Posted by cheekyfaerieDayum that's awesome! But even women don't know why. I guess it's not vital to know.
I can only speak for myself on this one, but when I fall for someone, I get relationship blinders. It was a year and a half in before I even started watching porn again and largely because I realized he probably never stopped. I don't desire another person. I don't want to. I want to delve into all manner of obscenities with him and him alone. To do otherwise feels like a failure to me. Why? Your guess is as good as mine.