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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
aaaawwww thank you Virgo102. *puffs out chest with pride*
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Feb 15, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1953 · Topics: 18
My flatmate...dormmate and I don't give a woot of what she thinks. As far as I am concerned...I live alone.
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And what are you wearing Mr Bling...just a shirt and perhaps some boxers over that washboard chest of yours? Oh my...when did I turn into such a flirt?
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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
i'm starting to think you have a feline obsession...hm, well, can't say i blame you
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what he has is a lot but he may not be able to have a relationship. When he wants to he is sexy,sweet and his voice is amazing. He is exceptionally smart.. business wise I must say hes one of the most driven and we have great conversations at times..He is strong, bullheaded and confident.. I love those things. I believe he cares about me but I also believe he will not be rushed will not make another wrong choice as he feels his first wife was and because of that he is way way slow in making any relationship go forward. He told me one day hes not rushing anything- not anymore.. so he may not work for me.. but as far as his personal makeup- hes a good man. He has probably had it easy as far as attracting women and I think hes been pretty superficial in the type he has picked.. so hes been with some bad scenes.. plus if hes this tuff you know every normal women walks.. I keep seeing past this whole act and when we hang and talk I see who he is.. I think he knows that and it makes him nervous... so yeah I dont describe all the things I like because I try to figure out the things about him I dont like.. those are the things I need help on.. but in the whole scheme of things i dont regret the relationship - its been fun.. but I have to look ahead.. and that part is a bit sketchy.. so yes now its time...
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Thanks for everyones input. Yes, I thought of that too that he won't quit until HE is ready. Hes lived here for about 2 years and from what I can tell he got in with the wrong crowd right away and stayed there. I know I mean a whole lot to him and hopefully one day he will see that there are "normal" people out there and that he doesnt need that drug to make him "feel better". I know it wont happen over night and I know I cant put a time limit on it. So I'll just take it day by day.
I am concerned about his whole past and I know that has a lot to do with his emotional state. He told me that I can abuse him yell at him, do whatever and he can take it, but when I push him away it tears him up. So I will try to just be there and try really hard not to nag or get too mad at him. I know myself and when i'm mad or frustrated I just shut down, keep quiet and go think...."pushing him away" basically. Not meaning to do so, but thats how he sees it.