A libra lady thats almost most 50 likes me but
Posted by v s o pbuck up shorty - take her pills, make her shower, and then F her ...
Sniff pills.my life sucks i need a clean woman
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See how he respond to being chase .
I agree with the above as a Virgo and as someone who date a lot of Virgo .
When they take their space . They still like to know you care about them and still check up on them .
When they like you , not pushing but be there for them when they go quiet , that solidify the relationship . They like someone n need to recharge , but at the same time they don't actually want to be away . Something is probably suffocating them at the moment .
Virgo don't usually ghost . They will let you know bluntly if they aren't interested
I agree with the above as a Virgo and as someone who date a lot of Virgo .
When they take their space . They still like to know you care about them and still check up on them .
When they like you , not pushing but be there for them when they go quiet , that solidify the relationship . They like someone n need to recharge , but at the same time they don't actually want to be away . Something is probably suffocating them at the moment .
Virgo don't usually ghost . They will let you know bluntly if they aren't interested
I have done that with a relationship....... I carried on trying and then finally got to 'that' point..... I sent some choice words to that person, not nasty just poignant ones...... it's like me doing the 'no going back' type message. Sometimes the only way I can get someone and something out of my system!
Posted by Chuckcem
Well this is pretty obvious but let's run through it:
First know that with a Scorpio Moon, this Cancer woman may have moments where she becomes paranoid, jealous, possessive, or even obsessive when it comes to matters of the heart. Scorpio Moons tend to be more subtle about this though. As a Cancer she may have moments where she acts passive aggressively when hurt. She may also seek to protect her heart preemptively if the relationship seems off.
For whatever reason, this woman felt the need to end things after 4 months. You did the right thing by accepting the break up and letting her go, which she wasn't expecting. People generally expect a little resistance or to be chased after initiating a breakup. This helps the dumper by validating their decision. Therefore as the dumper it can be confusing when the dumped person gracefully accepts the breakup. The lack of melodrama takes the wind out of the dumper's sails. If the relationship was relatively positive, it can even make the dumper second guess themselves.
So you started talking again as friends at your request. Typically when guys request to be friends with their recent exes, it's with the hope of rekindling things. Women know this. Sounds like you were chill though, which confused her more. It upset her that you seemed to be able to move on so quickly. You've already said that she tried to make you jealous, but you laughed it off. She was hurt by how little sway she had over your emotions. Realizing this she dropped contact to see if you would react to her disappearance. Again you did the right thing by letting her go. Since you didn't take the bait, she's resorted to stalking your social media.
So now everything should be pretty obvious once you get to the part where you and your friends went to the nightclub. She saw you dancing with another girl and enjoying yourself without her. That definitely messed with her head. It's one thing for her to see you having fun, it's another to see her potential replacement. No one wants to be so easily replaced.
So the short answer is, she still has feelings for you. She apparently isn't emotionally mature and has been acting passive aggressively this entire time. You've done an excellent job of not falling for her mind games though. Keep enjoying your life and talking to other ladies. There's a very good chance she'll be back.
Thank you so much for your input. It probably is pretty obvious to anyone else lol. The sag in me can be quite aloof which is why I've learned to ask for opinions.
One of her reasons for breaking up was that she had been hurt in the past and it still bothered her. She was definitely the most jealous/possessive person I'd ever dated before. I took it as a sign that she cared and felt like my scorpio venus went well with that. I don't mind that kind of behavior because I understand it, and I always tried to my best to reassure her when she acted that way. She hid the jealousy better than the possessiveness for sure.
Aside from a bit of jealousy, we definitely had a positive relationship. It seemed like we only grew closer and closer. She was the first to say "I love you" etc, and after that I felt like everything was solid, which is why the break up was surprising. There wasn't a slow losing of interest or distancing, it was just very sudden. Two days before she was talking about moving in.
But yeah, I've never been one to chase after being broken up with. Too much pride. After it happened I stopped talking to her for a week but noticed she kept watching my snapchat stories, which made me reach out and ask if we could be friends. She never answered the question, just changed the subject. At the time I was just happy to be talking to her again until the attempts to make me jealous started which made me think she didn't actually want to be friends but was maybe playing around or trying to get a reaction. I didn't take it as her still having feelings, so when she went cold I went to moving on again, no attempts to chase. And after two weeks of her not responding, I figured she'd forgotten about me or moved on as well until the other night.
Hopefully she'll come around if she still has feelings
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Your chart looks like Blake lively , and I like her. She's very Virgo . When you're "very" any sign I think it's crystal clear to see the charm and beauty of that pure sign . Just be careful about the weakness of that sign too
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They collect data about you . They try their best to know everything about you . Every possible thing. We become detectives in getting to know you .
Despite being Virgo , I make it obvious but I think it's from my Scorpio
Despite being Virgo , I make it obvious but I think it's from my Scorpio
Yep one right here! Things were going well..... then things weren't...... not a long story..... it has finished after to-ing and fro-ing. I noticed it started faltering around early March, got worse with arguments, him losing his temper quickly and me reacting and cutting him off....... we remained in touch every single day still! Saw each other a few more times, but I wasn't comfortable and he was untouchable mentally...... I finished it finally this weekend just gone. Finito!
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Sounds Virgo .
This is how it goes for me. I go through I very painful phase of laying in bed and cry , not motivated to do anything if I love the guy. It's really damaging , I hate this phase.
Then..
I analyze my situation and where I could possibly have been at fault
Then I put it down into a mental note as something to work on for my future husband
Then I start my gym going routine where I workout to stop thinking and focus on myself . With every lift and stride I'm working toward something for me.
Sometime I wish more people broke my heart . I would have an amazing body by now . I wouldn't be able to deal with the initial break up phase though .
