Ok we mention it often, so why, WHY do women love and want only ONE MAN?

Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by DeeLovesRed
I think women love multiple times within their lives. Mightn't be all at the same time, but most (didn't say all) of the time they love one man at a time. And when they give their love to that man, they desire him.

The reason we desire a man is because we want to build. Now even the promiscuous women, there's always that one person she LOVES and WANTS. Reason being, because she want to build with that person in all aspects.

If that makes sense... not trying to give a long explanation..

Right, women typically seek to form bonds and emotional connections in relationships. This can be time consuming and exhausting with more than one or two partners. Likewise the consistent process maintaining the attraction levels of multiple partners can also be tiring. Therefore it makes sense that a woman would want to focus her energy into a single mate.

That's not to say that a woman can't have multiple lovers or emotionless sex, but both men and women can be extremely territorial. If a woman is entertaining several men, then it's likely that she won't fully invest in one man. That means those men won't entirely bond with her either since they may be entertaining other women themselves. If a woman is looking for a partner who can provide (and even protect per se), this will put her at an obvious disadvantage.

This can become complicated if she is wants to build a family. Remember that women bear the brunt of childbearing, so it only makes sense a woman would want to lock down a loyal, supportive partner to rear children. As a species we have the longest time frame for child rearing, so making a long lasting bond with a single partner also makes sense. Since men are very territorial, there's no guarantee that a man will be loyal to a woman's family if he is not invested in the children.

It's no secret that men have the primal desire to mate as much as possible, so there must be an exchange to keep a man from doing that. As a result a woman offers her physical (and emotional) exclusivity to him and in return he provides his emotional (and physical) exclusivity to her. She gets the support that she desires and he gets a consistency he wants.

Of course this all pertains to our species in a general sense. To sum up, monogamy for both women and men boils down to creating consistency for each partner. Focusing on one mate ensures that women (and men) can secure certain advantages to mate.

Thank you for giving the long explanation... so now the dumb-dumbs can UNDERSTAND!!

Beautifully explained!!!

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