Posted by blackphasePosted by lisabethur8Unfortunately, here in Canada, yes they do. Our tax dollars are abused by people who are healthy enough to hold down a job and also freely given to refugees.Posted by TheCanBullok well, you said your father is a loser and abusive though.Posted by lisabethur8You can't ask mine, my dad has no clue, and mother is disabled...
whatd she do to you?
for me, even if I hated someone, relatives or not, I wouldn't post their photo online at all.
so I agree with others.
and also, you can ask your mother or father when she was born.
She accused my father of sexual assault which was a huge lie, then proceeded to alienate the rest of us, me and my brother who were innocent.
She then got pregnant as early as she could to live the comfy life by using the benefit system, and has the most ugliest man for a husband you have ever seen.
A user and a con artist.
Will cut off all attachment to the rest of us in fear of having to explain herself.
Dominant and driven? no just an evil bitch.
don't you think he did something bad to her too? but she wouldn't share?
did that ever come into your thoughts?
aw come on, Canbull....really?? the ugliest husband thing...
and if she lived by the system, she can't live off the system unless she was herself disabled.
the government doesn't give money to people who are healthy.click to expand
oh that sucks.
but we'd have to find case by case to understand DEEPLY why the government gives out money to healthy people.
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I just needed to come here to a safer topic cause the other one was horrendous!! O_O
I just needed to come here to a safer topic cause the other one was horrendous!! O_O
i'm not a bull but my partner is.
at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has his mercury in gem.
then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.
he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.
at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has his mercury in gem.
then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.
he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.
Posted by AdmiraII think some are. Maybe they need an individual who will chase them down, tell them that they want you to be their boyfriend/girlfriend, and be together.Posted by lisabethur8Cancers are afraid of everything. Some stay and do nothing, others say "Fuck it. What happens will happen."Posted by narayanahis presence makes you feel threatened??
I have this guy at uni, he's really attractive, has a super creative mind, dope jokes and all, also seems to like me..
I'd give it a shot... BUT I just can't let loose when we're alone. We haven't done much together, by far only met doing group projects or so.. Whenever he tries talking to me, I can't keep an eye contact for longer than a few seconds. It's a very strange feeling, his presence makes me feel threatened. And he does cute things to me, compliments my appearance and so on, but I still can't be myself around him. Wtf. I'm talking one of those unexplainable feelings when you just can't explain your own responses.
He's a Scorpio Sun, Mars and Pluto all 3 conjunct each other.
Is this common with Plutonian people? Does it get better once you get to know them, or it only gets worse?
It's a paradox, I do really like him and I feel a strong urge to stare at him, only if he's not watching. But I'm so nervous I can't make up a sentence when we're talking, it's so awkward. And I'm not talking the basic shyness bs, I'm over it since puberty.
that doesn't sound good.
it sounds like he's scaring you. you need to feel safe not scared.
maybe you are afraid of commitment ...that's why.click to expand
My aries sun/Taurus moon and Sag sun/Virgo moon sisters all were with Cancer suns guys.
their ex boyfriends. I don't know how honestly they got together. lol It was at college though.
I think I created this topic before but I don’t think it got posted (it’s my first day here so I may have missclicked something).
In any case this one will be very long read. But I genuinely have no idea what to do. So let me give you some information so you would see where I am coming from.
I am Pisces, he is Capricorn. We are coworkers, but work in different departments. I am researcher he works in events. So different yet kinda the same work area. He is 4 years older than me (so not by a lot). I am 26
This whole weird “dancing” is happening for two years now (granted last year he was just out of long term relationship so it was natural that he was figuring out his life again). Also important note his work hours are absolutely crazy as well as he just bought apartment so he is doing all construction work by himself. So he is absolutely busy as hell… Anyhow…
Now I will explain my predicament.
