Mainstream sex habits vs awesome sex - salty survey
Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis, the man I am with now. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with - I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, secure, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis, the man I am with now. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with - I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, secure, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
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Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even relaxing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I had that wasn't very noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even relaxing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I had that wasn't very noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I had that wasn't very noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I had that wasn't very noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby to me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I didn't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with. I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
Do you have sex with a certain checklist in your mind?
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis, the man I am with now. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with - I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
-No. But I do reflect on whether or not I'm happy.
Do you try to adhere to some stupid social norm in terms of sex?
- Your question is leading, but my answer is 'No.'
Are you strictly vanilla, because you've been told that kinky sex is "for the mentally ill"?
-I was concerned at first for wanting kinky sex because I didn't know how my Sea-Goat would react and how he would judge me. All of those concerns basically went out the window after our first real talk about it.
Do you feel firty or wrong for having certain sexual fantasies?
-No. I don't feel wrong. But I've learned that I can be really sick in the head.
Are you unhappy with your body/worried that your butt/boobs/dick size/excess body fat will turn a potential sex partner off?
-I had my concerns, but my Sea-Goat, without even realizing it, turned all of my "flaws," everything I've always criticized about myself, and highlights them as to why he thinks I'm sexy. It's crazy - even down to a scar I have that wasn't too noticeable - he noticed it one night, and told me "You know what I love? I love this..." And he kissed it. I was stunned he noticed it let alone thought it was beautiful. I'm so blessed.
Can you relax during sex, empty your mind, and truly enjoy it in the moment?
- Depends. I don't always have sex for that connection. Sometimes, my Sea-Goat gives me sex for the sole purposes of relaxing me. In those moments when I'm stressed, and he approaches me sexually for me, it takes a while for me to shut off my Pisces moon head.
Do you objectify the opposite gender?
- Absolutely. It's fun. But I don't let that affect that I treat people with respect.
Do you rank body types?
- No. it's utterly boring to me. I'd rather dissect what is sexy and detail what is not, instead of just putting a random number in something. Where is the dialogue in that? Where is the contemplation?
Do you go for looks over the sexual chemistry?
-It's fun to flirt with hot guys, but people drain me, so most of the time I am not in the mood. I noticed my Sea-Goat was sexy and strange long before he even finished walking across the lobby toward me.
Do you feel guilty after one night stands?
-I didn't go all the way, but when I did engage in sexual acts, I felt destructive - like, I literally put myself in a position to be raped. It's not even about guilt. I was feeling numb and had a sick urge to separate from myself.
Do you automatically inpose expectations in your mind on your potential sex partner?
-No. I don't. I was more curious about the boring things: "Is he a good person? Is he intelligent? Can he deal with me? Will he hurt me on purpose? Will he dance?" That sort of thing.
Do you hoard sexual partners?
-No. I have only ever been penetrated by one penis, the man I am with now. The Scorpio whom I've "experimented" with - I was cold and cruel to them to force them to leave me alone once I was finished with them. I am perfectly content not ever seeing them again. But maybe I wish I wasn't so cruel to them - just very slightly wish that.
Do you get bitter over sex or being left for better sex/connection?
-No. my sex life is currently whole, wholesome, warm, kinky, rough, exciting, passionate, honest...it's everything I want it to be, and I guard it.
If you answered "yes" to at least half of these, then why aren't you fixing your own misery?
-N/A
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Im libra woman,,wanna ask about compatible between cancerian man n libra woman?so strange i met him in tinder.he likes me.we chat daily.n then we found out we have many mutual friends n actually we met in sebody's wedding couple years ago.He said he saw a cutest girl in the wedding n he thought she was me.I showr him my pic from the wedding n he said it was me for real! He said we even talked for 3 seconds ,he tried to talk to me but i was married so i ignorer him.N now we met in tinder.
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I never meet or date any cancerian man.According to his behaviors now,what do u think he expect from me?
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Are you menstruating?
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Posted by AnteroThat guy said that infront of your guy and he didn't say anything at all? lol
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