Posted by VirgoreanOnce the safety net is present, and the Bull is evolved emotionally, there will be nothing to prevent this Bull from committing. No insecurity, no emotional blockage, no feelings of inadequacy...
It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.
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Posted by ScorpioTruthDo you like virgos?Posted by uchihaYesPosted by ScorpioTruthVenus virgo?
Scorpio sun
Libra rising
Cancer moon
Virgo Venus
Sag Marsclick to expand
Posted by NemDeuxLol you don't have to ?Posted by DepthAndDeathis it in order to welcome you back too? ?Posted by NemDeuxWelcome backPosted by DepthAndDeathit is; yes ?Posted by NemDeuxNemilicious?
it's not comparable to photography of the past. these pics in the thread are sensationalist and disgraceful.
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Posted by IamTheRamMen put more effort in how to make things work? I have not seen much proof of that....I have seen men run into the arms of other women when things go wrong, some go online and try their luck with other women, and the cases i have heard where marriage counselling is involved, the man often refuses to go and the woman attends sessions alone (I have heard two examples of that recently)Posted by tizianiThis here! This is what i am talking about!Posted by WhatthehellPosted by tizianiIsn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected?Posted by WhatthehellThe walls of text I read are usually ego struggling to cope with rejection. That may or may not involve (some) loving feelings there in a few cases. Not for me to say. But often I read OPs from women who basically don't even like the guy they're writing about, and they know it, but they're struggling to cope with the fact that he doesn't pay as much attention to her as she expected, even though once he does (if ever) she knows it wouldn't really be what she wants and she'd leave anyway.Posted by IamTheRamThat's a very selective reading of what goes on here in my view.
A carefull look over the threads on these forum can give you the answer.
On the majority of the cases, this is what happens:
When its women...he didnt do what i want...he didnt listen to me...he doesnt change..i deserve better...give me this...give me that...etc etc..
When its men..no matter what i do..she doesnt love me...altough she did this or that...i still love her...etc etc
Pay a little attention and you will see this pattern on most of the cases![]()
I am talking about heartbroken situations and users are here trying to understand the why's of it. ^^ and ofc i am generalising this..but yea..hehe
Btw...there is also a 3rd rule to TheSag dads freind list.![]()
Who are the woman haters here? DJ for sure...The Sag has said some pretty iffy things. There are several men here who refer to dating as a "numbers game" as though women were items in a shopping cart.
I don't see any women saying similar things. I see them come here and write giant walls of text about all the stupid things they did to try to get a guy to stay, and people slam them and call them stupid.
You've been here a long time I see. I have not yet seen the last part of that statement happening, except that one lady who said she didn't even want to see this dude's face, but she was thinking about going out with him anyway.![]()
"Isn't that what all the posts about getting broken up with are about? Trying to understand how one got rejected? "
That's true. You're right.
The last part often doesn't need to be outright said by the OP but it shows in how they respond selectively to posts. Especially if they reply only to responses that emphasise it's all the other person's fault for the relationship not being up to OP's expectations (even though they're not there to give their side of the story) and the threadstarter is actively looking for people to point out flaws in their partner's character or behaviour.
Generally speaking, I'd say that's when the love is completely forgotten about.
Damn..this last week there was a guy that found out her gf was an escort...look how people treated him...
And look at his reaction...he was still trying to defend her Gf and finding a solution no matter how.many bricks people were aiming at him...fuck...it was..*painfull* to watch it to say the least...
As for the majority of women post on this subject...it really is what you are saying Tiz...they gather up and throw the blame on the other person in order to find comprehension among each other...and ofc..the selective story telling of facts...lol i am not even go down that road
But there was a women here also some weeks ago that was trying to make things work out for her relation despite all the *faults* her partner might had...that was admirable what she was doing...
And thats what people should be trying to do...
Sure i also agree with you Tiz...man do have more perks when it comes to this subject...
But most of the times...man do try to put more effort on *how to make things work*, instead of trying to find just the blame on the other side...because if *you* are just trying to find blame...you didnt even realise that *you* also have some stuff to work out on yourself...
Rship means 2...for better or worse...
Again...generaly...most of the times...generalisation...people...click to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by DwellingOnMoveI think he's a Virgo
is firebunny's sun sign of Earth element? I need it for statistics. anyone knows?click to expand
Posted by blackmoonI have learned NOT to sleep with a guy right away. It just doesn't work out for me! I've learned to have the guy drool over me and if he's interested, he will continue to contact me. He has.
What are somethings you learned in life? Or relationships? Or people? What advice would you give
mine would be, always give person room to breathe and it should be give and take
For life..It would be keep learning from mistakes, if you dont get hurt by it..you might not avoid the situation
Friendships are valuable.. dont make promises you cant keep
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI'm Virgo-Libra cusp / Libra dominant. Venusian.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by DwellingOnMoveI think he's a Virgo
is firebunny's sun sign of Earth element? I need it for statistics. anyone knows?
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