When me and him are together either at work events, or company parties he is like the sweetest person ever. He will run and get me a chair, he will make sure that I always have a drink. During last company party he managed to find me the type of drink I wanted almost in completed darkness. One coworker was heavily hitting on me so as a joke I put my hand on my Capricorns hand (like on the elbow part) and smiling said sorry I will use you as my shield for a bit. He understood that and the moment that coworker would approach he huged me and so on. Later on he basically started doing the same thing even if others would do it. Even though I didn’t asked him to do that. He spend all party with me. He was so “protective” in a good way. That when he and other coworkers decided to go and have a smoke and I said I will go outside for a moment to take in fresh cold air (its very cold in my country during winter) that he refused to let me do it since he said that I will catch a flue. Than finally I said fine I won’t go it’s ok go I will be here, he refused to go himself and stayd with me.
When some coworkers would make friendly jokes that me and him are couple and so on he never let them know that we are not, and I was the one who would say ohh noo noo no we are not.
Moreover, we had some very very sweet and almost romantic moments, but then he would turn very playfull and ruin them by messing up my hair (like you would do to a child) and giggling when I would make faces like really wow really?
After the party I called him to make sure he got home safely (since me and other 3 coworkers live on the same street he knew I will be ok) but he was going home alone. So I called him (it was 3 am by the way) and we talked for good 1 hour until 4 am. He didn’t try to stop conversation and so on, even though he had to go to work tomorrow early in the morning.
I even sayd thank you for spending the party with me and said sorry if because of me he didn’t get a chance to spend time with others or maybe find some girl. To which he answered: “hey if I would have felt bad or bored I would have “disappeared” or removed myself from situation”. Which is sweet but doesn’t directly say hey I LIKE YOU.
Now I thought hey maybe he is just sweet person and acts with all females like that. But no.. My other female coworkers actually think he is kinda cold and even bit cocky (which in my mind seems like complete opposite of what I experience with him).
Damn one time he even did a cartwheel on the stage after the event kinda showing that he can do it (since the dancer during even was doing them). The only people that were in the room was me and my other coworker who is a man and was doing his own thing. Funny enough that day I talked with my other coworker more (before this). So on one hind I think it was his way to impress me, on other hand maybe he was just being playfull and would have done it even if I would have not been there.
Ok so why I am here asking? Well… Like I said when we are face to face or talking on the phone he is amazing. But when we are not it’s like I don’t exist for him. He never calls, or writes first. But if I do he answers and is sweet and tries to carry conversation. When I asked him that maybe he would like to meet outside of the work. He said we will see.
But than once I made a joke that well not to myself never go to your place once you will be done with all the constructions, he made a joke back that shows that no no you should come.
If I flirt with him he asks me further and so on, but he never shows me his true feelings.
I am wondering that maybe he is just being really nice because he respects me and so on. Or maybe he likes me but he thinks that he could find something better.
I am sooo confused. One thing in the past was that I can read people soo fast. 10 min and I can see through them. But with him I can’t. All my relationships ended because I would see through them fast, and would get bored or see qualities that I wouldn’t be able to deal with in a long run. But with him it’s like he is closed book. I am used to being the one who gets calls, or gets texts or gets offers so with him I feel like fish out of the water (no pun intended
). I don’t know should I continue showing affection or should stop. How to know if I don’t look like creepy obsessed girl?
And now his birthday is coming up, I have perfect gift in mind, something that we joked about and he would never ever expect to actually get from me. But if he doesn’t like me and I will give him that kinda expensive gift he might feel awkward or be creped out.
I am sooo confused… Pleaseeee someone tell me what you think. Do you think he likes me? Or not… I just don’t seem to be able to figure him out…
In any case this one will be very long read. But I genuinely have no idea what to do. So let me give you some information so you would see where I am coming from.
I am Pisces, he is Capricorn. We are coworkers, but work in different departments. I am researcher he works in events. So different yet kinda the same work area. He is 4 years older than me (so not by a lot). I am 26
This whole weird “dancing” is happening for two years now (granted last year he was just out of long term relationship so it was natural that he was figuring out his life again). Also important note his work hours are absolutely crazy as well as he just bought apartment so he is doing all construction work by himself. So he is absolutely busy as hell… Anyhow…
Now I will explain my predicament.
