Posted by MissMAnd maybe even a few people right?
So the guy who was doing this to me I found out even though he stayed over my house last wknd and we made out ect but didn't have sex that he's actually seeing someone even though I asked him a few wks ago and he said he wasn't seeing anyone. I think the fact we didn't have sex probably made him be able to justify in his head that he didn't cheat on the girl he was seeing so maybe the guy your talking to is seeing someone else.
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Posted by GhostXand for you own good be WISE
My first post was poorly written in a rushed manner so I hope to explain this better and as short as possible.
I am a Scorpio woman who got asked on a date by a Cancer man. When we met for coffee we got along great, had a lot of things in common both positive and negative. The negative being that we both have shitty ex's. After coffee and walking around we both still had our day completely free so he asked if I wanted to just hangout at his place. For a good 3 hours we talked and he asked asked me what I am looking for, I explained to him how I'm not seeking a relationship but I'm not against it either. That I am am looking for a connection with a person based on friendship and loyalty. He agreed that its his view as well, a new person in his inner social circle that he can trust and rely on. As the date went on he was very open to me about his family life. He was very sweet an kept complimenting me on my personality and looks, as the date went on he completely caught me off guard when we were talking. He said " I apologize if I am invading your space but you are so cute" and he kissed me on the forehead. Not a quick forehead kiss but a long one, we stood like that for a while and he kept his face close to mine. Then he broke the silence by saying, "I don't want to weird you out and you don't have to if you don't wanna, but do you want to cuddle?"
Another caught of guard moment, but in the spur of my awkwardness I said "Uh yeah sure, I don't mind". So we cuddled on the couch and watched a movie, no frisky business of any kind just literal cuddling. Fast forward past more talking and laughing and it was time for me to go home since it was boarding on 5pm. Before I let he said how he really enjoyed his time and would love to hangout with me again. He also said " I realize that you said you were looking for friendship and I'm ok with that, I wouldn't want to force you into anything you don't want. So I'm fine with being friends, but when we do hangout again if I happen to do anything that your not comfortable with let me know and I'll stop" Then we hugged and it was the same as the forehead kiss, longer than usual. So my confusion is wondering what did he mean by he didn't want to force me into anything I didn't want? Is he talking about dating? Or a fwb situation? I'm also confused cause when we were chatting he was saying how he hates when people are not upfront and his example was if someone wanted to just be fwb they should be upfront about it. So why is he not being upfront?
Posted by notsosureNeither. I don't bring it up nor do I forget it.
when you first meet someone new (romantic), but you let it slide and don´t ask much about it, ´cause it´s all new and you don´t know, where you want it to go yourself.
But after a while you want something more, but that one thing keeps bothering you.
Do you just forget about it and put it in the past? Or do you ask about it? Even if it´s a long time since you met the person?
Posted by GhostXit's best if you developed a friendship with him so you both have a stable foundation
My first post was poorly written in a rushed manner so I hope to explain this better and as short as possible.
I am a Scorpio woman who got asked on a date by a Cancer man. When we met for coffee we got along great, had a lot of things in common both positive and negative. The negative being that we both have shitty ex's. After coffee and walking around we both still had our day completely free so he asked if I wanted to just hangout at his place. For a good 3 hours we talked and he asked asked me what I am looking for, I explained to him how I'm not seeking a relationship but I'm not against it either. That I am am looking for a connection with a person based on friendship and loyalty. He agreed that its his view as well, a new person in his inner social circle that he can trust and rely on. As the date went on he was very open to me about his family life. He was very sweet an kept complimenting me on my personality and looks, as the date went on he completely caught me off guard when we were talking. He said " I apologize if I am invading your space but you are so cute" and he kissed me on the forehead. Not a quick forehead kiss but a long one, we stood like that for a while and he kept his face close to mine. Then he broke the silence by saying, "I don't want to weird you out and you don't have to if you don't wanna, but do you want to cuddle?"
Another caught of guard moment, but in the spur of my awkwardness I said "Uh yeah sure, I don't mind". So we cuddled on the couch and watched a movie, no frisky business of any kind just literal cuddling. Fast forward past more talking and laughing and it was time for me to go home since it was boarding on 5pm. Before I let he said how he really enjoyed his time and would love to hangout with me again. He also said " I realize that you said you were looking for friendship and I'm ok with that, I wouldn't want to force you into anything you don't want. So I'm fine with being friends, but when we do hangout again if I happen to do anything that your not comfortable with let me know and I'll stop" Then we hugged and it was the same as the forehead kiss, longer than usual. So my confusion is wondering what did he mean by he didn't want to force me into anything I didn't want? Is he talking about dating? Or a fwb situation? I'm also confused cause when we were chatting he was saying how he hates when people are not upfront and his example was if someone wanted to just be fwb they should be upfront about it. So why is he not being upfront?
Posted by rektLol true. I'll give my thoughts here in a bitPosted by beautifulsoul74who better to explain why we are how we are than ourselves though? lmaoPosted by rektLol we can't spill the trade secrets
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and anyone i've forgotten!
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Posted by BuffaloBills28No not SEX!
sex
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHow many on you record?Posted by GemitatiWeapon? It's the 21st century, weapons are a thing of the past. Nowadays you can kill a man with your thumb. Or use curare to asphyxiate him or to relax his muscles long enough for him to careen off the roadPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHmmmm...if you insist! What weapon would you choose?Posted by GemitatiEven better for you when it comes to reasonable doubt, since he's a nice guy they won't believe you'd ever wanna harm him.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI said he is a nice guy! Not nasty guy!
You could always kill the hubby![]()
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Posted by Stihl46
I've been enjoying life the way a man should I no longer work with any Scorpio woman that makes me happier than a pig in sh*t.
The one I was in a relationship I never want to see her again, I did a lot of researching and talking to people that know, her behaviors and the meds she's on she has BPD. I've gotten all my answers and why she has such a path of destruction. She's in another town now which makes me happy I don't have to worry about us crossing paths.
As for the guy she's with he's most likely on his death bed, figured out he's an NPD the two of them feeding off each other. He will be dead soon, seen him back in December looked at him and thought you are one stupid phuck get her out of your life. Maybe he will go off his rocker and give her a lead pill, I don't think anybody will really miss her. Where she is now she will get run out of her new job the people she works with don't like her she will get the hint she's not wanted.
No I'm not the crazy one she's the one that got me turned upside down, now that I've been talking to people in the know. Now I know what the SRRI meds she's on are used to treat. The screw ball b*tch comes around I will have a restraining order slapped on her.
Yes I still have other Scorpio female friends its nice to not have to work with them, they are mentally healthy.
Posted by Ixionlol and don't forget, education, on her PHDPosted by lisabethur8I said most. And my comments have been targeted at her arguments and her methods of intro...others concerned themselves with her wealth or lack there of and her looks. I personally have No comments on either.Posted by Ixionyou're not a virgo? how come you got virguy on your profile.
What's really rich about this is that most of the people who even deigned to acknowledge the OP yet alone insult her were not even Virgos...but thasnoneofmybidness.click to expand
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