Virgo women.. how do you flirt & act around someone you like?
Posted by Liv95
I've been getting to know this Virgo women for a few months now.. it seems a couple times before she would give off intense flirtatious type behaviours but then seemed a bit reserved & standoffish later on.. help?
Virgos can withdraw if they feel insecure or are scared or getting hurt. This may come across as standoffish to others, but she may just not be sure you are as interested in her as she is in you.
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Yes I have and it still haunts me to this day. The relationship lasted 4 years, I was only 16 and he was 10 years older. I'm still repairing myself nearly 14 years later. I had a couple of flings after and met my husband who has helped immensley but things are still not right if I'm completely honest.
I thought I had my emotions in check but I recently posted something that shows they are not. I just doubt myself over everything, seconding guessing my intuition. There are so many layers of complexity that it's hard for some people to understand here (and in real life!)
This man stripped me of my self worth! Now I realise it was a power thing. No man had any business with a young girl like that, despite my mature mind I really was inexperienced in life. I was so confident, rock steady in my thoughts and now I am not. I was better for a long while but since the birth of my baby I've seemed to have lost my identity again.
I'm finding it helps me to write here sometimes.
What's your story?
I thought I had my emotions in check but I recently posted something that shows they are not. I just doubt myself over everything, seconding guessing my intuition. There are so many layers of complexity that it's hard for some people to understand here (and in real life!)
This man stripped me of my self worth! Now I realise it was a power thing. No man had any business with a young girl like that, despite my mature mind I really was inexperienced in life. I was so confident, rock steady in my thoughts and now I am not. I was better for a long while but since the birth of my baby I've seemed to have lost my identity again.
I'm finding it helps me to write here sometimes.
What's your story?
Posted by Neno2Posted by nikkistarofc a man should always pay,thats a must here,i could not go somewhere and let the woman pay
I just watched a video last night, of a guy asking if men should always pay for dinner. I found it fascinating the amount of "yeas" I heard when he asked if men should always pay for dinner. I have never been one to think a man should pay, but it got me thinking. How many women actually think it is the man's responsibility to pay for everything regardless of the length of the relationship?
For me, I sided with the speaker. But that is me.
Here is the video in case some of you want to watch it.
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Why?
PS The article was really interesting and I could relate to parts. Thanks
I feel like this only applied to Women.
I don't see men water signs with female fire signs.
I will say tho, Sags seem to latch onto me every once in a while.
I don't see men water signs with female fire signs.
I will say tho, Sags seem to latch onto me every once in a while.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIt's not about should. Neither LS's, Tiziani, or even my comment says a man SHOULD pay. It is often that a man does because men have an innate sense of wanting to be the provider and protector.Posted by Infinite8I do have manners but why should a guy pay for dinner?Posted by TheLadyScorpio
When a woman walks into a date, feeling entitled to a free meal, at times those same women feel entitled to things beyond a mere free meal as well.
For a man, it could be a red flag. Granted, it is most certainly nice of a man to treat you to a date / dinner, but be a lady. Thank him and be appreciative but do not be a female dog about it.
Entitlement, is always an ugly trait.
From my experience, men feel much more at ease to treat you well, and to shower you with nice things /experiences when you ask little of them. Let them step up and do the courting, and they usually will. You may be surprised at what they are willing to do as well.
I think @Tiziani and LadyScorp said it best.
It's a mix of how you were brought up and manners. It's NOT about entitlement.click to expand
Posted by blackphasePosted by TeenaYeah, a lot of people tend to gain weight when they quit smoking, mostly cause they replace cigarettes with food.Posted by blackphase?? And I thought..well ok nvmPosted by TeenaWe talked about it in another thread some time ago.. He's got a good memory I guess..Posted by blackphaseOh wait!! How does DJ know you smoke??Posted by DonJohnWow, that was quite accurate! Good job!Posted by blackphase
nice nose. the nose is upward turned and dainty. widely perceived as ideal for the female money. iconic marilyn monroe nose. HOWEVEr, this type of nose is very prone to victimhood. someone that is sacrificial in nature almost. gives and gives..... and gives.
dark features and dark marbly eyes. dark personality. hidden agenda and the eyes are not in symmetry means someone that changes their mind a lot. erratic and shifty. relatively narrow and long face without a lot of fat in the face and a long chin....... indicates suffering.
long luxurious hair gives strong personal strength.
will have no problem attracting most men.
advice. i like your style . black and fur is good on you. for purely aesthetic reasons, you shouldn't stop smoking because you look good dark and thin. for health, perhaps stop. but beauty is pain.
