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This is a common narrative and everyone knows a person or two like this. One of the girls I know is dating a time bandit for 8 yrs. They started dating when she was 20 and the guy was 24. They have been dating for 8 yrs and not even proposed to.
This woman is a sweet cancer and like a typical cancer she wants to get married and have children. In these 8 yrs of dating, all her close friends have been either engaged or got married and she got nothing. She loves the guy so she's putting her desires on the backburner. This girl cooks, sleeps with him, drives him around basically does what a caring gf does. This BF still hasn't proposed. He has what any guy wants. He's set and has no reason to budge on what she wants. Let's consider what she's lost so far: her youth, prime days to bear children. She's wasting the best years of her life on a loser when she could be using it to find a guy that will give her what she desires. She's gone from 20 to 27 for a guy who is giving her short end of the stick. Now let's say he ditches her in the next two yrs which he could do, what is she left with? What does she get for wasting 9 yrs of her prime days + efforts + emotions on him? Also, she's not getting her biological clock back.