When me and him are together either at work events, or company parties he is like the sweetest person ever. He will run and get me a chair, he will make sure that I always have a drink. During last company party he managed to find me the type of drink I wanted almost in completed darkness. One coworker was heavily hitting on me so as a joke I put my hand on my Capricorns hand (like on the elbow part) and smiling said sorry I will use you as my shield for a bit. He understood that and the moment that coworker would approach he huged me and so on. Later on he basically started doing the same thing even if others would do it. Even though I didn’t asked him to do that. He spend all party with me. He was so “protective” in a good way. That when he and other coworkers decided to go and have a smoke and I said I will go outside for a moment to take in fresh cold air (its very cold in my country during winter) that he refused to let me do it since he said that I will catch a flue. Than finally I said fine I won’t go it’s ok go I will be here, he refused to go himself and stayd with me.
When some coworkers would make friendly jokes that me and him are couple and so on he never let them know that we are not, and I was the one who would say ohh noo noo no we are not.
Moreover, we had some very very sweet and almost romantic moments, but then he would turn very playfull and ruin them by messing up my hair (like you would do to a child) and giggling when I would make faces like really wow really?
After the party I called him to make sure he got home safely (since me and other 3 coworkers live on the same street he knew I will be ok) but he was going home alone. So I called him (it was 3 am by the way) and we talked for good 1 hour until 4 am. He didn’t try to stop conversation and so on, even though he had to go to work tomorrow early in the morning.
I even sayd thank you for spending the party with me and said sorry if because of me he didn’t get a chance to spend time with others or maybe find some girl. To which he answered: “hey if I would have felt bad or bored I would have “disappeared” or removed myself from situation”. Which is sweet but doesn’t directly say hey I LIKE YOU.
Now I thought hey maybe he is just sweet person and acts with all females like that. But no.. My other female coworkers actually think he is kinda cold and even bit cocky (which in my mind seems like complete opposite of what I experience with him).
Damn one time he even did a cartwheel on the stage after the event kinda showing that he can do it (since the dancer during even was doing them). The only people that were in the room was me and my other coworker who is a man and was doing his own thing. Funny enough that day I talked with my other coworker more (before this). So on one hind I think it was his way to impress me, on other hand maybe he was just being playfull and would have done it even if I would have not been there.
Ok so why I am here asking? Well… Like I said when we are face to face or talking on the phone he is amazing. But when we are not it’s like I don’t exist for him. He never calls, or writes first. But if I do he answers and is sweet and tries to carry conversation. When I asked him that maybe he would like to meet outside of the work. He said we will see.
But than once I made a joke that well not to myself never go to your place once you will be done with all the constructions, he made a joke back that shows that no no you should come.
If I flirt with him he asks me further and so on, but he never shows me his true feelings.
I am wondering that maybe he is just being really nice because he respects me and so on. Or maybe he likes me but he thinks that he could find something better.
I am sooo confused. One thing in the past was that I can read people soo fast. 10 min and I can see through them. But with him I can’t. All my relationships ended because I would see through them fast, and would get bored or see qualities that I wouldn’t be able to deal with in a long run. But with him it’s like he is closed book. I am used to being the one who gets calls, or gets texts or gets offers so with him I feel like fish out of the water (no pun intended
). I don’t know should I continue showing affection or should stop. How to know if I don’t look like creepy obsessed girl? And now his birthday is coming up, I have perfect gift in mind, something that we joked about and he would never ever expect to actually get from me. But if he doesn’t like me and I will give him that kinda expensive gift he might feel awkward or be creped out.
I am sooo confused… Pleaseeee someone tell me what you think. Do you think he likes me? Or not… I just don’t seem to be able to figure him out…
Maybe i am.but do u know how it feels we spent so much time together even on new year's eve i was with him and all his friends,n i saw him often been online eveywhere but he so rarely text me .and if i text him first always takes long time for him to answer with short answer.he makes me wondering who he is texting with .i asked him once about that n he got upset he said dont make him crazy by asking that.thats why this morning i tried to ignore him as he did to me but he got a bit upset.but i was pretty shock that he apologized this time.why virgo man doing like this?he said he was going somewhere with his friends,wud be back today evening n wud text me but now i just saw him online but didnt text me.is it really me that impatient or its him that doesnt want to contact me??
Greeny is my officemate's pet plant. @_@
I can take it if I'm in the right mood but ya never know until you try.
