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Aug 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 800 · Topics: 31
"The whole jealous thing comes into play because we are so afraid you're going to leave us, we need for you to show us how much you really care."
This rings a bell. As funny as it sounds I hadn't had a jealous 'episode' in forever. Started noticing that my crab would kind of try to make me jealous... well finally one day he says, "I want to flirt with a girl infront of you" ..hah.. "Hmm, okay.. but WhY?" and he said to make me jealous. Further explanation.. 'different kind of high' Uhumm very interesting. Wish this convo would have ended there LoL
Don't know crabs to really be the jealous type. They will get jealous from time to time but nothing extreme. For example me and my guy had a misunderstanding. He thinks I fukked up on him at this point. Ok, it sucks but he understands. However, after that he starts doing the usual jealous-person type stuff. Was a lil cuckoo I thought, very unlike him. And like moonmaiden said... not so long ago he told me he didn't want me to leave him, to not leave him. They need reassurance sometimes, no matter how secure they seem.
I think CancerLA and lunarlady have good points.
My friend is having the 'usual' crab problems. He's detached, hot and cold... god damn, just about everything all crab-related complaints stem from. I asked my bf to diagnose the symptoms 4 my friends guy lol Basically he said that he isn't taking her seriously and even more interesting that he doesn't respect her.
He should know, he admits to doing the same things in the past. A crab that is serious about you will be very committed. They also open up. I think that in their effort to make things work they may become very direct, putting any disagreements or possible issues quickly on the table. Indirect hinting and mind game bullshit is dropped.
Since initial stages can be tricky my advice to all would be to just assume crab is uninterested and keep things light. Don't get attached too soon. I know they drop subtle hints but I'll beg to differ and advice you to not look too much into them.
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It went "okay." SHE made dinner (surprised me!)---a quiche. It was perfect. We played the piano together for about an HOUR---yes, an HOUR, and laughed our heads off. Having a great time. OMG, she was stunningly beautiful the whole time. OW. Then we had dessert and just talked about everything under the sun---friends, family, business ideas. And (I'm such a DORK---maybe---) I told her I love her. She heard it but didn't respond. We just went on talking some more and a little later she mentioned I should be a little cooler---as in emotionally cooler---imagine telling an Aries that! Ha! So I gave her some jive talk, but that's not the cool she meant.
Boils down to typical Libra confusion where she loves for me to touch her and be close to her and laugh with her, but wants to stay aloof.
I came home and wrote a long list of why NOT to be with her---to put more distance between us, for me to quit acting like some love-struck little boy who wants to call her all the time and see her all the time, to, HOPEFULLY, get in a position where I have enough self-control to let enough time go by she'll HAVE to call me and set things up and realize her heart IS with me---and able to tell me that. OR not. So I'll be free.
How can you feel ELATED and YUCKY at the same time. (Picture one in each scale. Yippee!).
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One of my crabs friends is also a cancer and he is a real DORK. He's funny in a dumb sort of way lol He doesn't give a shit, he'll say stupid comments to complete strangers.
He once told this girl at the bar something to the effect of "you have beautiful green eyes, i love green eyes" it was kind of dark.. she had brown eyes.
Another time this lady driving a truck somehow went over the curb and hit a building. It had some of those spinning wheels and he said "Oh no wonder you couldn't stop, you're wheels are still turning"
Oh man! There's so many hilarious comments he's made and stupid situations he's gotten into but I can't remember them now... that guy is hilarious though!
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phychics
Is this a new generation of psy?chics?..?? oh boy? coolness, what they do..??
Carlos definitely Taurus... Gabrielle poss Aries??
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
In term of ?Telekinesis? I'd raise my both hands?!
Don't want to know about (American version of it) thou.!
In the initial stages i will always appear aloof and slightly disinterested even if i am crazy about the person. I hate being this way but us cancers are just terrified of rejection. It does take a while to open up but once we come out of our shells and feel a little more secure there is no turning back , you will KNOW how we feel trust me !!