Cappie ladies, are you really this forgiving?
Posted by BadBoyThanks for that.Posted by AnnabelleJamesYou got dragged into it bc you said you like transparency . ? .Posted by BadBoyUmmm not really sure how I got dragged into this one, but I don't see any issues with any cap females trying to be cordial with the ex's new missus (even if she is the one he left her for). There are a multitude of good reasons: the kids, keeping up appearances (for the kids, and anyone else stuck in the middle), or just because we don't want the aggro/bad feelings dragging us down).Posted by Capri-sunHumble and with an ego. Someone from the outside can see in.Posted by BadBoyPosted by cheekyfaerieThe problem is all cap women can't put their ego down and is a big problem maker.
It's funny how much I've evolved on this subject. I've gone from "fuck no!" to "i fuckin hope so", in a relatively short span. Learning to put ego aside has been huge for me. All positives so far.
In a case like this, especially where children are involved, I'd hope I could put them first. Playing games and being bitter does nothing but make things worse. It makes you toxic. It makes him not wanna deal with you, which affects how he deals with your kid(s). It decides if your kids view their flesh and blood as siblings or step siblings. Think about that last one for a sec. It's pretty huge.
What ego? I like to think I'm a fairly humble person.
You know why a virgo has no trust for a cap woman? Cause she's eating dinner with the ex....my dear.
Cap women like to call that transparency ( @AnnebelleJames ) ? i call it that a cap woman wants to keep her options open.
This doesn't mean there is forgiveness of any kind, but more just a modus vivandi really.
If this makes the man (in this case a virgo? sorry I don't know any of these celebrities) uncomfortable, he needs to look into this own issues...click to expand