Posted by nikkistar... and nikkistar, when I wrote the above, I had meant it when I said it was not in reference in anything in which you had written. It was indeed a general passing thought.Posted by TheLadyScorpioThat would be an ideal world.
In my mind, in an ideal world, all the abused would work together, to support each other, so we could all survive to see and live another day, in a better life.
The fact that so many of the abused, will be oh so quick to tear others down, who may need that vital support to bring them to the surface. That saddens me. There is always so much going against the abused, especially for what they have or still continue to go through. Yet the same pool of individuals, would continue to fight amongst themselves to inflict even more pain than already is.
Now, this was not in reference to anything in which you have written but a passing thought, in general.
I can say I am guilty of tearing someone else down that has experienced the things I have. Because again, I lack apathy for those that have zero strength. That all but condone that behavior and choose to continue to live in it. I know, logicially, that some circumstances are hard for people to get out of, and sometimes those circumstances result in horrendous events. I get it. I do.
But people who still have a way of getting out that don't, I just get pissed off at. My past, and how I dealt with it jades my outlook towards those that can not pull themselves out.click to expand