It Was Only SEX!!
I think I may be in a lil bit of trouble. I met this virgo male at work and one day his first week here we went out for happy hr like the crew usually does 2xs a month. Anyway that day I was off and I came to happy hr looking good! well he noticed me and all he did was flirt flirt flirt. the following week we hooked up 3 times. Oh my GOD!!! I HIT THAT OPERA NOTE!!!! Well we hadnt seen each other for a month cuz then he started school and he switched shifts which was ideal for me. but for the last 6 wks....Weve been kicken it and DOING IT! I know for a fact we should be just friends cuz he's newly divorced and he still cares about his ex. she was an aries as well. There are always two sides of the story and so far he makes her seem like a monster. she and I have the same birthdate. How Ironic....
So now I wana break it off cuz I am starting to like him. besides him being newly divorced he's wrapped in his schooling and work and his passion..Music. No room for a girlfriend there. So I talk myself out of liking him too much by talking to him about other men I like. I'll say things like..."oh man I wish that guy was single, I want him!" all of a sudden he mentions something about us and says things like did you have fun last nite...was I good"
I make him feel like I aint got feelings for him at all. especially when he said himself he dont want a girl friend for all the reasons i mentioned. but the sex is great and our conversations are too. What am I supposed to do? I am trying soo hard to be logical and protect my heart...but he's great and I like having him as a friend. i mean i cud totally spend one nite together just chatting and not have sex...could he though? Does he like me or is it just sex.
He said he refuses to have one nite stands or multiple partners...i agree. but with time spent emotions grow......
He's like the sun and I am the Flower....What do I do????
So now I wana break it off cuz I am starting to like him. besides him being newly divorced he's wrapped in his schooling and work and his passion..Music. No room for a girlfriend there. So I talk myself out of liking him too much by talking to him about other men I like. I'll say things like..."oh man I wish that guy was single, I want him!" all of a sudden he mentions something about us and says things like did you have fun last nite...was I good"
I make him feel like I aint got feelings for him at all. especially when he said himself he dont want a girl friend for all the reasons i mentioned. but the sex is great and our conversations are too. What am I supposed to do? I am trying soo hard to be logical and protect my heart...but he's great and I like having him as a friend. i mean i cud totally spend one nite together just chatting and not have sex...could he though? Does he like me or is it just sex.
He said he refuses to have one nite stands or multiple partners...i agree. but with time spent emotions grow......
He's like the sun and I am the Flower....What do I do????
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