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Stop it. I think Taurus guys are sweet, just need space from time to time and they should have it.
Well, archer, they say that people of the same "quality" (is that the word?) clash. I don't really know more than that....
But actually I've noticed that people of the same temperament understand each other...
Hence many Leo man/scorp female couples, Gem/Virgo, Gem/Pisces, Aries man/Cappie woman...I've seen a few of these combinations.
Certainly as a fixed sign, I've appreciated the stability of the Leo man...we fixed signs are not overly fond of change, though I am working on that one!
But actually I've noticed that people of the same temperament understand each other...
Hence many Leo man/scorp female couples, Gem/Virgo, Gem/Pisces, Aries man/Cappie woman...I've seen a few of these combinations.
Certainly as a fixed sign, I've appreciated the stability of the Leo man...we fixed signs are not overly fond of change, though I am working on that one!
i agree w/ Mr. Nice - this could be his way of trying to gauge your interest in him. also agree that you shouldn't be roped into playing mind games. if you choose to play, then you can't blame anyone but yourself if things don't turn out as you had hoped. your choices create your reality.
if he likes making you jealous and you don't like it, don't encourage it. he told you he likes your reaction, and by giving him the reaction he wants, he is rewarded and will continue doing it. it's harmless if done in fun, but to make up a girlfriend and telling you not to flirt with him anymore seems to be taking it a bit too far...
if i were in your shoes, i would take what he said at face value. believe that there is another girl in the picture. accept it as fact, and make choices based on that truth, rather than basing your decisions on the hope that this is some phantom girl.
if you choose to walk away, you can do it gracefully by saying, 'whoa, she's a lucky girl. i admire that you are loyal and respectful enough to stop flirting with other girls. hope things work out for you.'
this way you've indicated some interest, while letting him know that you are above playing mind games (if the girl is not real), nor are you the type to interfere with a relationship (if the girl is real).
either way, you keep your dignity, remain true to yourself, and maintain some standards...and sidestep any mind game traps. the real truth will come out sooner or later.
about what he's doing on AIM and MySpace...those are his actions and those are on him, not you...again, making decisions based on what he may or may not be thinking won't always result in the best choices.
good luck, hope you make a decision you can be happy with
if he likes making you jealous and you don't like it, don't encourage it. he told you he likes your reaction, and by giving him the reaction he wants, he is rewarded and will continue doing it. it's harmless if done in fun, but to make up a girlfriend and telling you not to flirt with him anymore seems to be taking it a bit too far...
if i were in your shoes, i would take what he said at face value. believe that there is another girl in the picture. accept it as fact, and make choices based on that truth, rather than basing your decisions on the hope that this is some phantom girl.
if you choose to walk away, you can do it gracefully by saying, 'whoa, she's a lucky girl. i admire that you are loyal and respectful enough to stop flirting with other girls. hope things work out for you.'
this way you've indicated some interest, while letting him know that you are above playing mind games (if the girl is not real), nor are you the type to interfere with a relationship (if the girl is real).
either way, you keep your dignity, remain true to yourself, and maintain some standards...and sidestep any mind game traps. the real truth will come out sooner or later.
about what he's doing on AIM and MySpace...those are his actions and those are on him, not you...again, making decisions based on what he may or may not be thinking won't always result in the best choices.
good luck, hope you make a decision you can be happy with
I don't think I could ever do FWB either because it would forever change the essence of the friendship and someone would probably end up getting hurt. Also, you can't go back to being just friends. You just end up losing a friend.
Me thinks that Quantumblue....you may be seeing aspects of yourself in others - what do you think?
Something to ponder.......................................and, why judge?
Something to ponder.......................................and, why judge?
ROFL about the guinea pig and your boyfriend.
My Sagi daughter spends 3 to 4 hours every day pretending she is a cat. If you try to get her to be something else, she will comply...but only if she can be a cat-princess, a cat-flying saucer, etc. She has said from the age of three she will be a vet, and she has not deviated from this intention. Personally, I think she's got the brains to do it.
My Sagi brother will cuddle on the floor with his dog (a Cancerian, who actually vomits out of sheer terror if he is left alone too long) and actually pretend to be a dog himself.
Sagis are part animal.
My Sagi daughter spends 3 to 4 hours every day pretending she is a cat. If you try to get her to be something else, she will comply...but only if she can be a cat-princess, a cat-flying saucer, etc. She has said from the age of three she will be a vet, and she has not deviated from this intention. Personally, I think she's got the brains to do it.
My Sagi brother will cuddle on the floor with his dog (a Cancerian, who actually vomits out of sheer terror if he is left alone too long) and actually pretend to be a dog himself.
Sagis are part animal.
I guess that I am not getting why people feel the need to point out negative aspects of others...what is the point of this?
and we wonder why we have wars....sheesh.
Assignment for Qblue....since you have made note of the negative aspects of each sign, would you be so kind to give us the postive aspects of each sign? this might help to balance the see saw
and we wonder why we have wars....sheesh.
Assignment for Qblue....since you have made note of the negative aspects of each sign, would you be so kind to give us the postive aspects of each sign? this might help to balance the see saw
Branh,
Sagis are *not* socially awkward. Goofy, yes, but awkward, no. They are geniuses in the social realm, right up there with Gems and Libras.
I am so proud of my brother when I see him at one of the many parties he and his Leo wife host. He talks with everyone, high and low. He accepts everyone, and makes them feel good, while slyly making fun of their weaknesses and allowing them to laugh at their humanity.
My bro is not a conventionally religious person, but the gift of laughter he shares is a spiritual gift, I think...yes, Scorp's gettin' all serious here!...
I know many times I've gone over to his house exhausted from the travails of single motherhood, and come away feeling as light as a bird, with a new perspective...
Sagis are *not* socially awkward. Goofy, yes, but awkward, no. They are geniuses in the social realm, right up there with Gems and Libras.
I am so proud of my brother when I see him at one of the many parties he and his Leo wife host. He talks with everyone, high and low. He accepts everyone, and makes them feel good, while slyly making fun of their weaknesses and allowing them to laugh at their humanity.
My bro is not a conventionally religious person, but the gift of laughter he shares is a spiritual gift, I think...yes, Scorp's gettin' all serious here!...
I know many times I've gone over to his house exhausted from the travails of single motherhood, and come away feeling as light as a bird, with a new perspective...
I was SUCH a huge fan of Weird Al in the 80s!! It's funny, I was just wondering what happened to him a few months ago and then I saw his song "White and Nerdy" that is a parody of "Rollin'" - I laughed my a% % off!
I hear you...
That's January for you
That's January for you