Divorce final. His new marriage
Posted by DonJohnLol! I don't know about my grandparents..but my parents have never cheated on eachother. It's not them or the society which made me think it's normal. I have only one point here. I don't think my love would be so petty that I'd leave someone for something like that. N if my love is that weak, I don't think I'd get into a relationship with that person.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnA lot lot easier yeah. I've seen it happening to me multiple times. More than a year ago I got lot of flak on dxp when I said I can forgive a cheating mate. All from women. It was a disguised concern for me. But it wasn't any concern at all. I know I can take that much n can handle it. I didn't get what was the drama about. I don't see it as a deal breaker . That will never be a reason for me to divorce my husband if at all.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohn^^Posted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnPosted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnSo should she have just waited til he finished busting his nuts in the other woman and pretended that everything was okay?Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohnI don't know if you've been following my posts. I was actually willing to work it out. You're right, I pulled the plug because HE didn't care. It wasn't a knee jerk reaction, him moving out when he was caught was the knee jerk reaction. It took me some time to even finally come to the conclusion that this wasn't what he really wanted. I mean, it shows. See???Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohn
lmao just lmao @ the female being the one to initiate divorce.
it will always be in the man's favor. he can still mack. you are going to be a cum dumpster for years to come, possibly rest of your life.
your overlords programmed you. You listened to the devil and now you must lay in the bed YOU made.
I'm at fault because I filed some papers when he was staying with her at her mother's house? The only devil was his actions. It was over.
Oh. I see how that goes. Gotcha. I'm not the type to dick jump. I'm no one's cum dumpster. Got the wrong one suga.
just because he cheated, doesn't mean you have to file divorce papers. this is a programmed reaction.
you are still at fault for this kneejerk reaction. you are the one that ended the marriage. it's over the top and completely unnecessary.
too much history and examples around the world to back me on this. you can hold back your tears and say you are happy you made the right choice and .... let me stop you right there. This choice was made for you by someone that doesn't even care about you.
men lie. women lie. facts don't lie. the only fact here is you filed the papers. you can make up lies to support your side as much as you like.
i judge by action and action only.
You are the one that pulled the plug. I care not anything else. You are trying to say you are the righteous one blah blah. it's only natural.
at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road, you are the one that ended the marriage by filing those papers.
you loved him less than he loved you. regardless of what you say, he wasn't the one that snuffed out the heartbeat of your marriage. you did.
You sound like you would avoid anything to be alone.
nope. the double standards does not apply in a marriage between a man and a female. the standards are different because we are different.
the old wise words always ring true like "never make a ho a house wife."
So she has to be unhappy because of someone else's choice?
marriage is a compromise over a longggggggggggggg term.
so if someone is being a dickhead...... then maybe get mad....... but in the end, you should always try to work it out. there are very few exceptions in which I agree with divorce.
but not for infidelity from the man.
My thoughts!!!!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/your-perspective-on-a-cheating-mate--7716258/
you're single handedly changing my opinion on scorpio women.
life is easier when you can find it in your heart to forgive and move on =)
correct. don't let these pain merchants get to you. they are confused about themselves wallowing in their own butthurt and confusion.
the fact is, at the end of the day your mothers, your grandmothers, your great grandmothers to the beginning of civilzation of your family tree have all endured infidelity. it really is NO BIG dEAL.
it only became a big deal in today's special snowflake society where women are programmed with constant butthurt and triggers. to make sure you make the man's lives miserable and make their own lives miserable.
forget all that.click to expand
