We broke up last time because I was moving to another city and neither of us believe in long distance relationships.I met one of her friends today and she said that she has not replied to the other man's proposal yet.I have been trying to call her ever since,but she just won't receive my calls.I don't get.First she says she has feelings for me and then she doesn't even want to talk to me.I don't understand.What exactly does she want me to do??????????
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1362 · Topics: 217
Thanks Arcer. I am sure glad this post was of such a great help to you?
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
i agree that you learn a lot about someone by living with them first...but, some guys think that if they live with you...they don't necessarily need to marry you b/c they can have their cake and eat it too. essentially you are playing house without haveing a marriage...and a lot of guys are satisfied with just that. so, sometimes i think it is a good idea to at least be engaged first before moving in together.
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welcome back OOOOHHHHHHHHHHHH a personal message perhaps I will get my hand slaped.
Hi there Moonchild
I agree it is worth it.I have dated 2 Aquas previously so i know its not easy! But there definitley seems to be some magnetic attraction between the two signs.My current Aqua and i seem to have worked through our incompatiblites and are learning to compromise with each other a bit more. Think us Cancerians find this easier than Aquas though,they can be stubborn so and so's when they want to be !!
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
...and i absolutely agree with unusualcancer!!! you cannot push anyone to do anything if they are not ready. you can express how you feel, but know that it may not change his thoughts at all. and why would you want to push someone into doing something that they are not ready for??? it would not be natural then, and it most likely won't work out in the end.
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LOL ..I was asking EGEM what if she cheats first ?
I totally agree too, we are so different but this also means that we can learn so much from each other. Its not an easy combination but if there is a deep love there this match can last a lifetime. My grandparents were Aqua/Cancer and were married over 50 yrs before my Grandpa sadly passed away. They had many ups and downs but there was a great love between them which bonded them for life.