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Apr 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1092 · Topics: 158
I have some hyperthyroid traits.
hyperthyroid - hyperthyroidism - www.dictionary.com//
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Nov 27, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1914 · Topics: 139
LOL they do all sound the same!...from this I guess everyone is a freak, great in bed, and sexy as hell...
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Nov 08, 2006Comments: 37 · Posts: 4746 · Topics: 283
Brilliant archer! i love these quotes; & so VERY apt for each sign...'thanks so much, was alot of fun reading!
...and i'm keeping this one forever, it really touched me;
Pisces
February 27, 1807 Henry Wadsworth Longfellow:
No man is so poor as to have nothing worth giving.
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
I couldn't put up with it so I would've left ages ago...but each to their own I guess..
So your guilty of adding fuel to the fire..hmmm..well if he was stable it wouldn't bother him..
He hasn't got a pisces moon has he? lol..sorry
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Nov 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 792 · Topics: 22
Amen. QS..
Nic.. this whole scenario sounds a bit scary to me as me and my libra are in almost the exact same boat except the roles are changed and I am you and she is my libra.. I think he is going to do the same thing when he comes here next week. Start feeling strange when we start getting close. He has already admitted to pulling back when he feels he is getting too close to a girl and he said the feeling is tripled with me bc he is so nervous bc we have know eachother so long. WHAT? It seems like he would be more secure with me as we HAVE known eachother so long.. just like you and your girl.. I must know how this one plays out. Have you heard from her lately? What would you have done differently if you could? One of my issues with this now is, we talk about the event so much that the anticipation is overwhelming. I know neither he nor I will be able to live up to what we are anticipating the experience to be. Then there will be a great let down and I think things will get crazy like they are with you and your girl. Hind sight advice.. please.
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Mar 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1158 · Topics: 16
To me, it sounds like your Libra Girl as a whole is not particularly shy and on the surface does not come across as insecure. But I think that your Girl is very shy in the love department.
It sounds like she does put herself outthere (cannot stay away from you) but is not flirting (too risky). Is very careful and thinks things through (had to tell you that she felt she lost you your job). Leaves most decisions up to you.
I think you stand a pretty good chance but you have to get that bit right. She is not gonna do it. The phone message in the evening means she is thinking about you and is also showing effort. I would give her a bit more time ? that increases her longing. She will try to show you and become more bold because she wants you to realise without her having to say it. Inside she will be a bit frustrated with herself because she cannot say it.
Then eventually you'll have to step in and say something. But do it right when she is trying to show you ? at least she'll be in the same frame of mind. You'll know when this is, it'll be obvious somehow. But give her a little bit more time. You'll see her become more serious and her frustration will grow (because she cannot express herself).
I might be wrong but I am Oct 10 and verbally also quite shy in this department.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Hhmmmmmm....very interesting, thanks for responding, everyone.
You may have it something there, mm, with the respect thing. The "done" part, I can't imagine would be it because this was my father's son .. all children screw up, from time to time, so as a parent, I can't fathom that my father would have taken that position. When this "event" happened, my brother wasn't an adult ... but, respect?
Still, though, certainly we've all done things disrespectful when we were younger that we wouldn't do once matured .. however, maybe my dad saw something, a trait of some kind that had been going on for a long time and he thought it would carry-over into adulthood, for I was much younger and didn't always see, or comprehend, what was going on. And perhaps this "event" was merely the final straw.
But, when my mother talked about it .. her words were slanted in a disrespectful angle. Wow, that's a tough one .. my purpose was to try and help my brother put this in perspective and you guys really helped .. but, how in the heck do I tell him that he might have lost his father's respect?
I'll have to think on that one .. thanks again.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
lol, Bliny .... so how many of you "guys" were waving your hands around, hoping to be picked, to be the sticker?
Awwww .. that probably tramatized the poor sod, especially when he woke up and the only people there were his roomies. So, did you ever see blokes with duct tape on their bums BEFORE the drink fest started?
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Jan 17, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1252 · Topics: 17
I have a similar relationship (or lack there of) with my father (having not seen or spoken to him in 10 years)... It is not so much a grudge, like Scorpionlady says. It is being merely done.
In my case, removing myself from a constant source of severe emotional pain. As I grew older, I tried to push it back to him (the "vindication" route), but at some point I realized that any relationship with him was unhealthy. I could do nothing, and merely live with the pain. I could try to hurt him back, but while that may temporarily transform the pain (into anger and spite), as long as I allowed him in my life and in my thoughts it would always be there. And it would eventually eat me alive...
So, I walked away and have not seen or spoken to him since. And I try hard not to think about him, for everytime I do, it returns the same as before (even after 10 years)...