But in your case, you made the decision to let go, most Virgo are sure of their decision when they make one, I'm just a very emotional Virgo
This is how it goes for me. I go through I very painful phase of laying in bed and cry , not motivated to do anything if I love the guy. It's really damaging , I hate this phase.
Then..
I analyze my situation and where I could possibly have been at fault
Then I put it down into a mental note as something to work on for my future husband
Then I start my gym going routine where I workout to stop thinking and focus on myself . With every lift and stride I'm working toward something for me.
Sometime I wish more people broke my heart . I would have an amazing body by now . I wouldn't be able to deal with the initial break up phase though .
But in your case, you made the decision to let go, most Virgo are sure of their decision when they make one, I'm just a very emotional Virgo
I guess I'll respond first.
Let's step away from astrology for a minute. You already know the situation. This woman is fresh out of a relationship. Sounds like you may have been caught in a rebound unfortunately. That's not to say that she was never attracted to you, clearly she was. However the problem with being a rebound is that you're receiving misdirected affection. So it's highly possible that once this woman started sorting through her feelings, she may have realized something was off internally. Her emotions are probably still raw and confused.
The next thing is, you became clingy. Even if her emotions weren't still raw, you probably applied more pressure than she was ready to handle. This was probably a bit confusing for her since you were more dominant in the beginning. Once you started to get more emotional you became a bit more submissive, which flipped the sexual polarity. She was originally attracted to your emotional fortitude, but when you became more emotional, she backed away. When she backed off, you pursued even more, which became a factor in the breakup.
So right now she's not sure what she wants. The real issue is that her emotions are in flux. She cares about you, but probably isn't prepared for anything emotional. When your relationship was more sexual, everything was simple. Recently though she's had to sort through her feelings for you, which is why she got cold after getting jealous about your Snapchat. She realized that she wasn't prepared to feel hurt again so soon. She may have realized that she needs to build herself back up before she can be with anyone.
Alright back to astrology, Leos take breakups hard. Even when we don't show it, we feel breakups as a failure on our part. So the Libra cheating on her, left her emotionally wounded. You became her rock after that breakup, but unfortunately you also became her emotional sponge. You gave her the attention and loyalty that she felt she'd lost with the Libra. Her ego was still very bruised though, so when she saw your Snapchat she overreacted. She saw your actions as a break of her trust, something she just dealt with in the last relationship. This wasn't the main issue, but the final nail in the coffin.
As a Cancer, once you cling to someone, you're not letting go so easily. So your feelings probably became a little too overwhelming for her. In fact her own feelings probably became too overwhelming for her to handle. So more pressure is not recommended right now. All you can do is give her space. Leos like attention, so more than likely she will come back around when she misses you.
If/When she comes back you need to be clear that you want her romantically and that you can't be "just friends" with her. If she wants to see you and hook up while she sorts through her emotions, cool. If she needs a moment, but is open to dating then that works too. If she says she can only be platonic with you, tell her that you're not going to lie to her (or yourself) by denying your feelings for her. Tell her the door is always open and to contact you if she changes her mind. Then you need leave and continue on with your life. If she winds up missing you, she'll come back. If not, then you'll know it was just a rebound.
Let's step away from astrology for a minute. You already know the situation. This woman is fresh out of a relationship. Sounds like you may have been caught in a rebound unfortunately. That's not to say that she was never attracted to you, clearly she was. However the problem with being a rebound is that you're receiving misdirected affection. So it's highly possible that once this woman started sorting through her feelings, she may have realized something was off internally. Her emotions are probably still raw and confused.
The next thing is, you became clingy. Even if her emotions weren't still raw, you probably applied more pressure than she was ready to handle. This was probably a bit confusing for her since you were more dominant in the beginning. Once you started to get more emotional you became a bit more submissive, which flipped the sexual polarity. She was originally attracted to your emotional fortitude, but when you became more emotional, she backed away. When she backed off, you pursued even more, which became a factor in the breakup.
So right now she's not sure what she wants. The real issue is that her emotions are in flux. She cares about you, but probably isn't prepared for anything emotional. When your relationship was more sexual, everything was simple. Recently though she's had to sort through her feelings for you, which is why she got cold after getting jealous about your Snapchat. She realized that she wasn't prepared to feel hurt again so soon. She may have realized that she needs to build herself back up before she can be with anyone.
Alright back to astrology, Leos take breakups hard. Even when we don't show it, we feel breakups as a failure on our part. So the Libra cheating on her, left her emotionally wounded. You became her rock after that breakup, but unfortunately you also became her emotional sponge. You gave her the attention and loyalty that she felt she'd lost with the Libra. Her ego was still very bruised though, so when she saw your Snapchat she overreacted. She saw your actions as a break of her trust, something she just dealt with in the last relationship. This wasn't the main issue, but the final nail in the coffin.
As a Cancer, once you cling to someone, you're not letting go so easily. So your feelings probably became a little too overwhelming for her. In fact her own feelings probably became too overwhelming for her to handle. So more pressure is not recommended right now. All you can do is give her space. Leos like attention, so more than likely she will come back around when she misses you.
If/When she comes back you need to be clear that you want her romantically and that you can't be "just friends" with her. If she wants to see you and hook up while she sorts through her emotions, cool. If she needs a moment, but is open to dating then that works too. If she says she can only be platonic with you, tell her that you're not going to lie to her (or yourself) by denying your feelings for her. Tell her the door is always open and to contact you if she changes her mind. Then you need leave and continue on with your life. If she winds up missing you, she'll come back. If not, then you'll know it was just a rebound.
Spontenaity for me..... anything that is just done on the spur of the moment!