Posted by saweetz1988Haha I did the same with the cap I was seeing.Posted by AerazoSomething I would so do too.. nothing like a crazy and a wild night at home.. when my Aqua comes over he brought me wine, we danced bachata and did some romantic dancing which led to romantic kisses which turned into rough hot sex haha. Then we talked and had crazy mental stimulation for ages in between... mm heaven at home... nice n a cheap to have fun hahaPosted by SolesanThat's why I only see one or two of my friends during this time and do exactly that ^
If they do, hope they don't mind me coming in joining them bringing alcohol, weed with me and watch sports, play video games or chilling out with them.click to expand
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Posted by WeedsAnd what if he isn't ready to listen or talk?Posted by Ashley0202Somewhere at some point all crabs say the same thing.Posted by WeedsBut he simply asked me not to wait for him.. bc he may never get married.. as I mentioned in the previous post that his sister is getting divorced so he is afraid of this stuffs.. I tried to convince him asked him that do u really think that we won't be able to make it work, he said that I don't know its working right now bc we hardly talk to each other.. and then he said that I m just afraid and I don't want you to ruin your life bc I m not sure of anything in my life... and asked me to say something I couldn't say anything after hearing all that.. he broke up thrice and everytime I pulled him back by apologising for not being wrong.. I apologised everytime for no reason just to assure him that I m always gonna be with him.. and everything was perfct between us.. all of a sudden he came up with this statement..Posted by Ashley0202It's usually a protective thing.Posted by WeedsPushing people away? What do they expect people to stay and wait everytime or they just like it this way, pushing them and never wanting them back?
Communication is something crabs lack.
Learn to be in tune with them emotionally.
Takes time and patience and a whole lotta understanding.
Sometimes you gotta learn to be as hard headed as they are at persistence as they are at pushing ppl away.
Well emotional connection can only b developed if they are also interested.. they just get moody one moment they want to b with u and the other they are just so done with you..
While doing this push pull thing u never know wen they may leave u forever..
And with them once u shared a deep connection atleast then they should try to keep it simple..
If they push you away and you don't come back then "they were right about their insecurities about you and them pushing you away was justified"
Moody is just coming with the territory
It's a flaw you can adapt to and take advantage of.
Forever is not necessarily in a crabs vocabulary.
you really have to do some cold stuff to a crab
before they bolt the windows and re enforce the entrance way to their shell and consider you dead.
Keeping it simple just isn't on them alone.
Agreed.. he is afraid.. but this isn't the way to deal..
I have given my all... what do have to prove.. he knows my loyalty.. and even if he has so many insecurities then how can I help him.. when he isn't even ready to listen...
Are u a cancer? Or have a cancer friend or partner?
Especially when they come to a pretty good relationship.
Uncertainty..
Waiting on a crab isnt the answer.. being resilient is.
But for some it's far easier to let them go because they make it so very difficult and it always feels like your efforts are futile.
Now if your going to tackle his insecurities you have to shut them down as they pop up meaning. .. When he mentions divorce and makes comparisons. "They getting divorced that could happen to us too"
Shut that down "they are two different ppl, we are two different ppl not the same to be compared"
Anything that pops up negatively, rebuke it.
You have to be that confident to change his stance.
Never acknowledge it with " you think we aren't going to make it?" It will only solidify his thinking.
Nope, I just know enough about cancer to survive.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewBasically, a planet has to be Stationary (I.e Sr or Sd) before it becomes Retrograde (i.e Rx - backward motion) or Direct (i.e D - forward motion)they're both stationary. what is the difference between them?
Stationary Retrograde and Stationary Direct.
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Posted by Shinzowow thanks. what is the best site to get a birth chart?Posted by AerialViewthey're both stationary. what is the difference between them?
Stationary Retrograde and Stationary Direct.![]()
Sr is Stationary Retrograde about to move backward, Sd is Stationary Direct, about to continue its forward motion.click to expand
Posted by EffervescentMy partner's path number is 4 n he doesn't seem to have any of these except loyalty... ?
Who did you hear they share a good compatibility from?
4 is all about structure. Loyalty. Building a foundation. Starting from scratch and building something of substance. Transformation. I'm a 4. *giggles*
5 is all about creativity, having fun, being dynamic, full of energy, popular, etc. Adventure, risk-taker, dare devil, etc etc.
I guess this is bad for me since my Life Path is a 4 and my Soul Urge is a 5. Such opposite energies.
Posted by Shrewdsharp?? I can't.. and I know he too doesn't have any other woman in his life... its just his fears and our lack of communication..Posted by pinkbird03
His behavior makes me think he's talking to another girl.
Well that's what it means to be unmarried. But yeah it does sound like he's talking to another girl and that he has leverage so then you need to start talking to another guy so that it's balanced.click to expand
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