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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I do tend to act differently around certain people"
We all do this .. we adapt to our environment .. so, we behave differently with different people. I can't say that I ever "acted" with any man as to how I felt about him. But, it's been said that it happens .. so, there must be fish-girls who do this. Rejection isn't something I fear, so, that would make sense, I guess as to why a woman would behave out-of-character for her true self.
"She said that in the past, guys just ate up the good girl image and she used it quite often."
There should be all kinds of bells ringing here, lights flashing, flags waving ..
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Dec 13, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 131 · Topics: 20
He does disappear (well, I don't know if you'd call it disappear). But basically I'm not in touch with him for days or sometimes weeks (although usually no longer than two weeks or so). And then we he does call or we get together it is as though we haven't been apart from each other.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
We spoke two weeks ago. I left the message Sunday night.
It isn't really a relationship. I am dating someone else. I am trying to save the friendship.
My best friend and I have a working theory of why he has done this.
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Mar 01, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1158 · Topics: 16
...and you know what he is doing during that time?
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Mar 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1737 · Topics: 49
Chocolate,
You got yourself another Virgo guy. Wow! Good luck to you. Virgos are awesome guys. I'd date one if I got a chance again. Keep up the good work.
LS,
This Leo guy of yours is a waste of time. He needs to get his act together. I tell you some men never grow up. You deserve a MAN, not an immature guy.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Don't worry. I believe lovahs should be friends. Regardless of what happens, I think we should remain friends.
I am not acting suprised. I don't think. lol!
I'll let you know how it goes Mystic. In someways, he is very open. In others, he is a hard read.
I'm a guy and I'm a Leo so I know what pride is but, even though it can be difficult to deal with it, rationality always comes first and wins over pride if you are mature enough. I am sorry to say that I think you are being very selfish with your man, I completely understand what he is doing and what he is feeling. You say you fell hurt because he does not initiate sex for more than a month now and that you are starting to fell undesired and unattractive? How do you think HE fells if you never, ever initiate it?! He needs to fell desired, he needs to know you want him but you never give this simple thing to him! Playing along every time he initiates sex is not enough, by now he must think you don't like him and that you were faking. Think for god sake!!! He does not want you to initiate sex every time but a 10/1 ratio would sure fell nice and fix the whole situation. For your own good act quickly and drop your ego, personally I would not stay in a relationship like this were a women was to proud to show her true feelings and desires at least once in a while, I would stay with her while she was pregnant but after that?
Ego+Pride+Intelligence = strong character; Ego+Pride-Intelligence = stupidity
not sure whats going on with the ik at the end of my words sorry about that..how u understand
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Mar 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1737 · Topics: 49
Hey Chocolate,
It think it's great this whole post. It's also awesome catching up.
hope u understand...typos
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
He chases U n then again starts acting weird - A horror story once again. Seems like some of us like to learn the hard way.