How do Gemini moons deal with heartbreaks?
The gem moons I know flit from place to place and even though I might not understand their way of feeling, they do have feelings. It's just processed a different way than most. So gem moons, how do you deal with heart break? Do you clam up? Talk to more people? Just explode then go back to normal? How long do you deal with heart break? A few months? Years? Under what circumstances would you grieve longer or harder?
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Posted by tizianiPosted by boxcarmirnta"And i am extremely stoic and aloof"Posted by tizianiOmg you're right... I was just thinking of the parallels of that dude. Hahaha... Well i made it clear i wanted him to come visit.. I agree men think women will just fawn all over them.. And i am extremely stoic and aloof.. Too much fucking aqua in my chart. Erf. He had just done the sweetest thing too.... And i was so happy and shocked... And then i sorta didn't know what to say and stopped chatting for a day... But jeez is he really that sensitive?? I mean women need to time to process and guard our hearts too!!Posted by boxcarmirntaOnly you would know lolPosted by tizianiBut.... Why?
I'm guessing, like Fisk said, to try and get a reaction or see you emotional.
I've never brought up other women in that sense, but it's one possible answer to your thread.
Maybe you are a cool customer or have been playing it cool. I see generally men are raised to believe and "expect" women are going to get all these feels about him. And if he doesn't see that + throw in some immaturity in there, then he's going to be all over the place.
You have some dude in the Pisces forum doing exactly that just now.
Yeah, so there you go lol I'm not going to say it doesn't suck, it does, but it takes someone with a very steady hand not to be phased by what you have going on there. People seek reassurance, I've done some things to seek it. I don't bring up other women because .... I don't know, I just think it's unnecessary and straight up rude to try to step on someone like that and see if they react.
The real issue is even if you see someone is seeking reassurance from you, whether respectfully or otherwise, you still don't know if they are genuinely invested in your of if they're just doing it to satisfy their own ego.
But on this issue it sounds like a reassurance thing.click to expand
I agree it is rude.. But you kinda opened my eyes to something ...i know thats who i am.. But i just wanna let my guard down cuz of how many men have been dicks!! Def something to think about..
Posted by OrGasMePosted by boxcarmirntaI understand that. And it SUCKS, trust me I've experienced a lot of 'not being good enough' scenarios in my life from not only lovers but significant family members. It used to be a real struggle bus. But what I learned is that no matter how 'good' I attempted to portray myself to the world didn't matter as long as I truly didn't believe in myself. If I didn't think highly of myself, no one else would either. So please, don't give up hope or use these frustrating situations to reflect your own disposition on being worthy of a good relationship.Posted by OrGasMeAgreed. Just tired of games and used to the worst case scenario coming true. :/
It sounds like the Leeb might be testing you and playing with your emotions to see how much interest you have- not cool.
Just a guess though.
Also, to your comment about assuming he found someone else and you not wanting to date anymore... Mind over matter. Don't begin to assume you don't measure up to what he wants, or you never will.
This Leeb sounds insecure. And if it doesn't work out, there's a good reason for it.
Best of luck to you regardless!click to expand
I hear you.. Thanks. Good advice.. For everyone!
Posted by YasmineMinyour pisces sun conjunct venus in 1st house? mine are in cap. i also have aqua moon like you but it's in 2nd house not 12thPosted by iCloud9Omg we have the same placements. What sign are they in?
neptune alone in 12
introvert by choice. not shy. i don't have a problem organizing parties / events actually so not anti-social when i want to do it. not often though. it's probably due to my sun conjunct venus in 1st house, i love being with hubby all the time without feeling drained. others drain me after half an hourclick to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntaHaha I have a libra moon.Posted by AdreamuponwakingUgh fuck libras.Posted by boxcarmirntaHahaPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by rabidtalkerPosted by natsPossibly but she may have lost them.
I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.
...
Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
especially with venus in aries.
they are really fickle you know.
The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.
Hey now! I am not fickle..
maybe your aqua moon saves you.
Just speaking from experience as i was raised by a pisces sun aries venus gemini moon
and had two best friends whom had both pisces sun aries venus placements.
one had a leo moon. and the other had a libra moon.
the leo moon was less fickle.
the libra moon broke so many hearts. she destroyed lives.lolclick to expand
I think I'm alright.
Posted by GemitatiNo you're not rightPosted by SofiaV87No it is not!Posted by GemitatiYes it isPosted by SofiaV87Is it normal?
Nothing, I have my man & my kid.. I'm sure I would feel some type of nostalgia though which is normal
Because if your 'nostalgia' will appear in yoir life - you will make original post we are dealing with now!
Am I right?
Title would be ' My nostalgia came back and I am married wit kids. What should o DO?'click to expand
If you're describing a pathological liar, then logically this occurs regardless of sun sign...
If you're talking about a Leo you know personally, then I have no idea why.
But for mehself and maybe Leo's in general it's a no go.
It sounds like you're describing George Constanza tho
If you're talking about a Leo you know personally, then I have no idea why.
But for mehself and maybe Leo's in general it's a no go.
It sounds like you're describing George Constanza tho
Posted by boxcarmirntaUm...thats a typical move guys pull to inspire jealousy so you'll compete for them
When he's coming to see me, hence i assumed it was ME he was after.. I get that you guys are charming and flirty and not serious til you are REALLY serious about someone.. Thats fine i get that.. But i feel like it's kinda disrespectful to cross that line, even if you are dating or looking at other people. I date a lot but i would never talk about other men to them.. That's thoughtless.. This makes no sense to me.. And if he just wants to be friends (also fine)why offer to drive several hours to see me?? Bizarre..
Posted by youngaliThis might be cliche, but if I'm not with a person then they weren't the love of my life. I believe that if someone is meant for you, they won't pass you by.
what would you do if the love of your life came back, but you were now married with a child?
I would probably greet him like an old friend, ask how he's doing, introduce him to the love of my life, wish him all the best, and walk away knowing that he played a part in who I am today and that I'm forever accepting of that.
I would think they're butthurt because I'm not
tolerating their crap anymore.
tolerating their crap anymore.
Cancers?