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aaah ok..
all of this is subjective
I would contradict myself ten folds...
(RU Sirius???)
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all of this is subjective
I would contradict myself ten folds...
(RU Sirius???)
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BlueStars, well from what I've seen, I would have to say that it's prob. not an ideal combination, my mom (aries) and dad (scorp), divorced when I was really young and I don't have a single memory of them together when they were not fighting. My sister who is a scorp as well just got out of a relationship with an aries and from what she says, it was a very bad experience for her all together. Scorpios are a little more romantic and abstract than the very pragmatic aries. But you know with astrology, you have to take everything with a grain of salt.
Yes. But I knew the moment I met his eyes that I would fall in love with the Leo ... and well ... here I am. Actually, my initial response was "Shit. I am in over my head. I am not ready for this." His first response was, "Shit. She is unbelievable. Fuck." HE can claim me as his because I already am his. Unfortunetly. Well, at this point, even though my feelings are there I can't allow him to "claim me" because he hasn't earned it. Last I heard, he was nesting because I was what he wanted and then poof ... he vanished.
IF I didn't feel that way and he tried to pressure me into feeling that way, I would dig in and rebel. It would drive me away. But I knew when I looked at him, that I would love him and the chance of a significant relationship was there. He knew it too. He just wasn't ready either so poof!
Does that make more sense?
My last significant boyfriend I knew could claim me because something very similar happened. We were together for three years after I had my "that is my guy" moment. When I have those moments, I position myself to make it easy to be claimed.
I do not play hard to get. The leo would have to work to earn me back because he hurt me and he knows it. He would have to recapture my trust.
IF I didn't feel that way and he tried to pressure me into feeling that way, I would dig in and rebel. It would drive me away. But I knew when I looked at him, that I would love him and the chance of a significant relationship was there. He knew it too. He just wasn't ready either so poof!
Does that make more sense?
My last significant boyfriend I knew could claim me because something very similar happened. We were together for three years after I had my "that is my guy" moment. When I have those moments, I position myself to make it easy to be claimed.
I do not play hard to get. The leo would have to work to earn me back because he hurt me and he knows it. He would have to recapture my trust.
But if the last guy that I met and dated, if he pushed me before I knew ... I would walk/run away because when I allow myself to belong to someone, it comes from me.
Know what I mean? Anyone? lol!
Know what I mean? Anyone? lol!
My Dear Dward 417
If bluestars 03 thinks no one cares let her try missing a payment or two. As for me lov its a great movie and you do sound like a scarlett O'Hara. Or are you a scarlett woman?
If bluestars 03 thinks no one cares let her try missing a payment or two. As for me lov its a great movie and you do sound like a scarlett O'Hara. Or are you a scarlett woman?
I really don't think there is anything she can do. When a man convinces himself he isn't enough for you, the only thing you can do is give him the time to do what he needs to do to convince himself he is worthy.
Finally some plant life.
Your glasses are emo too
Your glasses are emo too
"He said something like Libra the goal for your life should not be to get and enjoy as much sex as you possibly can. I can say this because I am a Libra."
I think sex has a different level of importance for us than it does for a lot of other signs. It is easy come easy go with me, but I refrain from one night romps just because of the lack of depth. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I am able to "communicate" a lot of the deep emotions I have trouble understanding and articulating in sex. I think of each sexual experience as a conversation, and I just don't want to talk to a lot of people like that lol....even a lot of the ones I am physically attracted to.
"We HATE being told what to do and will dig our heels in on purpose when pushed."
Amen to that.
If we allow ourselves to be claimed, I say there is a 99% chance it is because we have already conquered you and we are just sitting back and letting you claim us because we know whats really going on.
There are different levels of "claiming", there is the aggressive "your mine" and the passive "I want to be yours", naturally I HATE the idea of claiming or being claimed, but I think that a small amount of possesiveness is healthy, small........small amount, and so I will accept the passive version at first and later on if my feelings are deep enough then I will allow the later version. I went in circles over and over with the virgo ex who had the same strong aversion to any type of possesiveness, a stronger aversion to it than even mine. And in seeing that in her I realized that possesiveness isn't bad. Intillectually, I disagree with it, realistically I think it is necessary on some level. No matter how cool headed you are emotionally, and I am, I do want to "have" someone on a deeper emotional level. That kind of possesiveness actually affords the kind of freedom in a relaitonship that the idea of total freedom ironically doesn't provide.
It is kind of wierd, air signs won't claim you or want to be claimed, and I am ok with that. Earth signs might, but when the do, I don't want any part of it. Fire signs must it seems, and thats just not going to happen for me, water signs the same, and for some strange reason scorps are the only ones I will not only allow the posessiveness with, but for some reason it doesn't bother me like it does with everyone else.
I think the need for the claim in a female scorp is, within themeselves, selfless and ok.
I think sex has a different level of importance for us than it does for a lot of other signs. It is easy come easy go with me, but I refrain from one night romps just because of the lack of depth. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I am able to "communicate" a lot of the deep emotions I have trouble understanding and articulating in sex. I think of each sexual experience as a conversation, and I just don't want to talk to a lot of people like that lol....even a lot of the ones I am physically attracted to.
"We HATE being told what to do and will dig our heels in on purpose when pushed."
Amen to that.
If we allow ourselves to be claimed, I say there is a 99% chance it is because we have already conquered you and we are just sitting back and letting you claim us because we know whats really going on.
There are different levels of "claiming", there is the aggressive "your mine" and the passive "I want to be yours", naturally I HATE the idea of claiming or being claimed, but I think that a small amount of possesiveness is healthy, small........small amount, and so I will accept the passive version at first and later on if my feelings are deep enough then I will allow the later version. I went in circles over and over with the virgo ex who had the same strong aversion to any type of possesiveness, a stronger aversion to it than even mine. And in seeing that in her I realized that possesiveness isn't bad. Intillectually, I disagree with it, realistically I think it is necessary on some level. No matter how cool headed you are emotionally, and I am, I do want to "have" someone on a deeper emotional level. That kind of possesiveness actually affords the kind of freedom in a relaitonship that the idea of total freedom ironically doesn't provide.
It is kind of wierd, air signs won't claim you or want to be claimed, and I am ok with that. Earth signs might, but when the do, I don't want any part of it. Fire signs must it seems, and thats just not going to happen for me, water signs the same, and for some strange reason scorps are the only ones I will not only allow the posessiveness with, but for some reason it doesn't bother me like it does with everyone else.
I think the need for the claim in a female scorp is, within themeselves, selfless and ok.
I agree tripod time for a 3ed party, one must remember change is inevitable , except from vending machines.
"I would walk/run away because when I allow myself to belong to someone, it comes from me."
Right... Got that. But, that being said, once it comes from you, then... Come on, people, work with me here.
"When I have those moments, I position myself to make it easy to be claimed."
^^^ - This is what I am talking about. At that point... No holds barred?!? Are there limits?
Right... Got that. But, that being said, once it comes from you, then... Come on, people, work with me here.
"When I have those moments, I position myself to make it easy to be claimed."
^^^ - This is what I am talking about. At that point... No holds barred?!? Are there limits?
I really believe Libras just know who their partners are or are meant to be. Every significant friendship/lover I have known by looking at them. It is just an intuitive thing.
Anyone else tries to step into those roles, it doesn't work because we know and we resist.
I really think Libras in love are very hearts on our sleeves.
Anyone else tries to step into those roles, it doesn't work because we know and we resist.
I really think Libras in love are very hearts on our sleeves.