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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
I had a gemini friend ...the most beautiful one I have ever come across. She was just too good for me.
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Aug 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 435 · Topics: 28
i thionk she has been hurt in the past (the kid's dad was a major jerk) so she fears commitment as well, and with me, she knew things would go reaaaally slow...so i don't think i was that bad for her...but while she sees and enjoys our present i also think about the future...and i think the kid needs more than where my life is.
if i would be ready to get married right now, she would be an excellent mate...no doubt. she gives it all and works at it wholeheartedly...she is impulsive in some ways and doesn't filter some words and actions...but when she wants to work things out...she does everything she can to show you she loves you....
but because of that i think she could make any other guy really really happy. i think she's scared to see that, but i see a potential in her for long-term relationships i have seen in few people....she needs someone who is able to give all that she is ready to give though...and for whatever reason i feel like i can't do that right now. maybe is fear, maybe is the reamining feelings for my x, maybe is the responsability i feel...i don't know.
i sent a long e-mail to her last night.
she met her exboyfriend and i met my exgirlfriend too. im sure we will figure out what's best for everyone soon.
vll
thank you roxyjam, dstrz8, p-angel, brandon, vgurl...and menemesteres you are sweet.
vll
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
"However, I wasn't necessarily ignoring you in the way or reasons you may be thinking. This is probably a conversation we need to have, although I don't like having these types of conversations. "
It truly sounds like he is confused over the women in his life - almost like a tug of war as to what to do.
Whatever he says, he's not going to walk away from the friendship between the two of you and you've mentioned here that you're OK with that. So just try to be prepared for whatever he needs to talk to you about, but don't be emotional or detrimentally reactive to it. Absorb it and thank him for talking to you. Libras don't like confrontation, so whatever has been on his mind has been on his mind for a while and he's been contemplating a good time to talk about it.
I didn't post here to ruffle any feathers....or to crush any scorpions with my hiking boots.
My intention was for folks to acknowledge that constantly planning elaborate revenge schemes is such a waste of a scorpio's energy. As is contantly feeling that someone is out to 'get' you.
I have a great deal of respect for them because I see a lot of potential & drive in them. They have vision.
Unfortunately, in many cases that I know, those visons & potentials are unfulfiled because of scorpio's penchant for self-destruction while seeking needless revenge.
THAT was the intention of my original post earlier: To point out the potential of scorpios.
I reiterate my own words from that post:
I see a lot of potential in scorpios if only they didn't waste their time on planning elaborate revenge schemes. That energy can be channeled elsewhere.
Seeking revenge--while revelling in the reputation as a "dangerous" zodiac sign--is such a waste of time.
Why not become known as the sign that uses it's tremendous energy to fulfil its visions?
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Aug 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 435 · Topics: 28
pdragon too.
i'm still learning in the "relationship" arena...
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Do U ever feel inferior ?...I mean honestly.
Do U strive at being better than the males or do U secretly envy and rue that U werent born as a male ?
No I never feel inferior because I am not in competition with any man..I think its rather stupid to start comparing..I was born a woman, I am fine with it..
I never strive at being better than a man..I see myself as a human being with ambitions, my level of education, my level of intelligence, my dreams etc..Man has physical advantage, women have an emotional one..why bother with all that malarky..
In relation to being born a man etc, I think men have more opportunities and women have more restrictions, but other than that..no I have no regrets being a woman..wouldn't change it for the world..
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Jul 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5508 · Topics: 93
Yeah, I think I may have jumbled the times, or something.
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Jul 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5508 · Topics: 93
"women have an emotional one..why bother with all that malarky.."
Women are more likely to suffer from neurosis, not exactly an advantage.