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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
leokitten...yes, he was hanging out at the bar she worked at for a while. and, she probably did seem like a cool person to him and very inviting, since things were going bad between us. and, so he did the logical thing at the time. and, that was the second time he broke up with me...and actually, the first time was just a short "break"...
and, i didn't worry about the same girl during the holiday...that may have been his ex-girlfriend that i was talking about. the girl that he started dating when he left me is now dating one of his good friends...
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Mar 02, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1737 · Topics: 49
Chatz said "if he one day realises that maybe I was worth holding onto"
What? Girl wake up. You must turn this around. It should be him one day realizing that maybe he's worth holding onto. Not you. Of course, you are worth holding onto. This is why he keeps staying in contact with you. However, I remember reading one time you writing that he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but wanted to continue with things the way they were. You know something, that really bothered me when I read that. Yes, he was being honest, but he wants his cake and eat it too. He must earn that privilege, don't you think? It looks like he's coming around, but in a way, he still knows you are waiting for him. He shouldn't be so certain of this, which he is. He should have to prove himself to you, not that you have to prove of your loyality to him. Sometimes in life the very thing we're looking for has been standing right in front of us all along.
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
so, am i just supposed to cut things off with him before he leaves?
i am so lost and confused right now...i don't know what to do.
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yes, but how is it logical to stay with someone that you constantly fight with???
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pshhh and you were thinking about not even giving this guy a chance because you liked your walls....Im sure glad you changed your mind.
fire and air usually go well together
yeah, agreed. move on and forget him. I know it's hard. Maybe when he's older he can be a better guy but he is way too immature right now.