happened) we both weren't wanting relationships and he lied to me then too apparently. I told him getting together was not fair to her or I and he got mad. I told him it's not appropriate she wouldn't be happy with you sharing a bed with me knowing our past even if we weren't being physical. He said "but we're just friends" and that's when I told him it's only fair to her that we stop talking. I told him I wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was close with a girl he was romantic with and talked to everyday, he saw my point but fought it. I don't want be a cause of fights between them, I don't think he was expecting me with leave, but I don't want to tempt him or myself.
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Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Your post is all over the place. I don't see him doing anything wrong. It was FWB. He stuck to the rules... You didn't. Then retaliated by cutting him off.
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
I left because he lied to me, I guess the FWB girlfriend thing was just another issue but the fact that he was lying to me period is the issue. I feel as though I can't have a friendship with someone who isn't honest with us in the long run, as I'm sure his current girlfriend wouldn't be too happy with him talking to me and I don't want to cause them to fight.
What was the lie
Let's be fair here... Based on what you've written, it seems like you lied to him too. You signed up for a FWB, but your feelings for him were MORE than that of a friend. Don't be mad because he lied just like you...click to expand
We had rules our main one being if we started dating someone else we would tell each other. He didn't do that and lied about several things to hide that from me. We live far which is why we decided on FWB but we visit when possible, he had planned a stay with me and didn't want to cancel even though he has girlfriend! when we originally decided to meet up again (a week before this hapoened) we both weren't wanting relationships and he lied to me then too apparently. I told him getting together was not fair to her or I and he got mad. I told him it's not appropriate she wouldn't be happy with you sharing a bed with me knowing our past even if we weren't being physical. He said "but we're just friends" and that's when I told him it's only fair to her that we stop talking. I told him wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was close with a girl he was romantic with everyday, he saw my point but fought it. I don't want be a cause of fights between them, I don't think he was expecting me with leave, but I don't want to tempt him or myself.
Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Your post is all over the place. I don't see him doing anything wrong. It was FWB. He stuck to the rules...
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
I left because he lied to me, I guess the FWB girlfriend thing was just another issue but the fact that he was lying to me period is the issue. I feel as though I can't have a friendship with someone who isn't honest with us in the long run, as I'm sure his current girlfriend wouldn't be too happy with him talking to me and I don't want to cause them to fight.
What was the lie
Let's be fair here... Based on what you've written, it seems like you lied to him too. You signed up for a FWB, but your feelings for him were MORE than that of a friend. Don't be mad because he lied just like you...click to expand
We had rules our main one being if we started dating someone else we would tell each other. He didn't do that and lied about several things to hide that from me. We live far which is why we decided on FWB but we visit when possible, he had planned a stay with me and didn't want to cancel even though he has girlfriend! when we originally decided to meet up again (a week before this happened) we both weren't wanting relationships and he lied to me then too apparently. I told him getting together was not fair to her or I and he got mad. I told him it's not appropriate she wouldn't be happy with you sharing a bed with me knowing our past even if we weren't being physical. He said "but we're just friends" and that's when I told him it's only fair to her that we stop talking. I told him wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was close with a girl he was romantic with and talked to everyday, he saw my point but fought it. I don't want be a cause of fights between them, I don't think he was expecting me with leave, but I don't want to tempt him or myself.
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After reading through everything I'm still confused if this is a humble brag post or the op is really questioning it.
Either way all I really want to know is did you get shit on your dick from going backdoor?
Either way all I really want to know is did you get shit on your dick from going backdoor?
Posted by brianafayThe cops, for the most part, are trying to do their jobs.
But it is the police job to maintain order for the safety and welfare of others, and this widespread escalating defiant attitude is impeding their ability to do so.
Idk about you, but if that person they're stopping was involved in a crime that affected me or my loved ones, I would want them to be able to do their job. All this jackassery is nothing but a obstruction to due process and you're doing it to yourself when you behave that way.
Now, there are agendas IMHO that are in play by certain interests to nationalize local police forces. Fostering attitudes like what you mention plays into that.
I know some will argue otherwise, but I for one am not interested in having a nationalized police force (especially with the current group of jokers in DC). Nationalized police don't always work out too well for the public.
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When I was in college, I tried dating less attractive men hoping they'd have more substance. But these unattractive guys thought they were as great looking as the handsome guys I usually dated and were equally obnoxious in the bargain. I gave it up while gazing at an unattractive guy over a dinner date table in a restaurant one night, thinking" at least if I were with somebody gorgeous, I'd at have that".
Upshot is, unattractive guys think they're hot anyway, so go out with whoever you like. At least you'll have an awesome looking guy around for awhile. LoL. Good luck.
Upshot is, unattractive guys think they're hot anyway, so go out with whoever you like. At least you'll have an awesome looking guy around for awhile. LoL. Good luck.
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Posted by starwarsThanks!
first off, I'm proud of you. second, oooooh Man, us virgos create stupid barriers for ourselves out of nowhere. I see where Tiz is coming from. It has to do with you as well, I could tell you're sensitive to being objectified (which is understandable) therefor is turned off- feel weird when they talk about your proffession in that way. take it in a positive way and laugh it off, it was funny. we dont like things to be all about us but sometimes they are and you gotta deal with it. once you see it in a different light (for what it is), you're going to enjoy the conversations and you wont find it draining. good luck homie!
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Posted by brianafayBeing as though they have the most dangerous job in the US, they have every right to fear for their lives everyday.
Don't get me wrong, I think it's pathetic and despicable that these "professionals" are unable to keep their composure and are shooting people out of fear and/or frustration it seems...defiance by no means should be punishable by death...but in light of everything that has happened - why you would still resist and become a statistic is beyond me dudes
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97% of the time, if a cop has his weapon drawn on you it's because it's warranted. I've been a downright prick when being pulled over. I keep my hands on the wheel and I've never had a cop draw down on me.
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Extremists are dangerous regardless of their religion, race or political party. They scare me, not a republican or democrat.
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Extremists are dangerous regardless of their religion, race or political party. They scare me, not a republican or democrat.
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