Posted by VirgoreanMost awesome description! I echo this!
Virgo
I am smitten in the initial phase. I am intrigued, excited, anxious, and terrified. My love takes patience for it to grow and I will not become aware I have fallen until it hits me like a ton of bricks. It could be as simple as watching you host a board game night while everyone is chatting away waiting for the game to start, but you're quietly studying the instructions manual intently while I happily watch you, unbeknownst to you, mumble to yourself. The background chatter will have melded into a humming ambiance as I am solely focused on you. But I will not yet inform you my love has finally bloomed, it will be shrouded in mystery for the time being. I will trick my brain into thinking it was mere infatuation and forget the moment until later down the road when an act would trigger this specific memory.
I'm a woman of very little to say, therefore, when you do hear those words it will not be a moment considered as 'the timing as right.' No, it will be blurted out of the blue as a reaction to the giddiness that bubbled inside me in which I could not contain. It is a rare moment of truth with utmost sincerity and elation. You will not hear it for the sake of hearing it and I will not say it for the sake of saying it.
My love will increase seeing you in your natural state observing how you react to certain situations and overcome adversity. The more it grows, the more I will do to add comfort to your life. I create reassurance by how much comfort I provide.
Once I've fallen in love, I will have surrendered full vulnerability to you. You've managed to shatter dowm my walls and I will have become completely devoted to you. I'll cast aside my pride and I will fight tooth and nail to keep us as one even at the cost of my dignity.
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Posted by DickButtThank you. Mine is a 5.Posted by WalkergrlLife path is numerology in a sense. You add up your birthdate and break it down to a single number and it's a way of describing how you approach things.
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Posted by nanobyteYou sound like my gem. Working 40+ hours and he's going to school part time (15hrs). Then he does his side hustle on the weekends working on cars...few hours here and there.
Geminis.... what are you guys up to and working towards lately?
I am spreading myself way too thin right now with working 2 jobs and these classes are kicking my ass. It's hard to stop this momentum because I want the money ... I am addicted to money, like a drug addict to drugs ? The more I have, the happier I am.
I have been severely lacking sleep and neglecting school as a result of it. I need a break, I am ready for the summer, I am barely holding on. I'm falling asleep at work and in my classes but can't sleep at night because I'm overstimulated from the day.
My cap mars likes that he's as obsessed with working as I am. My Taurus Venus is pleased that he literally has no time to talk to other females...even if they were throwing themselves in front of his feet ?
Posted by Libralady1985I'm also 1985
As a Libra woman, how do you typically, react, feel, think, etc when a man hurts you?
So the last time this happened to me was 5 years ago. I hope that was the last of this same reaction to hurt/betrayal.
I lose alot of weight, days kind of drift into one another, my work can suffer. It pretty much used to consume me. I think Ive gone through a major transition period since that last time though. I spent that time pretty much alone/single...in order to work through that feeling of ridiculous suffering because another human decided not to treat me right or decide that I wasn't worthy based one their short-comings.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneI really liked what you wrote.
I was single for a myriad or reasons.
Not wanting to settle: because, in part, I've been financially independent since 18, I very rarely do anything I don't want to do. Why should I? It's my life and I'm paying for it. So when I was dating and encountered a red flag I wouldn't stick around to try and 'change' the guy. On to the next.
Workaholic: I've been so focused on education and then my career that dating was always last on my priority list. I still dated, but I always prioritized work, me time, and friends over some dude I just met.
Putting me first: Two of my more serious relationships wanted me to give up my life (work, friends, family) and move cross country to play house. These same dudes would never do the same for me.
Timeing: A lot of it has to do with timeing and luck of the draw. Sometimes you need to date a ton of douches before you strike gold. And each of those experiences taught me more about myself and what I want out of life and a partner.
More women should think this way.
This cancer guy is my first boyfriend. We've been together for more than a year till he cut me off.
Actually in a year we broke up for few times and then back together. Everytime we break up its always him being wishy washy about our long distance relationship, about our differences,and sometimes he even said he wasn't sure if he loved me or not. When we back together, he's completely different, being super sweet guy, saying I love you all the time but when we break up, he always pushes me away.
This time we had a big fight and we broke up. I realized my mistake and I asked for apology.
At first he said that he still want to try again but later on he said he's tired and didn't want to continue cause I always gave him cold shoulder, ignoring, our distance (we had a long distance relationships) sucks too.
Usually when we broke up, whenever I send him a text he would always reply. Eventho he still pushed me away like asking me to move on, etc.
This time, when I sent him a text, he didn't reply at all.
I was just soooo confused cause right before we had a big fight, he still hugged me and said how much I meant to him (cause I was the only one that care about him this much - his ex left him for another guy) and how much he loved me, we had a lot of plan together such as visiting his family for thanksgiving, moving to the same city, etc.
What should I do? I really love him and think he's the one.
Actually in a year we broke up for few times and then back together. Everytime we break up its always him being wishy washy about our long distance relationship, about our differences,and sometimes he even said he wasn't sure if he loved me or not. When we back together, he's completely different, being super sweet guy, saying I love you all the time but when we break up, he always pushes me away.
This time we had a big fight and we broke up. I realized my mistake and I asked for apology.
At first he said that he still want to try again but later on he said he's tired and didn't want to continue cause I always gave him cold shoulder, ignoring, our distance (we had a long distance relationships) sucks too.
Usually when we broke up, whenever I send him a text he would always reply. Eventho he still pushed me away like asking me to move on, etc.
This time, when I sent him a text, he didn't reply at all.
I was just soooo confused cause right before we had a big fight, he still hugged me and said how much I meant to him (cause I was the only one that care about him this much - his ex left him for another guy) and how much he loved me, we had a lot of plan together such as visiting his family for thanksgiving, moving to the same city, etc.
What should I do? I really love him and think he's the one.
Posted by LadyNeptuneMe too, but for me, it's usually the Libras born in October. I get Geminis sometimes and less often get Aquarius, but when I do get the Aquas, I like them.Posted by ImpulsvSame. Zero air except for a 7th house placement and I attract the air signs like flies to shit.
I have no fire and I attract Aries men!
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Posted by DickButtYes, but it started to worry me lol. I thought id end up an ol spinster with 15 cats n all that. LOL! It is definately about the right person coming along, and you not even noticing or feeling affected negatively by their presence. They add to it. Then you wonder how you ever did feel complete with a solitary life.
I absolutely love being by myself, and not attached to anyone. The only thing that bothers me is that if i'll ever be ok with being with someone again. Has anyone been at this stage and gone farther? I guess the rhetoric finding the right person, right time, right you, would make sense here. But right now, i love being single. I guess i can also attribute this feeling with the fact that growing up through my teens and early 20's i was always with someone. And now not really wanting anyone or needing someone feels refreshing. I dunno...what are some of y'all takes on this stage of life and beyond?
I think they key word could be "attached" I don't like this word. I am my own person with my own wants, needs, thoughts etc. When someone comes into your life they should understand and compliment this.
Do they all know about each other?