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Just be yourself and be focused on improving yourself internally ...as a cancer myself there were things I wasn't happy but I realized I needed to grow .....especially with the sensitive ....get over that and the insecurities it brings and you'll be fine you'll find if you can grow and be balanced asa cancer ...nothing can't stop you !....
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Posted by rabidtalkeris it? never knew this.
It's always retrograde
Posted by ChrisIsKodakPosted by Cancan26Could be worse. You could be a cancer man with a scorpio moon. That's actual cancer by dxpnet standards.
^^^^ Me Reading some of the responses in this threadclick to expand
You're not a Scorp mooner ?!
Posted by LillyPetalThat too...but I've learned over time that women that are genuinely into you aren't as picky with "first date" activities as you would think. It's also kinda of hard to get to know someone if you're stuffing your face...lolPosted by whateverthemoonsaysThat's smart. Money is an investment. I don't get why some might take another out to a four star restaurant on the first date!
This is why I'm pretty minimalist regarding first "dates".click to expand
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I am unsure what his Venus/our Mercury are, my apologies.
Thank you for your insight, I am continuing to send messages each day keeping them positive etc. Starting to find it incredibly challenging - it is very hard not to let things creep into one's mind. I am at the stage where I don't want to regret anything since we keep being pulled back to each other, our connection is amazing.
Originally we had planned that I was going to visit for 4 weeks at the end of this month. If that was to go well then we would assess the next step of moving permanently. He still wants me to go, I am hesitant and suggested maybe we should wait a few more weeks since he raised the needing space situation. I don't want him to feel more pressured etc.
I don't really know how to navigate this at all. Trying to do what feels right but I do not want to give up on him or us but at the same time, the pull away is really painful at times for me.
I am unsure what his Venus/our Mercury are, my apologies.
Thank you for your insight, I am continuing to send messages each day keeping them positive etc. Starting to find it incredibly challenging - it is very hard not to let things creep into one's mind. I am at the stage where I don't want to regret anything since we keep being pulled back to each other, our connection is amazing.
Originally we had planned that I was going to visit for 4 weeks at the end of this month. If that was to go well then we would assess the next step of moving permanently. He still wants me to go, I am hesitant and suggested maybe we should wait a few more weeks since he raised the needing space situation. I don't want him to feel more pressured etc.
I don't really know how to navigate this at all. Trying to do what feels right but I do not want to give up on him or us but at the same time, the pull away is really painful at times for me.
Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?click to expand
i swear i didnt do anything,i think she caught feelings then swam away,we are texting right now and she is just proving what i think it is.
Posted by EarthgoddessWhenever I put myself forward and expressed I would love to be with him, he backed away. He knows that I always saw him as who I wanted to be with, but I've always known to not rush a committed relationship. But so much time has passed and the friendship has been an on and off strain for most of it.... well, I have just discovered that he has a girlfriend (again) he just throws me to the waste side for fun. I'm done trying to figure him out, he's not even man enough to speak to me with truth. There's no maybe's. I'm ending it now, with silence.Posted by CurlyAriesClearly this virgo has a thing for you if he "always contacts you" while ur ignoring him, or not reciprocating contact. This seems tough. I really believe the understanding between an Aries and a virgo is non existent.Posted by CherrylipsThank you for articulating this in the way that I couldn't. This is exactly how I feel. It seems so hard to get my point across, no matter how I say it to him and it's frustrating.
OP, I like to deal with honest and straightforward people. Virgo ain't one of them. I'll take aries over virgo anytime. So, learn your lesson, lick your wounds, you'll be fine, you're strong.
There's this quote that reminds me of dealing with virgos (male or female):
"You can't argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level and beat you with experience!"
Now, it's not that I think virgos are stupid, far from it! It's just that most of the time they have no idea how their words and actions affect other people. And when you point it out to them, immediately they try to blame sth. or someone else, probably you, for misinterpreting things, when in fact it's not even a blame game, it's just you, trying to get your point across.
Out of all the signs, virgo (followed closely by libra) men are the most talked/written about in relationship department. Which brings me to think they're the problem and not the women who complain about them.
I'm determined to be done and just ignore him whenever he decides to contact me next. Knowing him, he always does.
They( aries) either come of as playfully interested or ice cold to me. All the while saying how much they like/love you. Im sure the issue here is confusion. Virgo wonders if ur genuinely interested in him? Or if u just love the challenge? Wat would you say or think if i asked to move our friendship toward a relationship? Virgo isnt comfortable putting themselves out for rejection when aries already said they were interested in friendship.
Idk if most Aries in these situations are having the same feelings. From ur post it seems u are.
Move on this will always be the problem ( understanding)
Dnt respond to him at all and virgo will lose love interest and move on as well. As long as there is a strand of maybe in a virgos love interest. We tend to linger?click to expand
Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189Posted by PVJamzPosted by Aquarius3189What did you do? Is there a reason why she deleted your number?
I called her today then she texted me saying who is this?it means she erased my number and it hurts?i didnt respond though i dont know what to say,its breaking my heart right now i think i need a drink?
she told me she changed number then now its because her gf at the time dont want her talking to other people which i felt she was lying coz we were at the same situation when we were in the middle of our friendship and she is with that same person thats why we only talk in facebook so i dont understand the reason why she coudnt tell me
I don't understand. Are you saying that she has deleted your number before?
