Taurus woman being shy & submissive?

And for the record she without a doubt is very interested I tried pushin her away ignoring here for months due to getting over a relationship and not wanting to deal with people but she just keeps coming back.

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Posted by Amethysst
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Posted by Amethysst
This is tough question, I've had both good/bad with many signs I dated but;

Worst: Cancer man

First serious relationship; he was Controlling, abusive, manipulative, irrational, emotionally out of control, cynical, and completely psycho.



I think that at the end of the day Cancer's are jealous of Aquarians ability to make so many friends and how they can be so non attached and comfortable in their own skin on some level. Its like they know they can have anything at anytime they want from people. Everything about them is so truly unique and special and their life fascinates me to the point where I can just never get enough. I don't want to smother them but I feel so traditional and boring that I want to stand out to them and I end up making an ass out of myself.

Cancer's is the opposite, alot of us just have a small group of friends but we would prefer a larger group as we feel like there is something inside us that needs to evolve by exposure to more people and ideas and Aquarius brings that. Many Cancer's fear is that we are truly expendable to people and we want to find ways so we can be ok with whatever relationship we have with people so we don't take things so personally. It seems Aquarians are experts with that but their are so many growing pains and misunderstandings to this pair that Cancer has to truly evolve himself in humbleness so that they can truly be on the same page. Cancer has to fully expose himself as a remorseful flawed human for his past behavior or else Aquarians will just toy with them until they figure it out. This is my Pisces Moon speaking here lol

This is the exact issue I had with my cancer ex. It wasn't the clingingness that was so much of the problem, it was the fact that he couldn't evolve enough to act mature and rational in situations. I couldn't even bring him around my friends without him throwing an outburst from jealousy and possessiveness.. it was completely embarrassing for me. When we got home, the crazy in him would spur out the moment and I was left heart broken. I just couldn't deal with a guy who was so insecure about himself and his surroundings. I can attach and detach to my friendships.. no jealousy just good times and enjoying good memories. I understood they had their lives to deal with and I had mine, no hard feelings. I am in control of no ones life but my own. Since it was my first relationship being younger it made me grow into someone I didn't want to be.. fearful, bitter, and spiteful. After leaving him I was able to spread my wings and finally evolve into who I needed to be, the complete opposite.

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What you dealt with was a immature Cancer, it takes us longer to grow up longer than probably any other sign. Its not good for a Cancer to pair with airs signs until he has addressed him demons first. We leave a bad taste in people's mouths and I don't blame people's problem's with our behavior. Imagine internally how loathsome we feel later on by its effects on people.

I knew a Pisces Man that was with an Aquarius Woman and they had some bad things happen in their personal life where they lost everything and had to get away from their families. They lived out of a motel for a year on the edge with little money and I could tell the Pisces Man was ashamed that he couldn't provide but it was like his Aquarius woman didn't care about all that. She was resourceful and still stuck with him and it was like a messed up life situation they turned into an adventure. It is like she didn't make the situation worse by judging him or making him feel like he had to perform and just looked at it as a setback they had to get through. It is true that when an Aquarian commits to someone they really do.

Cancer's have a fear of being at rock bottom and no one being there for them or sticking by. I think if a Cancer can force himself to evolve and just let the hangups go when it comes to possessiveness with an Aquarius he truly can have the type of love,loyalty and friendship that he only dreamed existed. You offer us exactly what we want but we find ourselves lost on the road to get to the point where we are "in" with you.

A Cancer just has to realize there isn't an ownership factor to this type of relationship. When we deal with Leos and Scorpios we are expected to be owned by them so we feel like this is universal behavior when it really isn't. Once we start just being "our signs" and not trying to copy any one else's we truly can shine.

I say all this because I was with an Aries woman that was on my butt everyday;just constantly invading my bubble and making me feel like if I didn't live up to some expectation there would be hell to pay. I knew she wouldn't leave me as she as Aries are loyal, yet if I messed up financially she was going to make my life as hard as possible on a daily basis and force it on her terms and remind me of how I messed up certain situations or harping on my generosity towards other people. I knew it wasn't love even under the guise of loyalty. There were many times I was envious of my Pisces friend and his Aquarius woman. I would be thinking they were probably off playing cards and enjoying each other's company even having no money adding layers to their relationship through the process, Making the best of their situation. I was literally backed into a corner in mine and it made me realize at that point how your freedom to be yourself trumps anything in life. It made me realize at that time that my whole life had been a lie trying to live up to societal standards of how I should view a relationship.
The future's uncertain & the end is always near.





Sorry, I had to.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

bullturd


That's probably the most I'm gonna get from her when she's angry.
Posted by Nevermore
All it is is just for fun,

while everyone is riled up for the drama.

One mistakes, the whole group of lioness jump to attack.

Just for fuck sake let those poor men go as he just do for the fun and not taken seriously.

You don't even know the real truth behind it,

As you guys rather look on the other side for what?

And for some does it seems even fitting for the vulture award.

Since now that shines upon you.

Now let it all go and just enjoy for the results and have some tea of serenity.

