opinions welcome!

"you have to realize that you are asking a lot from this person.
you want to control them, but you don't want to be exclusive.
you want the sex, but you don't want the relationship...
personally, i'd tell you to get lost."
Wait!! I wanted to be exclusive and HE didnt.
I want the sex but so does he. He actually said he wanted "friendship with sex"
these are all things he wants too...what's the issue here? I'm telling you my ego-desires and inner conflicts, don't take it all as face value!