Are you male or female?click to expand
female,we met at an LGBT app then hit it off,we text and call everyday,then video calling,even when she is on a relationship at the time she always find a way to sneak time for our conversation when she came home from work so i dont understand her reason right now saying she didnt respond to any of my text just because her gf is the possessive type,she started ignoring me when she told me "what if one of us caught feelings?" Told her its impossible since we have only sweet platonic friendship,then poof shes gone
Posted by PiscoxoI see...
Let's get real though, we all know that we really don't care wether people like us or not. The Scorpio moon is not a people pleaser, unless it's business oriented. ::shrugs::
So for Scorpio Moons - relationships are just usual business (managing other people's resources (: emotional and physical).
Posted by AneemA08Retrograde just makes it harder, more strict. You come from 12th house, of dreams and escapism, in tis life you must learn to work hard and keep a strict routine. I guess that's what happens when oppressive governments oppress millions of people. Lots of virgo/taurus 6th house north nodes....
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Could this be of anything that may prevent me to achieve it?
If there is a pattern on how Sags love or feel and other signs accordingly to astrology, Im wondering how Sags deal with grief.
Im still pretty shaken by this last days events.
After a period of almost 4months no contact my Sag reached out. He is moving to China for a couple of years. He wanted to tell me that but when asked why he wanted to share he said he didnt know why, he just wanted to tell me.
Then this last week he insisted a few times to meet. On Thursday I agreed to meet him. I thought it was going to be awkward but it was in fact quite pleasant. I went to bed happy. Relieved.
But Friday morning, very early in fact (around 6:30am) he replied to my text saying he was driving to his parents home because his dad passed away.
I was on the phone with him as long as I could, around 1hour until there was no reception in the area he was. I didnt want him to be all alone with still 1,5h drive away..
He wanted to speak about it. I think I was one of the first person outside his immediate family to know about it and I still feel that conversation was surreal. I tried my best to be supportive and to send him strength for what he was about to face. It was an unexpected death, so I guess it made it even worst. We even managed to lightly laugh at one episode about me dreaming about his dad once..☹️
Tried to call him a few other times during the day but it was impossible to reach him. I imagine that by then he was comforting his mum/ brother so phone was not exactly his priority, of course.
We exchanged a few brief messages though where I told him he shouldn't worry about getting back to me, that unfortunately I couldn't take his pain away, but if he needed to speak or unload, I would be here.
This episode has been on my mind 24/7. Im completely heartbroken for what this guy is going through. He is very close to his family. And regardless of what happened between us, it hurts me to see him hurt.
I've sent a couple of other messages here and there always reassuring him he doesnt have to answer, just to tell him Im praying for his family and shall he needs, Im still here. Im sure he has a lot to deal with now, and will have for the next days, months..years? His life will never be the same without his dad.
I have no right to make this about me, but my heart broke a little last Friday too and I truly wish I could help him. But this is a fight no one can fight for him..
Im now giving him space not to add any stress to what he is already going through. Perhaps when he is back in town I'll just quickly drop by with some food..
In the meantime, Im wondering if any of you ever lost a parent and if you want to share the emotions that went through you. And if you did, what do you find supportive in this situation.
This has haunted me all weekend ?
Im still pretty shaken by this last days events.
After a period of almost 4months no contact my Sag reached out. He is moving to China for a couple of years. He wanted to tell me that but when asked why he wanted to share he said he didnt know why, he just wanted to tell me.
Then this last week he insisted a few times to meet. On Thursday I agreed to meet him. I thought it was going to be awkward but it was in fact quite pleasant. I went to bed happy. Relieved.
But Friday morning, very early in fact (around 6:30am) he replied to my text saying he was driving to his parents home because his dad passed away.
I was on the phone with him as long as I could, around 1hour until there was no reception in the area he was. I didnt want him to be all alone with still 1,5h drive away..
He wanted to speak about it. I think I was one of the first person outside his immediate family to know about it and I still feel that conversation was surreal. I tried my best to be supportive and to send him strength for what he was about to face. It was an unexpected death, so I guess it made it even worst. We even managed to lightly laugh at one episode about me dreaming about his dad once..☹️
Tried to call him a few other times during the day but it was impossible to reach him. I imagine that by then he was comforting his mum/ brother so phone was not exactly his priority, of course.
We exchanged a few brief messages though where I told him he shouldn't worry about getting back to me, that unfortunately I couldn't take his pain away, but if he needed to speak or unload, I would be here.
This episode has been on my mind 24/7. Im completely heartbroken for what this guy is going through. He is very close to his family. And regardless of what happened between us, it hurts me to see him hurt.
I've sent a couple of other messages here and there always reassuring him he doesnt have to answer, just to tell him Im praying for his family and shall he needs, Im still here. Im sure he has a lot to deal with now, and will have for the next days, months..years? His life will never be the same without his dad.
I have no right to make this about me, but my heart broke a little last Friday too and I truly wish I could help him. But this is a fight no one can fight for him..
Im now giving him space not to add any stress to what he is already going through. Perhaps when he is back in town I'll just quickly drop by with some food..
In the meantime, Im wondering if any of you ever lost a parent and if you want to share the emotions that went through you. And if you did, what do you find supportive in this situation.
This has haunted me all weekend ?