Icy....
I SUPPOSE from the parental stand point they do this becuase they 'CARE'. My father is obsessed with figuring me out; most scorps/people in my life are....they feel I am 'hidding' something if I'm not talking, becuase I appear erriely calm, and unbothered.
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"can someone tell me what the problem is? He's the one who always making these promises but never sticking to them...he's the one always making plans for us to be together but then does disappearing tricks!!! I just want to know does he like me..he tells me that he has never met anyone like me and never wants to let me go and that he is scared of messing things up between us....so why does he behave the way he does? Do any of these behaviour patterns seem familiar to any of you aquas? what's the real story?"
Hi VenusLady - You ask what is the real story? First of all, I am going to say it like I see it...no sugarcoating (I'm not a big fan of sugar anyway) so here goes.
The REAL story here is YOU,VL. I see so many of these posts about women and Aqua men I am truly beginning to see the correlation here. These men are coming into your lives to teach YOU how to honour yourself and to be true to who you are - they are your teachers. Okay, so you signed up to take the course in "Aquaisms" this class is about YOU not him - just like any other classroom you are in, it is not about the teacher but about YOU and what YOU can do to pass this course.
"As hurt as i feel i simply reply ok" - VL, right here you have made a choice to not honor your feelings. Look at what might have kept you from being HONEST with him and most importantly, with yourself in this situation.
"this taurus smells something foul in the air!" VL, this is your instinct (inner guidence system) at work, it is telling YOU something - choice #1, you may choose to doubt it or choice #2 you may choose to again honour yourself by trusting this feeling and respond accordingly for what is best for you.
"He's the one who always making these promises but never sticking to them" - okay, and do you feel this is good with you? is this the type of relationship that you are desiring for yourself? The only way that he can be this way with you is if YOU LET HIM.
"so why does he behave the way he does?" - because he can - you are letting him. A man will treat a woman the way she allows him to. When a woman does not stand up for herself, the man will run away with it...and why not? it is easy and he can.
VL - you say that he says he has never met anyone like you before (oh, yea...this is a common line, I have heard it many times and you know what? those men are darn right they haven't met anyone like me - that does not mean that they are "right" for you. A man can and WILL use any words
Hi VenusLady - You ask what is the real story? First of all, I am going to say it like I see it...no sugarcoating (I'm not a big fan of sugar anyway) so here goes.
The REAL story here is YOU,VL. I see so many of these posts about women and Aqua men I am truly beginning to see the correlation here. These men are coming into your lives to teach YOU how to honour yourself and to be true to who you are - they are your teachers. Okay, so you signed up to take the course in "Aquaisms" this class is about YOU not him - just like any other classroom you are in, it is not about the teacher but about YOU and what YOU can do to pass this course.
"As hurt as i feel i simply reply ok" - VL, right here you have made a choice to not honor your feelings. Look at what might have kept you from being HONEST with him and most importantly, with yourself in this situation.
"this taurus smells something foul in the air!" VL, this is your instinct (inner guidence system) at work, it is telling YOU something - choice #1, you may choose to doubt it or choice #2 you may choose to again honour yourself by trusting this feeling and respond accordingly for what is best for you.
"He's the one who always making these promises but never sticking to them" - okay, and do you feel this is good with you? is this the type of relationship that you are desiring for yourself? The only way that he can be this way with you is if YOU LET HIM.
"so why does he behave the way he does?" - because he can - you are letting him. A man will treat a woman the way she allows him to. When a woman does not stand up for herself, the man will run away with it...and why not? it is easy and he can.
VL - you say that he says he has never met anyone like you before (oh, yea...this is a common line, I have heard it many times and you know what? those men are darn right they haven't met anyone like me - that does not mean that they are "right" for you. A man can and WILL use any words
The pursuit and the end result (the accomplishment of getting what you've set out to achieve) is what it's all about. And also why it has to be done 'our' way or we're not interested.
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to get what he wants. Pay attention to his ACTIONS. Do his words match his actions? If not, why would a woman choose to stay in this type of relationship - this only causes the woman to feel hurt and over time may cause emotional damage. Feeling HURT in a relationship is usually a RED FLAG.....love does NOT hurt - it feels GREAT.
So, we are back to you, VL - does this Aqua man deserve YOU?
Me thinks that a woman needs to plan to date 100 men - just date them, see what it is that you like about them, what you don't and in the process, you will discover more about yourself and have fun! You will also learn the lesson of "letting go" and not hanging on to a non-functional relationship.
Bestest wishes to you VL~
So, we are back to you, VL - does this Aqua man deserve YOU?
Me thinks that a woman needs to plan to date 100 men - just date them, see what it is that you like about them, what you don't and in the process, you will discover more about yourself and have fun! You will also learn the lesson of "letting go" and not hanging on to a non-functional relationship.
Bestest wishes to you VL~
So, if these chaps dont call, that means they are not interested and best to let go, right? If YOU call them and they answer that doesnt count and it still will never end up to become anything right?
looks like i missed the party. shucks.
preach freebird!
you went to church on that post! whew!
you went to church on that post! whew!
Oh by the way...I read somewhere today that the pluto part of Scorpio governs the Scorpio man and the Mars governs the woman...sounds about right..
The men hypnotise you with the eyes and women with the mars aggression...
Hmmm..explains a lot of things
The men hypnotise you with the eyes and women with the mars aggression...
Hmmm..explains a lot of things
SA
Sorry to see you go, it is indeed sad day for me. I hope some day you will change your mind and strike back as a fresh air in this board and participate to remove this stinky FISH odour from here.
We are all lost without NICE Virgo lady in your calibre?!
You take care where ever you wish to be for..!
Sorry to see you go, it is indeed sad day for me. I hope some day you will change your mind and strike back as a fresh air in this board and participate to remove this stinky FISH odour from here.
We are all lost without NICE Virgo lady in your calibre?!
You take care where ever you wish to be for..!
Well don't generalise too much. And it depends on how long you've known each other etc.
Am accidental run-in is good. Can you arrange that?
Am accidental run-in is good. Can you arrange that?