Biggest Insecurity?
Posted by Aquagirl2015We are married since may 2016 and together since june 2015. it felt fated from the start!
@AquaNextDoor
Aww, mine was a December cappy also. How long have you guys been married?Posted by AquaNextDoorPosted by Aquagirl2015He is a december cappy
@aquanextdoor Wow! Cap hubby? Jan or December if you don't mind me asking? My firstPosted by AquaNextDoorPosted by Aquagirl2015Hm not really, I'm pretty confident in others aspects of my life. My cap hubby gives me lots of reassurance and that makes it easier for me to work on my insecurities
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of lifePosted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.
Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
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Posted by GetMistedidk why Jason wont commit to it
Perfect opportunity for Shelby and Jason to scheme
tho she is a hard one to commit to
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This question isn't anything in general, I just got curious. As when it comes to friends/partners I know that the Aquarius will go distant especially to a needy cancer crab. But what if they were a parent to this needy cancer crab? Would they distant themselves or actually take it on as their responsibility?
Posted by PV&JellayLOL uhm, what is irresponsible??Posted by justagirlPosted by PV&Jellaygod yes.
People used to tell me you're so strong. And I would just beam with confidence. Now I'm like ugh! Because people don't realize that it's the people who are the strongest who are the most vulnerable. We're the most in need of support, but the least likely to get it.
*hugs*
Ever tempted to be messy and irresponsible , but then realize the people in your life wouldn't be able to handle you being reckless.
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i can hardly call in sick when i'm barely able to crawl from bed.. LOL
Those close to me don't know what to do when i break, it has happened, rare occasions but it does. Crying around or in front of others ties to all this for me as well, what about you?
Also I'm only messy in my bedroom, i'm super ocd otherwise.
Posted by Rommyit isn't going to change what i sawPosted by ScrumptiousGo away...
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Posted by RommyI relate to this on many levels especially the last part about living life. I wasted many years and finally woke up when I was mid to late 30's.
Yeah most definitely.
People in my life expect me to be dependable, strong, determined, thorough(words spoken from friends). This leaves very little room to be who I am on the inside and let it out.
I'm actually quite soft, emotional, sensitive and quiet. I need affection more than anything. Being near someone and being close by touching or just talking to me is how I like to be with people. I feel like that whole part of me is never taken care of...it lives unhappy within me.
I battle anxiety almost every single day in some way. This anxiety keeps me from being close with people, I can be very guarded.
The expectation of who I am isn't allowed that vulnerability. It's my parents, my family, my friends, people I've dated and coworkers. They all have this expectation of who I am and how I should behave... it gets tiring and a lot of the time I feel I can't live up to the expectations that my family have on me.
I can get into this deeper but I won't.
In the end I plan on being a simply granny with a little house and a garden near the mountains. I just hope that I don't waste a life away living up to expectations that were never mine....and only enjoy my life when it's a little too late.
Live in the clouds and always down for a laugh. Every pisces i know including me are all happy to turn anything into a joke.
For example being as grounded as the earthy signs, or as passionate and entertaining as the fires?
I love water but sometimes being stuck with such an emotional personality can be a buzzkill
I love water but sometimes being stuck with such an emotional personality can be a buzzkill
Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceit's more than just having standards and knowing what you want. It's about still having the desire and willingingness to keep on keeping on when you are faced with some of the most devasting things a person can experience. It's learning to do more then just survive, you learn to do more than exists and be true to who you are inside and out. It's losing a child and still going on with life even when it's the last thing you want to do.
Wth is a strong woman? There's no such thing as a strong woman just women that have standards, women that have a clue what they want and are not naive about how to get it. A strong woman is just a woman with her desires and needs, she is also human. So seriously what the hell is a strong woman? We honestly do not need anymore classifications for people.
I can give you more examples if you wish.