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Solitas,
You are probably right. But if he was no longer interested then why try to spend every waking moment with me and ask me in his cute little voice to come over and have sleep overs....why have a conversation with my girlfriend the day before and tell her how pleased he is in the relationship and that things have been so good.
this is what i think.....i think he lacks communication skills and cant handle it when things get rocky...he wants things to be picture perfect at all times. We have had our ups and downs in the past (beginining) and every time we fight i have to be the one to apologize even when i am not at fault...and i do just to get over the fighting, he is known to never take responsiblity for anything. Every time things have been bad i am the one mending them. If it werent for me he would have let things go a long time ago due to pride. i always say sorry and this time i didnt...this is why its now been two weeks since we have spoken and we will probably never speak again because i refuse to call him...he asked me not to so i wont
he lacks communication and although i miss the heck out of him i feel we are BOTH better off
You are probably right. But if he was no longer interested then why try to spend every waking moment with me and ask me in his cute little voice to come over and have sleep overs....why have a conversation with my girlfriend the day before and tell her how pleased he is in the relationship and that things have been so good.
this is what i think.....i think he lacks communication skills and cant handle it when things get rocky...he wants things to be picture perfect at all times. We have had our ups and downs in the past (beginining) and every time we fight i have to be the one to apologize even when i am not at fault...and i do just to get over the fighting, he is known to never take responsiblity for anything. Every time things have been bad i am the one mending them. If it werent for me he would have let things go a long time ago due to pride. i always say sorry and this time i didnt...this is why its now been two weeks since we have spoken and we will probably never speak again because i refuse to call him...he asked me not to so i wont
he lacks communication and although i miss the heck out of him i feel we are BOTH better off
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i don't give a sht if it stings... it's fcking sad that you resort to this site to pick up chicks.
Blingy...cute is good. Cute gets you dates.
It is the one adjective applied to me a lot and I am not lacking for attention.
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I was browzing through a magazine and came across an article about a certain middle of the road celeb singer who had a very high profile break up with his wife a few years ago which appeared to land her in much more of an emotional predicament than it did him.
I considered the picture of this man with his glamorous and fresh and sweet as punch new lady on his arm and I thought he really isn't all that in terms of looks of charisma or talent. His ex-wife on the other hand has much more of a vibrant personality, is very pretty, and is a nice and charming person, albeit a person who has obviously a number of emotional issues.
Yet in the aftermath of their marriage break-up, the man in this relationship seemed smug, holier than thou, was portraying a long suffering spouse who had had to endure the terrible hardships of being with his wife which he didn't hesitate to disclose to the glossy magazine. The woman didn't fare so well. In the years since the end of her marriage she plunged herself into a string of self destructive behaviours and relationships, selling her own story to the papers, saying how she still loved this man and how she was coming to terms with the fact that it was over.
A point that I think is significant is that it was revealed that this same man also had sex with a dance on his stag night before his marriage to this woman.
So I am thinking what was in this man that sparked such calamity in his former wife? In efect what was the nature of the power that he had over her.
And I think of my own failed relationships with men. And could there be a similar dynamic that is at play in these. If I look at the cancer man who I dated most recently, firstly he is fairly skinny as I was not immediately attracted to him when I was dancing with him in the nightclub and he came up to me and then persued me after this. It was the next time that I met him that I became physically attracted to him and now when I think of him or look at him I get turned on. Why is this? Could this about-turn in my attitude and attraction to him be linked to the moment I perceived him as being someone who was not ultimately going to be good for me? I think this is more or less the basis of my attraction to him. But it doesn't lesson the intensity of the attraction.
I considered the picture of this man with his glamorous and fresh and sweet as punch new lady on his arm and I thought he really isn't all that in terms of looks of charisma or talent. His ex-wife on the other hand has much more of a vibrant personality, is very pretty, and is a nice and charming person, albeit a person who has obviously a number of emotional issues.
Yet in the aftermath of their marriage break-up, the man in this relationship seemed smug, holier than thou, was portraying a long suffering spouse who had had to endure the terrible hardships of being with his wife which he didn't hesitate to disclose to the glossy magazine. The woman didn't fare so well. In the years since the end of her marriage she plunged herself into a string of self destructive behaviours and relationships, selling her own story to the papers, saying how she still loved this man and how she was coming to terms with the fact that it was over.
A point that I think is significant is that it was revealed that this same man also had sex with a dance on his stag night before his marriage to this woman.
So I am thinking what was in this man that sparked such calamity in his former wife? In efect what was the nature of the power that he had over her.
And I think of my own failed relationships with men. And could there be a similar dynamic that is at play in these. If I look at the cancer man who I dated most recently, firstly he is fairly skinny as I was not immediately attracted to him when I was dancing with him in the nightclub and he came up to me and then persued me after this. It was the next time that I met him that I became physically attracted to him and now when I think of him or look at him I get turned on. Why is this? Could this about-turn in my attitude and attraction to him be linked to the moment I perceived him as being someone who was not ultimately going to be good for me? I think this is more or less the basis of my attraction to him. But it doesn't lesson the intensity of the attraction.
notso, you have the location and the time. no other words are needed. this is a simple matter and will be handled upon your arrival. only cowards need to hype themselves up for something so paltry.
Perfectionists? Am I the only one?
Apparantly, the only Virgo
It seems a Scorpio thinks threads should be perfect, too.
Apparantly, the only Virgo
It seems a Scorpio thinks threads should be perfect, too.
"think about it.....hardly going to meet up with anyone on ghere,that's the realms of idiocy....wait a minute,who's trying to meet up with notso ????
say it isn't so ?????
again and again and again........."
let's see, she asked to meet up, if i remember. she's coming down to me, if i remember. she's the one that started insulting me, if i remember.
say it isn't so ?????
again and again and again........."
let's see, she asked to meet up, if i remember. she's coming down to me, if i remember. she's the one that started insulting me, if i remember.
So it leads to the point of the topic title; that I think that women still fall harder than men in relationships that haven't worked out and are more likely to be the ones asking why it happened and what they should have done. Why should this be the case when women have the same individual freedoms and right as men?
so why start things if you're too scared to finish it?
do i go around insulting people and then be like "omg why're you so mad, why can't you let it go?" when they get angry?
how about this: learn how not to start sht and won't BE sht.
do i go around insulting people and then be like "omg why're you so mad, why can't you let it go?" when they get angry?
how about this: learn how not to start sht and won't BE sht.
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Early fall FTW beyotch!
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Early fall puts me in the mood to fight since it makes me so restless. Fun fun!