You are right about the victim hood and the giving.. but haven't been that lucky with money thus far..
And yes, my eyes are very unsymmetrical (my entire face is) and I do have a hard time making up my mind about many important things. And the suffering.. well that's a given with me.
I do have a lot of personal strength though, right again there.
Thank you for the advice, you are right.. If I don't stop smoking soon I'll be looking like Cruella Deville in a few years :/ LOL
I remember him telling me not to quit before cause I would get fat -_- LMAO
Lol!! People get fat if they stop smoking???
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Interesting.. I'll try to read more about that.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioDon't!Posted by Infinite8I do have manners but why should a guy pay for dinner?Posted by TheLadyScorpio
When a woman walks into a date, feeling entitled to a free meal, at times those same women feel entitled to things beyond a mere free meal as well.
For a man, it could be a red flag. Granted, it is most certainly nice of a man to treat you to a date / dinner, but be a lady. Thank him and be appreciative but do not be a female dog about it.
Entitlement, is always an ugly trait.
From my experience, men feel much more at ease to treat you well, and to shower you with nice things /experiences when you ask little of them. Let them step up and do the courting, and they usually will. You may be surprised at what they are willing to do as well.
I think @Tiziani and LadyScorp said it best.
It's a mix of how you were brought up and manners. It's NOT about entitlement.click to expand
Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by EvoxxxscorpioNot my opinion its just a cultural/societal norm. I honestly had women take me out and pay for the dinner, it didn't faze or emasculate me. Nor do I talke about it because it sounds douchey to me. *shrugs*Posted by ChrisIsKodaklol that's the old fashion way but not gonna disagree with your opinion.Posted by Evoxxxscorpiosets an impression and standard.Posted by ChrisIsKodaklol I agree with being the provider and the protector that's if you two are official but on a first date?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioMen by nature - Providers and protectors.Posted by Infinite8I do have manners but why should a guy pay for dinner?Posted by TheLadyScorpio
When a woman walks into a date, feeling entitled to a free meal, at times those same women feel entitled to things beyond a mere free meal as well.
For a man, it could be a red flag. Granted, it is most certainly nice of a man to treat you to a date / dinner, but be a lady. Thank him and be appreciative but do not be a female dog about it.
Entitlement, is always an ugly trait.
From my experience, men feel much more at ease to treat you well, and to shower you with nice things /experiences when you ask little of them. Let them step up and do the courting, and they usually will. You may be surprised at what they are willing to do as well.
I think @Tiziani and LadyScorp said it best.
It's a mix of how you were brought up and manners. It's NOT about entitlement.
It's a valued ideal for men.click to expand
What a coincidence, women pay me to take you out too.
Posted by nikkistarLol that's cutePosted by LadyNeptuneI tried that with Johm, he gave me the silent treatment the rest of the night. Tried it again when we ordered pizza one time, he grabbed the phone from me when I was giving my debit card, and gave them his.Posted by nikkistarWe are in similar positions nikki. I also make more than my younger gem and he was very adamant about paying when we were first dating. Sometimes when he went to the bathroom I would sneak over and pay the check.Posted by TheLadyScorpioI 100% agree with this.
When a woman walks into a date, feeling entitled to a free meal, at times those same women feel entitled to things beyond a mere free meal as well.
For a man, it could be a red flag. Granted, it is most certainly nice of a man to treat you to a date / dinner, but be a lady. Thank him and be appreciative but do not be a female dog about it.
Entitlement, is always an ugly trait.
From my experience, men feel much more at ease to treat you well, and to shower you with nice things /experiences when you ask little of them. Let them step up and do the courting, and they usually will. You may be surprised at what they are willing to do as well.
My cancer is by far less financially secure. I gross just under 6 digits a year, and my Cancer makes 1/3 of what I do. However, I never try to emasculate him, because I know to do so, would be terrible for our relationship.
He often takes me out, and 9/10 times, he pays. I ask every time if he wants me to, but he won't let me pay. However, I also tailor what type of date we are having to be more respectful of his financial circumstances.
It's one of the main reasons why I adored him so much.
He drives me nuts. But the dude just makes me so feminine, its not funny. I don't cuss in front of him. lolclick to expand
Posted by PootyButtLol I was squating down to get a boob pic. I tried to crop that part out! I posted this pic before in The boob thread . I'm a Hoor and don't care.Posted by justagirlI do see that you managed to get a gap of sorts in the pic, though. Teehee!
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