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"... Everyone is riled up for the drama. One mistakes, the whole group of lioness jump to attack ... "

Where did your reading comprehension go?

Nevermore, not everyone was riled up as you call it, and the train wreck had no correlation in regards to the awards. If you wish to say you disliked the train wreck, at least make an informed statement about it instead of making things up. tiziani, merely did a great task of diverting attention apparently you were never able to see it. Quite alright, trolls are trolls, most here fall for it.


Where was this "... whole group of lioness ... " ?

That is an exaggeration, no?

You say let those men go, and then what?


That others should be push overs, doormats to be willingly subjected to mockery. Being able to make an argument in regards to one individual, had no correlation to the awards, had no correlation into the effort put in it.

You are assuming too much, they are mutually exclusive of one another.


Was tiziani truly a victim?

My god, so many assumptions in that statement of yours and very little thought. Besides, he is good enough of a troll to not require your defence, or for you to wipe his arse of his bullturd. Unless that is you, you felt a need to help give him an ego boost.

He is a coward but I doubt he needs your assistance.
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i grew up on this


Stop trying to be cool..it's not cool when you do that.
go away
OMg , you got pwnd by seraphlight bro ???

Nah he didn't. :-) I'll tell you when I pwn someone...i haven't done it so far this month. I am not cool either scrumptious..don't worry !
@scrumptious, bro, she'll tell me when she pwns you ???

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@Seraphlight pwns me now shes taunting me. What a bully
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I often REACT rather than think before I do something.

He also finds me to be flaky and unpredictable (wow shocker).



If you often react without thinking ... why are you then shocked to be viewed as unpredictable?

How bizarre, and self unaware
so you really had sex with over 120 guys?
Lmao where was that said? I must see it.

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you'll have to ask @themagnetoreborn to find that one
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Get cheated on by their Gf/wife. She gets pregnant by the other dude but he stays and raises the child.

Could you do it? I couldn't. Cheating is enough to make me say goodbye forever. And a child from it at that??? Hell naw.

Whats y'all opinion nobody is right or wrong it's just personal thought not general thought
That would be a great man with no balls IMO!
?

Hopefully your tubes are tied.


No he has vicectomy! Perfect everywhere!

Lol

Good so you're not creating spawn children behind your husbands back.

Carry on Big Grin

At my age! I would make a TV show and lots of dough!
Because it's obvious you care more about money than the respect of your children and family lol

That's TPT style .
You have NO idea how stupid you are!

Sounding a little angry there lol Were you having trouble defining TPT? It's quite simple. Don't worry I'll give you more time. ?

Come back to me when you've figured it out.
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You don't mind to be the 3rd man? LOL

I promise not to give you a child...unless you are filthy rich - than I might think about it.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

bullturd


That's probably the most I'm gonna get for her when she's angry.
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PR, hah ... you caught me.

I prefer to remain a lady, not that I do not have an ability to curse like a sailor. There is fun to be found in the use of such colourful language at times but it is not worthwhile here on DXP.Laughing


keeeeeeen
Posted by Nevermore
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Posted by Nevermore
All it is is just for fun,

while everyone is riled up for the drama.

One mistakes, the whole group of lioness jump to attack.

Just for fuck sake let those poor men go as he just do for the fun and not taken seriously.

You don't even know the real truth behind it,

As you guys rather look on the other side for what?

And for some does it seems even fitting for the vulture award.

Since now that shines upon you.

Now let it all go and just enjoy for the results and have some tea of serenity.

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"... Everyone is riled up for the drama. One mistakes, the whole group of lioness jump to attack ... "

Where did your reading comprehension go?

Nevermore, not everyone was riled up as you call it, and the train wreck had no correlation in regards to the awards. If you wish to say you disliked the train wreck, at least make an informed statement about it instead of making things up. tiziani, merely did a great task of diverting attention apparently you were never able to see it. Quite alright, trolls are trolls, most here fall for it.


Where was this "... whole group of lioness ... " ?

That is an exaggeration, no?

You say let those men go, and then what?


That others should be push overs, doormats to be willingly subjected to mockery. Being able to make an argument in regards to one individual, had no correlation to the awards, had no correlation into the effort put in it.

You are assuming too much, they are mutually exclusive of one another.


Was tiziani truly a victim?

My god, so many assumptions in that statement of yours and very little thought. Besides, he is good enough of a troll to not require your defence, or for you to wipe his arse of his bullturd. Unless that is you, you felt a need to help give him an ego boost.

He is a coward but I doubt he needs your assistance.
Do you even read that I'm on their side? No.

All I'm saying here with all those argument going on is just enjoy those fake awards that are just only for fun. Gawd.
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Did you not?

I quoted and referred directly from what you had shared, unless backtracking is also your specialty.

You would not be the only one specialising in it.Laughing


Then again you completely sidestepped my questions and went straight back to generalising again.

Diversion at its best, are you learning from the trolls? They taught quite the lesson a few pages back.


You were of the sentiment that others were causing drama and the hosts were the victims of it all. Do not mistake it as if I or others have no reading comprehension at all.

[shrugs]


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