Why is this scorpio so afraid of love?
Posted by Sc0rpi0sityThank you. And if this helps you become better I'm glad it helps. But I doubt you're the same, I left out so much of my story bc I was desperatly still hanging on. I could write it all down ofcourse, but that would only mean I will get scorned by some who will call me a fool for staying. I am well aware of that already and I am just utterly ashamed to talk to friends or family about what I went through.
Jesus. This thread has been.....eye-opening.
I can see a lot of myself in this guy you're talking about OP. I'm seriously sorry you've gone through this. Don't take his last action with the new girl personally, it's probably yet another way he's irrationally keeping himself from being hurt by the "love of his life". She's very likely someone he doesn't care much for, and somehow, can't hurt him.
Again, I'm sorry you've gone through this. I hope it (and we) get better.
The cognitive dissonance was strong. So was my heart that thought he was the one. But as my eyes open more and more each day and I go over everything, manipulation, gaslighting, triangulation, stonewalling, silent treatments and even verbal abuse which I all didnt see, I am torn to the core and shocked there are people like this. Hollywood couldn't write it if they wanted to ?