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Jan 21, 2013Comments: 1412 · Posts: 11166 · Topics: 154
If your conversations always end in your SO, telling you that there would be no negotiations and that you would do as told. Which is to apologies, explain yourself, and have all rights taken away from you until you conform and behave according to their rules.
You owe them nothing, and if they end with a threat, of silencing you should you speak your mind. Then let them have at it, let them wallow in their self made silence because you would be off doing your own thing, something more productive.
If they wish to treat you like a submissive subordinate, let them live in their own delusion. You cannot change them, but you could always change how you react, and whether not you would tolerate their nonsense.
You are not an animal. You are not an object. You are not lower than dirt.
Signed Up:
Jan 21, 2013Comments: 1412 · Posts: 11166 · Topics: 154
If your conversations always end in your SO, telling you that there would be no negotiations and that you would do as told. Which is to apologies, explain yourself, and have all rights taken away from you until you conform and behave according to their rules.
You owe them nothing, and if they end with a threat, of silencing you should you speak your mind. Then let them have at it, let them wallow in their self made silence because you would be off doing your own thing, something more productive.
You are not an animal. You are not an object. You are not lower than dirt.
Signed Up:
Jan 21, 2013Comments: 1412 · Posts: 11166 · Topics: 154
If your conversations always end in your SO, telling you that there would be no negotiations and that you would do as told. Which is to apologies, explain yourself, and have all rights taken away from you until you conform and behave according to their rules.
You owe them nothing, and if they end with a threat, of silencing you should you speak your mind. Then let them have at it, let them wallow in their self made silence because you would be off doing your own thing, something more productive.
If they wish to treat you like a submissive subordinate, let them live in their own delusion. You cannot change them, but you could always change how you react and whether not you would tolerate their nonsense.
You are not an animal. You are not an object. You are not lower than dirt.