Icy....
"I have a confession, I am a bad person. I've done worse things to people for my own satisfaction than I'm sure you can begin to fathom. I've taken advantage of desperate people for my own personal gain. And I've humiliated people, without the slightest hint of remorse. I've taken shattered lives and ruined them ever worse than they were. I have been a bad person, and I'm not even the worse person you'll ever meet. There are many others who have done worse to others than I have. In the real world, people do bad things to each other. We deceive ourselves and think that we rise above it all, but we really don't. Our human urge is to take advantage, to be in control, and to gain at other people's expense. There is not one human soul who has no done this. And yes, I repent my sins, and wait for my karma or judgement. But I know in my heart, even through my exploitation of the desperate, I felt like a good person. My actions just was never aligned with my view of myself. It is interesting, but self-deceit is strong within us all."
In that one profound paragraph, Brandon, for me personally, you have already "redeemed" yourself - I'm not going to say anything more.
A x
In that one profound paragraph, Brandon, for me personally, you have already "redeemed" yourself - I'm not going to say anything more.
A x
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Yesterday afternoon I posted a new ad on a personal site. And that is all folks!
Soon it will be NEXXT!
Those things that are posing a concern to me in regards to my Virgo man (drinks too much, sex not mind blowing, not so giving with his money or affection, his lack of regular contact with me, his pace as to take actions in even in the most simple stuff) are not matters that I can over look. In the long term I will definitively end up regretting them and that it is not what I want to happen since I am looking for the greatest love of my life with lots of chemistry and compatibility and my Virgo man is not it.
I am not settling for less than I want and I am not desperate to be in a relationship (I have been alone most of the 10 yrs that I have been divorced and I will keep waiting for the right man to appear) thus I will continue to casually date my Virgo man and since we are not in an exclusive relationship, nor do I want to be any longer, I am leaving my doors open to meet the one for me. I think we have very few chapters left to be together. I sense my Virgo man knows it too and we are just going with the flow as he has asked on numerous time...
Yesterday afternoon I posted a new ad on a personal site. And that is all folks!
Soon it will be NEXXT!
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***ok I hear you - ugh you are yelling at me. LOL I do not get it though, should I email then like you all? I do not call him all the time, maybe once or twice a month just to catch up, as we ARE friends, right? So, is that still wrong?***
LOL!!! Sorry I know I was yelling, but I know how stubborn we scorps can be once we have our minds set. Was just making sure I had your attention. Sorry, a little aggressive here.
Ask yourself this question... Do your other friends call you? Okay, if not, do you call them. I don't think so... He is too comfortable with you contacting him chasing him. It is keeping him in control, so why would he call you? Stop. give a month or so, if he doesn't call you or text, email something then leave him alone. He is not even a friend. He should though if you can hold out. If he cares about you even only as a friend. Libras do cherish their friends.
OK, no email either...
I will be taking my own advice although I got a couple of texts yesterday after the last email... Naw, I will talk to him when he calls me and he will eventually. Until then. I am a busy woman. I have two dates this weekend...
LOL!!! Sorry I know I was yelling, but I know how stubborn we scorps can be once we have our minds set. Was just making sure I had your attention. Sorry, a little aggressive here.
Ask yourself this question... Do your other friends call you? Okay, if not, do you call them. I don't think so... He is too comfortable with you contacting him chasing him. It is keeping him in control, so why would he call you? Stop. give a month or so, if he doesn't call you or text, email something then leave him alone. He is not even a friend. He should though if you can hold out. If he cares about you even only as a friend. Libras do cherish their friends.
OK, no email either...
I will be taking my own advice although I got a couple of texts yesterday after the last email... Naw, I will talk to him when he calls me and he will eventually. Until then. I am a busy woman. I have two dates this weekend...
Atom I am going to have to watch you. You cheating on me?
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forgive the unbelievers SHABOOM
HP, and what is over your head, are we talking position wise???
Girl, enjoy he is definitely in a better place than the other Libra and the others (me and chatz friends). It won't be smooth sailing all the time. What relationship is. Yeah he will probably soon do the pulling back thing. I know by now you see the signs. Don't take it personal. "It is the Libran way" doesn't mean anything negative per se. He doesn't seem damaged so you have a better chance than with this one.
I must admit they are not all the same. Each one I have been involved with are different in some way, some ways the same. This current one is the worst when it comes to my recent change of feelings...
YOU GO MY SHERO, KEEP HOPE ALIVE!!! Explain the signs, please do. Okay, I have had wayyy too much coffee this morning.
Girl, enjoy he is definitely in a better place than the other Libra and the others (me and chatz friends). It won't be smooth sailing all the time. What relationship is. Yeah he will probably soon do the pulling back thing. I know by now you see the signs. Don't take it personal. "It is the Libran way" doesn't mean anything negative per se. He doesn't seem damaged so you have a better chance than with this one.
I must admit they are not all the same. Each one I have been involved with are different in some way, some ways the same. This current one is the worst when it comes to my recent change of feelings...
YOU GO MY SHERO, KEEP HOPE ALIVE!!! Explain the signs, please do. Okay, I have had wayyy too much coffee this morning.
" I DO intend to give him an ultimatum on what I feel about him, but for now, still want him to know I'm still around, so, even though he doesnt call me"
No, don't do this. Do you give your other friends ultimatums? I seriously doubt you do. It's different because you have an emotional attachment to this guy. He doesn't call you, you call him. Put yourself in those shoes. When you don't call someone, why do you do that?
You have to make it a chase for him girlie. You are too available for him and it's no work for him to think about you because you are the one initiating all the contact. Does that really make you happy? Make his fingers do the walking for a change!
No, don't do this. Do you give your other friends ultimatums? I seriously doubt you do. It's different because you have an emotional attachment to this guy. He doesn't call you, you call him. Put yourself in those shoes. When you don't call someone, why do you do that?
You have to make it a chase for him girlie. You are too available for him and it's no work for him to think about you because you are the one initiating all the contact. Does that really make you happy? Make his fingers do the walking for a change!
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LOL...Yeah I havent been fed on pesticides.
LOL...Yeah I havent been fed on pesticides.