How insecure are you?
Posted by -Flo-
Now that I'm single and have removed myself from toxic relationships. I'm more secure than ever, I'm going through an emotional healing process and I like where it's heading because I'm opening my heart towards new friends, opportunities, and life changes.
I just created a thread explaining how I'm happy with my body; flaws and all regardless of becoming older. I don't care to feed into negativity, I'm a lot more forgiving, I'm seeking peace within myself, and accepting what makes me feel good. So far this new year has been amazing. I'm definitely growing emotionally and mentally, this is exactly where I needed to be. It's only getting better and I'm excited..
I'm no longer searching for someone, I'm will wait til he's placed in my life because when that happens it will be the right time and when I least expect it.
I have surrounded myself with beautiful new hobbies and loving people who genuinely care about me. That's a lot to say for such an introverted person but I had to open up and let people love me. It was the only way I could learn to trust and finally let go. Focusing on my Education has also been a huge step for me to accomplish, so I'm heading in the right direction.
that sounds really sweet.
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Posted by SsupermanCancer moon has so much to do with this as well. When a cancer moon feels safe... it's like a whole different person. Which is suggestive of trust issues
So, she acted tough as nails for the first 5 dates. She showed emotion physically but it was very limited. She showed it in other ways though. It was in ways that she couldn't hide. Like in her smile and the way she looked at me. There wasn't even a kiss until date #5, and I was ok with that. She was a little hot and cold until I kinda put my foot down and said I don't like the pulling away, she stopped instantly. I have to say that that Venus in Taurus is very powerful. It's the one thing I haven't been able to just dominate. I'm a leader and I find a way to always win. When she finally felt it was safe, she let me in and it's been AMAZING!
She told me upfront that it was either brakes or 5th gear. She's definitely in 5th gear and making future plans. I kinda need her to slow down a little but, I don't want her slamming on the brakes again.
Anyways
Btw, she really likes you
Posted by Feral_doeWhy is she charging full speed ahead?
It seems pretty clear why she's charging at full speed.
And if that makes you uncomfortable, tell her you'd rather things progressed at a slower pace.
It's not rocket science lol
I'm in the same boat as is another one of my friends with one of her girlfriends.
I do have friendships I maintain even when it seems a bit unbalanced, but only because I know those individuals are just more independent and distracted, they don't intend to be selfish.
HOWEVER, my very close Aquarius girlfriend has become notorious for BBDing (bigger better deal)...she will make "loose plans" with you, so that if something better comes up, she'll ditch you and say "we didn't have set in stone plans." Or she will say she can't hangout because she has to help her mom or something and then will post pictures of her out with other friends. Forget Geminis being fibbers, I find Aquarius women to flat out LIE. This particular Aquarius friend of mine is known amongst her colleagues as "the excluder" because she will purposely exclude certain people from social things after work for no reason. People who are ordinarily included in happy hour or whatever else, will be left off the group e-mail or group text on purpose. She never has an explanation, she's just a bully.
I've been friends with her for 10+ years and I've finally had enough.
If someone isn't bringing positivity into your life and helping you grow and you're mutually influential on each other, no thank you.
Surround yourself with people who WANT to spend time with you, who are happy to go out of their way for you and who you actually enjoy being around and learning from.
I do have friendships I maintain even when it seems a bit unbalanced, but only because I know those individuals are just more independent and distracted, they don't intend to be selfish.
HOWEVER, my very close Aquarius girlfriend has become notorious for BBDing (bigger better deal)...she will make "loose plans" with you, so that if something better comes up, she'll ditch you and say "we didn't have set in stone plans." Or she will say she can't hangout because she has to help her mom or something and then will post pictures of her out with other friends. Forget Geminis being fibbers, I find Aquarius women to flat out LIE. This particular Aquarius friend of mine is known amongst her colleagues as "the excluder" because she will purposely exclude certain people from social things after work for no reason. People who are ordinarily included in happy hour or whatever else, will be left off the group e-mail or group text on purpose. She never has an explanation, she's just a bully.
I've been friends with her for 10+ years and I've finally had enough.
If someone isn't bringing positivity into your life and helping you grow and you're mutually influential on each other, no thank you.
Surround yourself with people who WANT to spend time with you, who are happy to go out of their way for you and who you actually enjoy being around and learning from.
Posted by justagirlAquas not for me.... I plan on being with my Leo.Posted by MephistoNot those with tons of fire and a Scorpio rising to bring you to the dark sidePosted by justagirlAquas are too cold, far too cold.... No darkness.
Aqua f/Cancer m
But I'm biased
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Posted by Leoqueen21I hadn't either until recently.Posted by ashley1734hmmm I don't think I've had an interaction that I know of with a Leo man, which is kind of weird to me. I hear that Leo men are all over the place, but that's interesting to knowPosted by Leoqueen21I don't know...it's something weird with Leo men and I.
lol what do the leo men say to you ? How do you know they mind ?
They will seem super interested and engaged on let's say a first date, and there's tons of physical attraction and I never exactly get the idea that they are bored or think I'm talking too much, but then afterwards, they kind of go silent. I'm Venus in Aries so I don't mind pursuing a bit, but when I'd reach out, they go completely missing.
They always come back like nothing happened though. It's bizarre.
I don't interact with an Leo females or males now that I think of it
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I'm surprised with all that fire in your chart!
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Posted by MontgomeryNo they aren't Monty
Those are not friends.
I like Aquas so please don't get me wrong, but of all the fixed signs those people do exactly whatever they treetrunking want to do. I've had to tell Aqua friends more than Tau. Leo. and Scorp. to show me some respect from time to time and not just take take it for granted that I agree with them or go along with them on everything. So for this reason, I'd say Aqua. I've also had to set limits with them because they sometimes treat my life as theirs and my boundaries don't matter to them. Maybe it's a Uranian thing?
With the other three fixed signs, it's probably a toss up.
With the other three fixed signs, it's probably a toss up.
Posted by TeenaAh, I see :-) It's actually better if you ask me... you'd feel like you've really deserved quality rest over the weekend and I find most people enjoy leisure & pleasure even more when they deem it well deserved. ?Posted by FragranceNo.I'm still enjoying holidays actually. I have them for few more days. And then I've to work n study yeah. I'll be able to enjoy weekends then coz I know I've been slogging the entire week. I've been lazing all this while..so ? Work is what is keeping you busy?Posted by TeenaYou're currently working/studying on the weekends? Then it's really awesome that you'll get to enjoy them soon!!Posted by FragranceYou've been that busy that you can't have a lazy moment? Awww..Posted by TeenaI'm fine as wellPosted by FragranceDoing fine Fragrance, Thank youPosted by TeenaPosted by FragranceLol! True that
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I think that's great tbh though. It makes weekends better for one thing. I want back days where I'd look forward to weekends too..which is soon gonna happen anyway. I agree, I use dxp as an escape too
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