I may snap and chase you down the street or I may just point and laugh.
I may snap and chase you down the street or I may just point and laugh.
You're welcome and anything I can do to help. 
The process of change and growing to to always face the full truth of who we are and our inner demons. It doesn't make us bad people because we're all human. But a lot of life is really about seeing things from a different perspective and the answers always lie within us. It's simply a matter of us using what's in us to change our outcomes. It's not easy because no sooner than you do try bad things will happen to try to keep you from changing but you have to remain focused. That's one thing I've tried to show my friend...focus and follow through.
Lol, I wish you could talk to her. She's trying to make those same changes you are but sadly she falls back to the same patterns. The only thing I can do is try to encourage her. The problem is it's more complicated then that because of what has taken part between us over the last 11 months and I'm not at liberty to discuss it. But I surmise, there's probably someone in your life that can provide guidance. Good luck
The process of change and growing to to always face the full truth of who we are and our inner demons. It doesn't make us bad people because we're all human. But a lot of life is really about seeing things from a different perspective and the answers always lie within us. It's simply a matter of us using what's in us to change our outcomes. It's not easy because no sooner than you do try bad things will happen to try to keep you from changing but you have to remain focused. That's one thing I've tried to show my friend...focus and follow through.
Lol, I wish you could talk to her. She's trying to make those same changes you are but sadly she falls back to the same patterns. The only thing I can do is try to encourage her. The problem is it's more complicated then that because of what has taken part between us over the last 11 months and I'm not at liberty to discuss it
. But I surmise, there's probably someone in your life that can provide guidance. Good luck He is normally online on whatsapp n fb messenger.seems like he texting alot.when i asked about this first time,he said he only text about job n with friends.he rarely posting somethings but normally he likes everything i posted on fb n instagram.
Honestly im assuming that he is busy working n spending time with his russian friends.but im feeling ignored
i am libra
Honestly im assuming that he is busy working n spending time with his russian friends.but im feeling ignored
i am libra Posted by AdmiraIone thing I do know...parents love cancer guys. lolPosted by lisabethur8I honestly wouldn't know. I haven't had anyone chase me ever. I'm kinda like the op's guy. Saturn and Pluto on my asc. Not hard on the eyes but still intimidating nonetheless. Although don't take my word for it, my mirror always lies to me. Also I don't think I have ever attracted anyone with my physical appearance. They always liked me more after they get to know me. My mind drifts off and I end up thinking a lot. While thinking, I look like I could kill a person. Well at least that's what the friend says.Posted by AdmiraII think some are. Maybe they need an individual who will chase them down, tell them that they want you to be their boyfriend/girlfriend, and be together.Posted by lisabethur8Cancers are afraid of everything. Some stay and do nothing, others say "Fuck it. What happens will happen."Posted by narayanahis presence makes you feel threatened??
I have this guy at uni, he's really attractive, has a super creative mind, dope jokes and all, also seems to like me..
I'd give it a shot... BUT I just can't let loose when we're alone. We haven't done much together, by far only met doing group projects or so.. Whenever he tries talking to me, I can't keep an eye contact for longer than a few seconds. It's a very strange feeling, his presence makes me feel threatened. And he does cute things to me, compliments my appearance and so on, but I still can't be myself around him. Wtf. I'm talking one of those unexplainable feelings when you just can't explain your own responses.
He's a Scorpio Sun, Mars and Pluto all 3 conjunct each other.
Is this common with Plutonian people? Does it get better once you get to know them, or it only gets worse?
It's a paradox, I do really like him and I feel a strong urge to stare at him, only if he's not watching. But I'm so nervous I can't make up a sentence when we're talking, it's so awkward. And I'm not talking the basic shyness bs, I'm over it since puberty.
that doesn't sound good.
it sounds like he's scaring you. you need to feel safe not scared.
maybe you are afraid of commitment ...that's why.
My aries sun/Taurus moon and Sag sun/Virgo moon sisters all were with Cancer suns guys.
their ex boyfriends. I don't know how honestly they got together. lol It was at college though.click to expand
maybe except for OJ simpson and....Mike Tyson (for scary appearances) lol
