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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Checking Sola out, lol!!!
****blushes furiously*******
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Jan 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 213 · Topics: 17
umm...well. actually...uh...geez...uhd, well...it's like...you know...
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Do i suspect a jealous puppy??
C?mon Kris, i?ll give you a cuddle.....sqeeeeze!!
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i'm happy for you too, Dreamy-Eyez; it's good to know you have found such a great friend in Jesse..!
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Bling, no more Hollyoaks!!!Whats happening in Corrie and Eastenders?!!!
Someone said i looked like Shelley the barmaid, and i cried for 2 weeks.
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"mind you she had been threatening him with child support and he had to go to court with her alsoi the next day"
You know, it sounds to me as though he is just under a lot of stress right now, BlueVirgo .. he has a responsibility to another child, dealing with court and support, and his ex threatening him .. plus, he has a new baby, which also requires him to take full responsibility .. that's a lot on one persons plate, which doesn't even include having to work everyday, and being a man to his woman (you).
Right now (assuming were talking about a newborn), as well as during your pregnancy, your hormones are out-of-whack, which leaves a woman a lot more emotionally unfocused (which isn't a fault of yours, all women have this when they're pg) .. and he has to deal with that too.
That's a tremendous amount of pressure on one person .. it only stands to reason that eventually tempers would flare over the littlest, stupidest issues .. this steam that gets pressured up has to be let out, or a person would just pop. Maybe this is just a ventilation on his part .. a person can only do so much before they start blowing gaskets.
I don't think it's YOU in particular, he wouldn't be with you, having a baby .. if he didn't love you. I think it's just all this built up inside him and he feels like he's pulling his hair out. Maybe the best thing for you to do, before you freak out is just give him a little space and time to cool off a tad and sort things out.
You know (which I'm sure you do), Aries people are very competent in handling most anything that's thrown at them, they're tough and durable, and most importantly, they have a remarkable sense of loyalty to the people who are dear to them. You are dear to him, or he wouldn't be there, sharing his life with you ..
So, I don't think you really have anything to worry about, except his stress-level. Perhaps, if you did, or said something to let him know that you are aware of his distress and that you will stand by him while he sorts everything out .. this will likely give him a sense of relief because he'll know that you are entrusting in him, you're confidence in his confidence of being able to get through this with keeping the best interest of all involved.
Just my thoughts ...