Posted by EtherealTraveler

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Posted by EtherealTraveler
I'm a Cap sun/asc/mercury, Pisces moon/mars, Sag venus/pluto. My pluto conjuncts my venus and squares mars, making me having a degree of Scorpio traits in love.

The person I'm going to talk about is rather Taurus dominant, and has mars in 8th house, making her just as deadly.

I recently found myself entering an emotional affair with a young girl of 20 years old. She's the sweetest person you could possibly met, and we spent hours and hours talking to each other everyday because we're so interested in others, we even confessed our feelings to each other, but we can't date because we both have complicated backgrounds.

She told me her secrets and so did I. Everything went along finely until I decided to weave lies; lies that make this affair even more like a fairy tale as well as making her happy.

She found out later on, and we had an argument of three days. I decided to be honest with all my lies, that I wasn't what she think I am (I used a different identity for a long time and I met her with that identity), she got even more upset and concluded that I'm not the same person as the "love of her life", despite the messages are all by me. She accused me of being a liar, manipulator, and all I do is to hurt and destroy.

She calmed down days later and gave me a chance to be friends with me again, but I already felt distant, apart and hurt. I don't feel that excitement when I see her, but more of fear and detachment, I suddenly felt how judgmental she is and how she can just pretend I never lied so I can keep on feeling loved.

I lashed out at her about my frustrations, and we have yet another huge argument, and since she was part of the group I'm in and I'm in a higher position than her, I banned her swiftly. She made a new group and was basically copying what I did. It felt like war.

So I decided to abuse the information she gave me, such as intimate pictures she gave me (a nude) and her secrets and posted it in different groups. She responded by having people spy on me and tried to gain information based on my trust to them. I dispatched them all. Many of our friends also tried to stop the drama but it didn't work as both of us, especially me, is determined and stubborn about making each other suffer.

Although this happened and I stood strong, I felt a sense of emptiness and pain and remorse. I don't want to push her to insanity and hurt her like what I'm doing right now, but yet I get even more angry when I see her name pop up in my screen again. Both of us are unwilling to block each other, though she is ignoring my messages.

I don't know anymore. I want to hurt her yet I feel remorse. Help?

dude that's not nice.

I realized Which is why I feel remorse despite using such methods, I feel like she robbed my happiness from me, I don't feel complete anymore as a result. I've been rather lonely emotionally and I need to get intimate, it was only I talked to her that I realized my needs.

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Posted by Scorpino
@poison_ivy awww, you make me feel like I want to be in love lol. I just adore hearing about everyone's good relationships. ??❤️

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Posted by bittercupcake
I'm guessing...two people ...? One possibly being you...? You guys would get a long well...but idk if it's always a good thing to marry your sun sign...unless other things in the chart create balance...having the same moon...my Gosh... especially Aries moon..? Beware of the combustible qualities of an Aries moon with the longetivity anger of a Leo sun...."sprinkle some pride"

their house would be on fire

They'd burn to the ground...!!! The house!!! The roof is on fire!!! ? ? lmao

Too much energy being dispersed...eventually you'd be worn out....or fed up of the constant struggles

Already happening. A lot of push and pull. And I think both wanting to be in control, to some degree.

The fact he's saying he doesn't care...isnt a good sign... shows immaturatity...and emotional abuse.... I don't see this progressing to something better.

What's your age...? His..?

Yeah, he can be confusing. Both in our early 30s. He is 3 years older.

Confusing...? I find that odd...as you guys seem very similar...? What's the confuasiob...?

I feel like he shows one face with me and one with everyone else. Sometimes it seems like he is being protective or jealous, but then other times its like he doesn't care. Like he says or does something "for the boys".

Aries moon...tend to be show offs and deep down people pleasers...for the sake of coming off as the "man"...my ex was that way... liked to show who was boss and at times overstepped boundaries... but at home...totally clingy ... jealous... demanding... it varied and he was all over the place

I have an Aries moon, but I'm not like that with showing off. I do like to please people.

How did you deal with him when he overstepped?

...in public I would just get serious and give him the eye ... (means you're in trouble) ... then as soon as we'd get in the car or home I'd let it rip...and go off...in the beginning he would be caught off guard because I would play along...but eventually he got the message...in private I would do the same until I was ready to talk but he was so persistent...so I'd go off on him...

Eventually I got tired of being overstepped like that...and at times humiliated... he would like to push me down to make himself higher than me...always competing with me... and failed to empathize with situations simply because he had never gone through them... it got exhausting so at the end of the relationship I didn't care anymore...he humiliated me... I would do the same and do it harder than he could ever do it to me... if he'd hurt me I'd hurt him 2X over... until he got the message to stop fcking with me... there were still moments where he'd like to provoke me to get a rise out of me... which I hated... Aries thrive off conflict... it gives them excitement... to me it's like "grow up already"... this is petty

Sounds like you made the best choice. Nobody deserves to be constantly disrespected like that.

Something like that happened with this leo. I'm currently debating, though leaning towards no, if I want to keep him in my life at all. We have a long history.

males and females differ...and I see a huge difference in male Aries and female Aries.... Aries females are aggressive yet tender... are much more mature...men need a doormat challenge...someone they can suckle on and put up with their BS...hence why I got fed up...

I think you should just end things before things become progressively worse...

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

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depends on a few things...Is your friend black? cause if he is hes screwed lol..If hes white things a work out for him

Lol if the judge is black he's got a chance tho lol

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