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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
Chocolate: The only time i will disappear on someone if there way to much arguing, controlling, manipulation and if the person is negative. I don't like to keep going over the same conversation again and again. Its mentally draining and boring to me and that person usually pushes me away from them as to the point of no communication at all.
I'm an Aquarius dealing with a Leo and I totally can concur with what was said, I tend to over think things, have issues with trust and sometimes I carry around this high strung energy and it gets on my Leos nerves.
I know for a fact that they push away due to arguing, negativity, controlling, manipulation and bossiness, these things Leos can't tolerate alot of because most have sunny dispositions and never really brewed too long over things. Chocolate made a wonderful point, maybe you can see yourself in some of that and alter your behavior (just a suggestion)
I have found that when I talk to my Leo it's ALL EGO so why argue with that, its just easier for me to say how I feel and not point the finger at him with the you did this, did that, said that etc etc...I just let him know his actions hurt me and move on from it.
I have slipped and over talked certain situations but I was drained afterwards and now I figure its not worth the effort to fight and be at odds. So now I find I analzye my feelings more and more and ask myself is it really HIM or is it some insecurity that I carry around...most times its me. Sometimes I have this urge to just LET HIM HAVE IT so I turn off my cell phone and take some me time and just get away from it all....
Being too demanding and pushy also can turn a Leo off, they just like going with the flow of every day life, I know my Leo doesn't want to rehash and talk about our relationship, he just wants it to be what it is, this is tough for me, I like to know if I'm okay with him but he makes it known to me that if it isn't he will tell me but yet I still fight the feeling to ask/discuss it.
Communication is rough with him because I'm a mental sign and he's more physical by nature..sigh it certainly feels complex at times. I can honestly say this union is teaching me patience.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
I keep telling you girls: date an Aries---but I think you'll have fun tonight, LS!
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Jul 07, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2267 · Topics: 61
If lov is blind,
--Yes
why is lingerie so popular?
Smart people make money from it by firing up the fools (Men) :-).
I am thinking for the sigular plural question answer. Intelligent question, it should be other way around seems like it!
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
LMAO @ So...
Thats more like it!!!!!!!!!
Inject some fire in your godamn Virgo ass!
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Oct 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6167 · Topics: 146
Notso that was insightful.
::appluase::
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
Gurav Aries
I also think what she wrote was very insightful. But let's not get into female psyhe. It doesn't make any sense either.
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Dam another Capricorn I hate it when I get women who think like me.
Why do they call it a tv set in america when you only have one?
we call it a telly.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
Thats another way of looking at it...honestly my emotions speak for me and it just makes him irrational and angry, I have learned a different approach and it seems to work. I definitely take some time for myself and get out of that emotional mental state. If I feel like it needs to be discussed I will but it usually comes in the form of light humor and he seems to respond better. Honey I'm a re-hash queen and he even told me that it turns him off, not his exact words...
Sometimes I think I go too deep for him, I can hear his brain turning lol! Its like he thinks on the left and I think on the right and we clash...its better but its work still the same.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
Yeah, we like reassurance. I think everyone does! Doesn't need to be constant.