I WANT MY VIRGO MAN BACK
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....
They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.
They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.
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I just watched the interview, you can tell she's hurting. Like damnnnn, it's so hard accept this situation when you thought you trusted someone, and thought he had your best interest at heart.
This fool is so grimey, ugh!!!! Like getting TMZ and other press involved. Like I know he's a Leo but damn you need that much attention. Omg, I pray he get his.
This fool is so grimey, ugh!!!! Like getting TMZ and other press involved. Like I know he's a Leo but damn you need that much attention. Omg, I pray he get his.
Posted by youngaliYeah...that's a long time to wait. But she had been married and divorced before.. she has kids and so does he. So it's not like she was waiting to get married to have kids or anything.. just the commitment. At times he didn't seem as into her as she was into him. But she stayed.. and he eventually understood what she wanted lolPosted by jane84geez. i can't let her see this comment. ?
That happened to a friend of mine (a Taurus) and the guy she loves (a Gemini)... same story.
However....
He finally gave her the title after 4 years and proposed at year 5.
she'll hold on to hope for dear life.
i think that's what she secretly hopes for.click to expand
Mutable has worked more for me... (EXCEPT Pisces)
Fixed stubborn ways drive me nuts and with cardinal we are always going in two different directions. I know what I want, I'm not as indecisive as Libras are described.
Fixed stubborn ways drive me nuts and with cardinal we are always going in two different directions. I know what I want, I'm not as indecisive as Libras are described.
Posted by youngaliYup, would be for me too.Posted by jane84? that's stress.Posted by youngaliYeah...that's a long time to wait. But she had been married and divorced before.. she has kids and so does he. So it's not like she was waiting to get married to have kids or anything.. just the commitment. At times he didn't seem as into her as she was into him. But she stayed.. and he eventually understood what she wanted lolPosted by jane84geez. i can't let her see this comment. ?
That happened to a friend of mine (a Taurus) and the guy she loves (a Gemini)... same story.
However....
He finally gave her the title after 4 years and proposed at year 5.
she'll hold on to hope for dear life.
i think that's what she secretly hopes for.click to expand
Not gonna lie, Chipotle's salads are good when I'm low carbin. Other than that, I'm not eating at a spot that doesn't have tubas & accordions blasting in the background and doesn't have a 2-to-1 mustache ratio.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeI don't know. I'm not a male model. But I did win the Mr. Photogenic and Mr. Winsome Smile awards at some pageant in high school. No kidding!Posted by firebunny?Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeI've seen your picture. You're beautiful.Posted by MrEmptyBackpackI might not be white enough for himPosted by firebunny@UnusualVaginalDischarge
So where are the women?
Beautiful enough for a male model?
DonJohn said I'm delusional lolclick to expand
Posted by 2MoonPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeI was gonna add " Mutable is the best for me "
Bytch asses need fixed to tell their bytch a $ $ what to do
I am just too fixed as a person, my personality is! lol
I don't know if its related to my scorpio moon or not, I just hate to receive orders, being told what to do, I can't deal with stupidity and fixed signs are too stubborn for me. I hate that.
I want the last word.
Mutable signs are so docile and nice, I love it.
Easy going and open to my ideas. Willing to compromise!
I feel like they are more kind and nice too.
The only Mutable sign that I dislike is Pisces.
You really don't know me... You should take notes...click to expand
Mutables never compromise dumb head
Don't point your fingers to us, you are screwed up
Get a life and be happy with your taurus jeez
No worries Pisces dislike you too
Bwahahahahah
Posted by 2MoonProbably.. I'm pretty stubborn and might wear the pants in a relationship if I can get away with it. I actually led my relationships with Geminis and Virgos. Could be my Taurus moon?Posted by DolluxxeI go with mutables...
2moon I'd say I prefer fixed..
Hmm.
Do you think its because you are a woman?
Like women are in general more submissive, more willing to compromise...etc..
I want to lead... Thats hard to do against fixed signs, they are so stubborn....ugh.
I clash with themclick to expand
Really boring when I take the wheels all the time.
With fixed signs, they can butt heads with me and I'm forced to submit (depends on the situation ofc) There's the challenge for me..
Posted by ChuckcemThanks for replying. I understand that he is only 22, which speaks volumes to his behavior, so I don't think that I'd entertain a relationship with him anyway. I just got out of a 7 year relationship and know what I want out of life and a partner. He would literally just be a fling, and that's not my cup of tea these days. I guess I'm just irritated because of my pride lol. On top of it I'm your typical Taurus and for him I briefly stepped outside of my comfort zone. He taught me that it's ok not to plan things down to the last detail and enjoy some spontaneity.
He got bored. Remember, he's 22. People in their 20s are used to texting incessantly now and moving relatively fast. On top of that Sagittarius, like any fire sign, wants to know "are you in or out?" when it comes to romance.
My guess would be that you are typically patient when pursuing a romantic relationship, hence why you were cool with taking the "friend" approach. For a Sag they'll agree to be friends to avoid getting pinned down and losing their freedom, but that doesn't mean they are looking to be "just friends".
This Sag is also 22 years old, so he's only going to be patient for so long. As a Sag he probably has other women circling around him. This is probably why his texts dwindled after your first date. When things didn't move along with you physically, he started entertaining other options. No big deal, it's not like you two were exclusive, you were just "friends" right?
Then on your second date you leaned him to hug him, he went for the kiss, you turned away, and he turned you back. He appreciated how refined you were in the beginning, but got tired of not making any notable progress. A woman turning her head away from a kiss is seen as lack of interest. So yes he did like you because he was trying to kiss you, but he thought maybe you felt differently. The same way you were confused, he probably was too.
Also remember he's 22 and possible has other women in their 20s who are being way more direct. Generally younger men will go for more mature women in the hopes that there will be less games. When you turned your head away it looked like you were playing hard to get. He got stubborn and went for the kiss anyway.
So he ghosted on you. He figured you were too much work. The sad thing is, I can totally understand why you took things slowly. I think that as we age and become more cautious, we lose our spontaneity when we date. We become more guarded and more jaded. If you like a guy, don't be so hard to read.
As a fellow fire sign (Leo) I know that in my 20s I had no patience for women who played hard to get either, especially if she was older than me. I'm far more patient and understanding now. I would not take the "friends" route either and would have asked a woman out on a clear date. If I were to go in for the kiss and she turned her head, I'd assume she either wasn't interested OR wasn't in the present moment and following some "rule" she set up in her mind.
I wouldn't worry about this guy though. From your pic, you look like you'd have no problem catching another guy's attention. You may want to shoot for someone who is a bit more emotionally mature though.
Posted by arabbossI take it you don't have spots around you that serve pastor & tripas and you gotta yell your order 'cuz they've got La Chona playing way too loud in the background.Posted by UrsaMediocrewhat are you talking about
Not gonna lie, Chipotle's salads are good when I'm low carbin. Other than that, I'm not eating at a spot that doesn't have tubas & accordions blasting in the background and doesn't have a 2-to-1 mustache ratio.click to expand