I did it....
"And I have heard that Americans ladies do work hard"
Yeah, that's for sure .. we don't mess around .. saying to her what you did about the five-year thing, probably was a big hit .. we are competitive and look for the same thing in recruits ..
.. sounds like you won her over with your warm personality, as well as your abilities .. travelling the world sounds great.
Just don't venture to Jersey .. those Jersey girls are Class A Bitches (just throw that in for kris).
I'm sitting here, trying to imagine what's gonna happen to your accent in a short while .. a mixture of English and Northern Twang ..
Yeah, that's for sure .. we don't mess around .. saying to her what you did about the five-year thing, probably was a big hit .. we are competitive and look for the same thing in recruits ..
.. sounds like you won her over with your warm personality, as well as your abilities .. travelling the world sounds great.
Just don't venture to Jersey .. those Jersey girls are Class A Bitches (just throw that in for kris).
I'm sitting here, trying to imagine what's gonna happen to your accent in a short while .. a mixture of English and Northern Twang ..
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I dunno QS. I really wish you hadn't written that email.
LS has a point--simply because Scorpios forget how strong they are. It may take him a VERY long time to recover.
"hehe...yeah me too. In fact I get that complaint from friends alot. Either its " What are you always thinking about?" or " Will stop thinking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"....."
yea, well... these people dont realize the benefits of 'thinking too much'. for one, i feel like it keeps me from being a complete idiot ... takes a lot of thinking for me. lol when people tell me that i 'think too much', i just let the comment roll off my shoulders... thats one thing about me that i dont ever want to change. in the case of thinking, i dont think there is such a thing as doing 'too much' of it. in fact, i think the world could do with more people who think 'too much'. so HA!
"So question is: Does someone change track and make use of what they "think" would be a strength to their career...or change that aspect about themselves in order to do what they thought they should do?"
i suppose, whatever and/or whichever gets the job done. if there is an asset to your character or work ethic that gets you down that career path then run with it, but i think... like JD and notso said... complete awareness of yourself and what you are or aren't putting into it is important. this doesnt mean we need to be the perfect workers, strengths all over the place and not a weakness we can think of, but i think there are moments when those weak characteristics need to be stronger, and as long as we're aware of them and aware of when they are needed... we can at least try to rise to the challenge in those moments as best as we can. imo... that's why awareness of weakness is important... foresight and preparation when we may need it most.
personally that's as far as i would take it for the above above stated reason. i'm afraid of losing myself trying to be something that i'm not.
yea, well... these people dont realize the benefits of 'thinking too much'. for one, i feel like it keeps me from being a complete idiot ... takes a lot of thinking for me. lol when people tell me that i 'think too much', i just let the comment roll off my shoulders... thats one thing about me that i dont ever want to change. in the case of thinking, i dont think there is such a thing as doing 'too much' of it. in fact, i think the world could do with more people who think 'too much'. so HA!
"So question is: Does someone change track and make use of what they "think" would be a strength to their career...or change that aspect about themselves in order to do what they thought they should do?"
i suppose, whatever and/or whichever gets the job done. if there is an asset to your character or work ethic that gets you down that career path then run with it, but i think... like JD and notso said... complete awareness of yourself and what you are or aren't putting into it is important. this doesnt mean we need to be the perfect workers, strengths all over the place and not a weakness we can think of, but i think there are moments when those weak characteristics need to be stronger, and as long as we're aware of them and aware of when they are needed... we can at least try to rise to the challenge in those moments as best as we can. imo... that's why awareness of weakness is important... foresight and preparation when we may need it most.
personally that's as far as i would take it for the above above stated reason. i'm afraid of losing myself trying to be something that i'm not.
I am neither good nor bad. I am simply a person seeking happiness just as I susspect everyone else is doing. It is to this end that I make my choices, justify my actions and author the book of my life.
A better question would be "By what yardstick do you judge if a person is good or bad?"
A better question would be "By what yardstick do you judge if a person is good or bad?"
Awww, thanks guys... Chatz, he hasn't responded to the first email and I really didn't ask for a response, just told him what my feelings were. I have since received two texts this evening from him asking how I am and if I am OK and to bare with him, he cherishes me.... I didn't respond, unless he wants to have a conversation or actually sends an email back I won't. It is a little different for me becasue I look at him two ways as my friend and as a man I am attracted to, some how I have been able to separate the two. I know that is usually hard but I seem to do it well.
However, being a woman it will all blend together if I don't check my feelings now and I might not ever be able to be his friend again because of it. Don't really want that. I am not bitter because I know he is unable to be what I would like for him to be right now. He is or has shut down somewhat but I don't care everthing I said had to be said...
Atom yo better stop... YOU WILL GET IT!!!
However, being a woman it will all blend together if I don't check my feelings now and I might not ever be able to be his friend again because of it. Don't really want that. I am not bitter because I know he is unable to be what I would like for him to be right now. He is or has shut down somewhat but I don't care everthing I said had to be said...
Atom yo better stop... YOU WILL GET IT!!!
Fierce Dravidian >>I think that I'm essentially a 'bad person' I'm corrupt and feel most vitalized only when I'm 'bad.' The good personality is what I project to people.
If you feel good when your are corrupt then to you, that's goodness.
You also say that you project a "good" personality to people. that would also be good...
good plus more good is ...pretty good
If you feel good when your are corrupt then to you, that's goodness.
You also say that you project a "good" personality to people. that would also be good...
good plus more good is ...pretty good
its hard...I wanna call desperately and I have a feeling he wants me to otherwise he wouldn't have offered, but I just can't...I will lose control and I doubt he'd handle that too well and he'll probably be able to melt me again and the casual r/ship continues due to vulnerability (that's what he wants) and I don't get what I set out to get, and that's a more committed r/ship and that comprises of HIM phoning me sometimes, him asking me to go out places, etc. If I melt now, he just gets everything handed back to him on a platter!!! Believe me though, Im not at all strong, not at all.....I just know how he works (I did this 2 months ago and somehow he had me eating out the palm of his hands again)
Unless he's a player, he'll find a way to contact me again....its a matter of just waiting now...the games, once again, begin!!
Unless he's a player, he'll find a way to contact me again....its a matter of just waiting now...the games, once again, begin!!
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LS, why not? Elaborate...
"the reason I asked this question is because I had always assumed ( in my case) that one of my key strengths ( or so I thought) up until now was my selling point and something I had ( what I thought was justified) always emphasised upon only to have someone ( at an authoritive position) tell me that that made me look unfocused. I admit I sometimes I do lose focus ( Gem moon . Don't you just love astrology? You always have something to blame everything on ) but I never thought THAT particular trait made me look unfocused."
and now this!... this could be something to think 'too much' about
whatever was pointed out to you should be considered. since it seems pretty important to you, consider it a lot and definitely with a grain of salt. you believe in yourself more than anyone else will. no doubt there is a very good reason why you thought this strength was justified... dont lose sight of that. nobody else has the vision for your qualities that you do. and besides... are we concerned about 'looks'? or are we concerned about some process? 'looking' unfocused is very different from 'being' unfocused. but i dunno... i dont really know the situation. just some things to ponder endlessly about
and now this!... this could be something to think 'too much' about
whatever was pointed out to you should be considered. since it seems pretty important to you, consider it a lot and definitely with a grain of salt. you believe in yourself more than anyone else will. no doubt there is a very good reason why you thought this strength was justified... dont lose sight of that. nobody else has the vision for your qualities that you do. and besides... are we concerned about 'looks'? or are we concerned about some process? 'looking' unfocused is very different from 'being' unfocused. but i dunno... i dont really know the situation. just some things to ponder endlessly about