Why oh Why?!
I will say, he is not my source of joy. He is just someone I admire and respect because he is one the best guys I've ever met, honest to God. However, along with having a wonderful side, he also has a negative side, but not in the ordinary sense, as you can see.
ALmost like he is bipolar, but his positive side definately makes up for it. Plus, I care about him deeply because of what he's gone through..as far as his traumatic past. Plus, he loses people close to him..he's lost friends, he's thought of himself as worthless his entire life, I'm assuming because he was adopted.
And I really think I have a purpose in his life...Not sure about him doing anything for me..But I am defiantely a person that can and I am willing to help him..so you know..
And no we're not in relationship. We are just friends. He was doing that when he was "giving me another chance"(even though we were never friends let alone anything else to begin with) after I said that I wanted to meet him later on in life..but ended up giving at least frienship between us another chance but then he found out I had feelings for him and he said he also did for me but he had a g/f and it all went Downhill from their..I just can't trust someone like that. No matter how sincere he is..
I have to teach him a lot before we get anything off the ground, really Leokitten..
Anywho, do you leos take instruction okay..? Do you want it done a certain way.
For example, let's say I said that I would like you to use differenet words besides foul language..and I asked nicely...would you all care to change such things? Or would you only do it for someone that you have an actual serious relationship with?
ALmost like he is bipolar, but his positive side definately makes up for it. Plus, I care about him deeply because of what he's gone through..as far as his traumatic past. Plus, he loses people close to him..he's lost friends, he's thought of himself as worthless his entire life, I'm assuming because he was adopted.
And I really think I have a purpose in his life...Not sure about him doing anything for me..But I am defiantely a person that can and I am willing to help him..so you know..
And no we're not in relationship. We are just friends. He was doing that when he was "giving me another chance"(even though we were never friends let alone anything else to begin with) after I said that I wanted to meet him later on in life..but ended up giving at least frienship between us another chance but then he found out I had feelings for him and he said he also did for me but he had a g/f and it all went Downhill from their..I just can't trust someone like that. No matter how sincere he is..
I have to teach him a lot before we get anything off the ground, really Leokitten..
Anywho, do you leos take instruction okay..? Do you want it done a certain way.
For example, let's say I said that I would like you to use differenet words besides foul language..and I asked nicely...would you all care to change such things? Or would you only do it for someone that you have an actual serious relationship with?
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Hello, everyone! If a virgo male has been in a 2 year relationship and the other person catches them red handed in a lie and is told not to contact them any more because they are a dishonest,looser how does the virgo male usually react? Does he eventually feel remorse because he hurt the other person and lost the trust or does he more then likely just go on his merry way? can someone share some of their knowlege with me?
Just a heads up, Shaka2, they take longer to know than most people---operate in their own worlds in their own time and timing. They check you out for a long time. Yes, you will hear that phrase "long time" on this Board often.
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I think when a virgo lies you can figure it out just looking at their face /into eyes. They are not at all good at that!
1. Once caught, though there are two possibilities: They will regret it so much that they will never ever face you again /contact you at all / try to convince you.
2. Other possibility is they will take it on to them and get sick.
Unfortunately most of them go with item #1. I am not a virgo but have dealth with them and am dealing with them on a regular basis.
A virgo can give better insight onto this. I think one should not mind if the lie spoken by a virgo was to save the loved person.
1. Once caught, though there are two possibilities: They will regret it so much that they will never ever face you again /contact you at all / try to convince you.
2. Other possibility is they will take it on to them and get sick.
Unfortunately most of them go with item #1. I am not a virgo but have dealth with them and am dealing with them on a regular basis.
A virgo can give better insight onto this. I think one should not mind if the lie spoken by a virgo was to save the loved person.
Oh, come on... Am I the only geek here?!?
OH yes they do like to hang with the "lookers" but from what I can see, they treat EVERYBODY well and with total respect
Nah, we're all geeks LOL
Shaka2....well THAT is an excellent attitude to have when dealing with a Libra 
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my virgo's lie was one that did hurt very much.I found another woman at his house after he had just told me the week before that he was willing to totally commit to me and did not want to loose me to anyone else! Then after I caught him, a few days later after giving it much thought I emailed him and told him that he knew trust was a big issue for me and without trust a relationship has nothing. He had 100 excuses and I told him he was a looser and to leave me alone.He is always so guarded with his feelings so when he came to me and told me he wanted to really commit I believed him.I don't understand his thinking!