Calling all Scorpio females, a Gemini needs some advice please!
Well, try not to overwhelm her. She may be processing the night you spent together and playing it cool.
Give it a few days and don't message her again. See what she does. When she pokes up again, welcome her openly and ask her out. Take it from there. I know this may sound weird, but don't raise the issue of her silence just yet. Just enjoy your time together. If it becomes a pattern at some point you can gently raise it.
I will say you're going to need patience with a Scorp that appears to have some ties with someone else. Not necessarily still interested in being with that person, but I'm not sure why things ended. Do you? She's going to take things slow as that relationship (given the length of time) will have made an impression on how she should move forward with another person. Expect some back and forth, which is more about her checking in with her emotions.
I've dated a few Gem babies, and the only one that truly got me and captured my heart was the one that was extremely patient with me. I am very moody. I'd have moments when I would back up and put distance between us either becasue I was unsure about him or myself and he never held my moods against me.
He respected my desire to be silent and could still "be" with me, always had the ability to make me forget about whatever was troubling me with his wit and charm---but didn't try too hard. He wouldn't let me get away with anything if I crossed the line, but he was gentle. He knew when to ask about and drop a subject. Unlike most Gems he didn't feel the need to fill the room with excessive chatter (he had a Bull Merc) and we develop a great friendship. He was my best friend. I will always respect and have love for the energy he brought into my life.
Anyway, be patient. Try not to personalize her moods and silence.
Give it a few days and don't message her again. See what she does. When she pokes up again, welcome her openly and ask her out. Take it from there. I know this may sound weird, but don't raise the issue of her silence just yet. Just enjoy your time together. If it becomes a pattern at some point you can gently raise it.
I will say you're going to need patience with a Scorp that appears to have some ties with someone else. Not necessarily still interested in being with that person, but I'm not sure why things ended. Do you? She's going to take things slow as that relationship (given the length of time) will have made an impression on how she should move forward with another person. Expect some back and forth, which is more about her checking in with her emotions.
I've dated a few Gem babies, and the only one that truly got me and captured my heart was the one that was extremely patient with me. I am very moody. I'd have moments when I would back up and put distance between us either becasue I was unsure about him or myself and he never held my moods against me.
He respected my desire to be silent and could still "be" with me, always had the ability to make me forget about whatever was troubling me with his wit and charm---but didn't try too hard. He wouldn't let me get away with anything if I crossed the line, but he was gentle. He knew when to ask about and drop a subject. Unlike most Gems he didn't feel the need to fill the room with excessive chatter (he had a Bull Merc) and we develop a great friendship. He was my best friend. I will always respect and have love for the energy he brought into my life.
Anyway, be patient. Try not to personalize her moods and silence.
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Well, try not to overwhelm her. She may be processing the night you spent together and playing it cool.
Give it a few days and don't message her again. See what she does. When she pokes up again, welcome her openly and ask her out. Take it from there. I know this may sound weird, but don't raise the issue of her silence just yet. Just enjoy your time together. If it becomes a pattern at some point you can gently raise it.
I will say you're going to need patience with a Scorp that appears to have some ties with someone else. Not necessarily still interested in being with that person, but I'm not sure why things ended. Do you? She's going to take things slow as that relationship (given the length of time) will have made an impression on how she should move forward with another person. Expect some back and forth, which is more about her checking in with her emotions.
I've dated a few Gem babies, and the only one that truly got me and captured my heart was the one that was extremely patient with me. I am very moody. I'd have moments when I would back up and put distance between us either becasue I was unsure about him or myself and he never held my moods against me.
He respected my desire to be silent and could still "be" with me, always had the ability to make me forget about whatever was troubling me with his wit and charm---but didn't have to try to hard. He wouldn't let me get away with anything if I crossed the line, but he was gentle. He knew when to ask about and drop a subject. Unlike most Gems he didn't feel the need to fill the room with excessive chatter (he had a Bull Merc) and we develop a great friendship. He was my best friend. I will always respect and have love for the energy he brought into my life.
Anyway, be patient. Try not to personalize her moods and silence.
Give it a few days and don't message her again. See what she does. When she pokes up again, welcome her openly and ask her out. Take it from there. I know this may sound weird, but don't raise the issue of her silence just yet. Just enjoy your time together. If it becomes a pattern at some point you can gently raise it.
I will say you're going to need patience with a Scorp that appears to have some ties with someone else. Not necessarily still interested in being with that person, but I'm not sure why things ended. Do you? She's going to take things slow as that relationship (given the length of time) will have made an impression on how she should move forward with another person. Expect some back and forth, which is more about her checking in with her emotions.
I've dated a few Gem babies, and the only one that truly got me and captured my heart was the one that was extremely patient with me. I am very moody. I'd have moments when I would back up and put distance between us either becasue I was unsure about him or myself and he never held my moods against me.
He respected my desire to be silent and could still "be" with me, always had the ability to make me forget about whatever was troubling me with his wit and charm---but didn't have to try to hard. He wouldn't let me get away with anything if I crossed the line, but he was gentle. He knew when to ask about and drop a subject. Unlike most Gems he didn't feel the need to fill the room with excessive chatter (he had a Bull Merc) and we develop a great friendship. He was my best friend. I will always respect and have love for the energy he brought into my life.
Anyway, be patient. Try not to personalize her moods and silence.